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Ida
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person
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Mia
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
If you are not going to take the time to read my full profile, please do not contact me. It's frustrating to answer questions when the answer of some questions are aleady in my profile. Just sayin'. Also, I AM NOT ON HERE FOR A HOOK UP! I am looking for that one person that I can trust, believe, have faith in, who would never purposely do anything to hurt me. Someone who makes a conscience decision to not do things that might jeopardize our relationship. I am looking for my best friend. That one person I can do anything with, the one person that I can talk about anything to. I am not interested in drama, lies, betrayal, or anything negative. In return, I will do the same for that person. Life is too short to be unhappy, so happiness all the way, with the understanding that sometimes life throws us curveballs; but nothing too big within our control that we cannot overcome. Honesty is very important. Without trust, there is nothing. I don't have "favorites", meaning, I try to enjoy all things. I don't have a favorite song, music, movie genre's, activities, etc. I am open to doing new things, within reason that is. I try to find the positives in life. Some people might complain of a rainy day, I look at it more as: well, I can get stuff done around the house so I can enjoy the next good weather day. Or, I look at rainy days as "cuddle weather" time. There is so much that I am sure that I can put in this section of my profile, but if you are wanting to get to know me, then contact me and we will go from there. :) I do have children, but please do not ask me questions about them as I do not know you at this time. Also, please note that my profile says "separated". I am giving you the truth. I am not interested in making that work, I tried, but it failed. I have realized that with that relationship, no matter what I did, the other party involved would/could not step up to do the right things to maintain it. Until resolved, I have felt that I have been in limbo and that is not where I want to be. I do think that one should finish something before you goes on...but in this case...it is now a waiting thing and I choose to be happy, so who is with me?***I am not trying to be rude or mean by my next statement in anyway...but...I would prefer that you be atleast 5'10" maybe 5'9", but ideally 5'10" or taller. I love wearing my pretty shoes and I really don't want to put them on and then I'm taller than you. For me, it's just uncomfortable. Please also have witts to you. I just do not prefer to have a conversation with someone that seems to be clueless about everything. I don't expect you to know everything about everything, but I'm not wanting to talk to an idiot either. Players, liars, cheaters, beaters, drama filled people, negative people, no ambition/drive/motivation, and problem starters - STAY AWAY! Again, I am open to many things. I can't really say what I would prefer a first date to be, other than, use this time to get to know the person. I would not prefer the first date to be something like going to a movie. If we were to go to a movie, we are not giving the other person our attention. The attention would be on the movie...so I don't recommend that for a first date. Something more along the lines of a picnic, a museum, an amusement park, a zoo, or maybe even walk around a city/town and explore what that town has to offer. This way, we are doing something together, with the opportunity to talk and get to know what each likes and doesn't. I think those things would probably be good for a SECOND date...so how about, the first date be a casual, get to know each other conversation during a nice walk or a cup of coffee?
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Bobbi
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I didn't see hyper active under the personality? Or maybe I missed it - Squirrel.Love to laugh and be outside. I go out with my friends during the week. We do lots of different activities - wine tasting, grilling out, kayaking, walking, social gatherings, et cetera. I love to be outside, rather doing landscaping or going for a run. Love to get dressed up for a play or gala, come home and change into jeans/shorts and work in the yard. I need the same versatility in a significant other.Love my girls - yes I am talking about my dogs. They go with me everywhere. They seem to attract more attention than most and are very lovable as am I.Okay, let's leave something to talk about on the first date. Let's grab a cup of coffee. Time to listen and talk.