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Minnie, 40

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I am a single mom. I love my children, my two puppies and my job. I love to laugh and would love to meet someone that can do that with me. I am painfully independant but not overbearing. I am lighthearted but not dumb, by any means. I am kind but not weak. I would consider myself intelligent, street smart, a pain in the ass some times (lol), thoughtful, caring, forgiving, crazy (but not insane). In general, you either love me or hate me....thankfully I have a large network of awesome friends so I would like to think it is more the former than the latter.I would like to meet someone that I could comfortably spend time with a grow to know at our own pace. I like just about everyone, except purely mean spirited people, know-it-alls, one-upers, liars, cheaters and the amazingly irriatating whiners.NEW SIDE NOTE ***Still being stood up....not liking this....could someone explain why??? One of the "whys" I plan on pondering....NEWER SIDE NOTE ***Why ***, text me or call me....ask me to go out or meet you and then change your mind 5 min later or not respond to last text with final arrangements???? Really???? THIS IS WHY THIS DOESN'T WORK!!!!! everyone here is so full of it or himself.....Newest side note ***this blows!!! If I wanted pen pals....I'd write an inmate in the state correctional facility. I want to meet a REAL PERSON! WHO IS WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE AND DONT *** me about what they want. If all your looking for is a piece. ...well I may not be your girl. You gotta at least do the dance... at little at least. A really fun girl that STILL DOES have a FEW OLD FASHION IDEAS. lolAMAZINGLY RECENT SIDE NOTE ***: OMG.. do not contact me if you are completely self-centered, take more time in the bathroom than I do, typically date woman YOU CONSIDER to be less attractive than yourself to make you appear better, talk about nothing other than all the women looking at you or your ex blowing up your phone begging to come backup to try to make me jeleous. EEEWWWWWWW. AT THE MOMENT ***: I'm a good sport.... still playing the 'GAME".... somehow on the losing end but I'll hang in there...lol I am a sucker for the long shot.. and since I'm it... I'm ALL IN!!! I got this, all day long and TWICE on Sunday ;***: gentlemen, I do not want you to send me pics of your penis, videos of you handling your peins or anything remotly close. The WORST offenders are the ones who shouldn't be that proud anyway...just saying......***ok.... she's back. Anything new I should see???? keeping my fingers crossed. ;***OMG.... MAYBE its me....lol... but I don't think so.....just wrong choice over and over. Help me break the pattern......***here I am AGAIN!!!! OMG... Just in time for the holidays!!!! Yeah me!!!! lol.... jk. it is what it is. I REFUSE to sacrafice QUALITY to just "have someone". It has occurred to me this week (hellish week) that it is true - IF YOU TREAT YOU MOTHER POORLY and if you are willing LIE TO YOUR OWN YOUNG CHILDREN to "get out" when all you ever are is OUT .... what the hell are you gonna do to me???? Am I crazy??? lol Isn't it amazing, and TRUE, the best lessons in life are the HARDEST learned? I try to spin it and take away a learning experience everyHope you enjoyed my newest entry... all wisdom comes at a price. I paid it and and now passing it along gentlemen... Don't be "that guy". Be a "good guy" Girls dig that...... ;-) in addition to being a "rare find" especially on meetville - hell, actually anywhere anymore......I***. Here she goes again... lol. Still here... still looking... BY CHOICE gentlemen. I enjoy good company, good conversation. And am still holding out fir one that "wows" me ... ;-) xoxo First of all, please just be who you say you are. Look like you say you do. Don't tell me what you think I WANT to hear...you never know what that might be. Be on time, or call. DON'T STAND ME UP! Other than that, we can talk about it and see what sounds like fun.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ida

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person

  • Bobbi

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I didn't see hyper active under the personality? Or maybe I missed it - Squirrel.Love to laugh and be outside. I go out with my friends during the week. We do lots of different activities - wine tasting, grilling out, kayaking, walking, social gatherings, et cetera. I love to be outside, rather doing landscaping or going for a run. Love to get dressed up for a play or gala, come home and change into jeans/shorts and work in the yard. I need the same versatility in a significant other.Love my girls - yes I am talking about my dogs. They go with me everywhere. They seem to attract more attention than most and are very lovable as am I.Okay, let's leave something to talk about on the first date. Let's grab a cup of coffee. Time to listen and talk.

  • Cherie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hello. Iam 35, with kids! Which are teens! There awesome! own my home and work hard!! Iam a happy person, outgoing love to laugh..motto is only live once. Love concerts, amusement parks ,going movies, I really like to go danceing..live bands! Also love being home with kids cooking dinner and watching movies. I like to cook big dinners. Iam super easy to get along wit and talk to! Have lots of friends. I like surprises!

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