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Ruthie, 50

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I'm an art director and have a degree (BFA) in art. I do a lot of work as a graphic designer as well as other areas of my profession. So, yes, i love museums and culture, architecture & history, but i also love books, movies and simple things. I used to dj on college radio for ***? years and I pretty much love most music including genres like alt, indie, some classic rock, and a fondness for Bach, pretty much most music except country music, which is just fine if you like it, as long as you don’t take over ALL of the radio channel preset buttons in the car. ;)I think it's nice to be with someone who also wants to sometimes just be in each other's company, even if we're doing different things. I like company. Of course if it leads to something greater, i would like that very much. I love to travel. I’;; S.F. the most. I think it's important to be tolerant of others and their differences. I prefer no drama, but i do like romantic gestures. I'm very loyal and I'd love a companion who appreciates me as much as I value them. I love to share things, but I am also a pretty good listener. I like to give my full attention and indulge the man I care about.If you have kids that’s great. I love kids. I think it’s an amazing experience and is truly one of the most important jobs in life, too. I have one son and he’s away off in college, so I’m child free now. So I'm pretty flexible whether you have kids or don’t. There are lots of things to find to appreciate about each other, so most things shouldn't be a deal-breaker, i'm pretty tolerant. I’m scared to ride motorcycles so that’s probably not one of them. I love science and have a sense of wonder about the world. I love to learn. If there is something you are really into, chances are I might take an interest as well. I have a love of adventure. I think something casual and simple would be a best first date, meet at a cafe over coffee or something. I actually love movies, and i think it’s possible at least initially, to engage in conversation before and afterwards. Nothing should be so stressful that you find you are not enjoying it. I prefer low-key, getting-to-know-each-other kind of vibe. And who knows, if things work out great, well then that's cause to celebrate maybe and do something special together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Danielle

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Well the caption above is about how I feel. I know eveyone on here states no "drama" I would love a man definition of that please! I was also told I started dating to soon! I am a unique individual unlike what some might think! I have 3 kids 2 live with me and one doesn't. I have the normal everyday issues to deal with like evEry other person that has teenagers that live with them. I am tired of getting hurt by men that either can't deal with the fact that when you are with a pretty woman men tend to look or old boyfriends regret not continuing what they once had! That isn't the womans fault. Lack of communication! I want a man that is strong enough to deal with someone that has kids to someone else and isn't insecure because he comes to see his kids. I am secure in what I want! I will always have a rapport with my kids Dad no matter what. No I don't want a relationship with him but I do want him to have one with his kids! No man needs to be confused about that! As far as dating I want a man that is in this for the long haul! I don't feel kids need to meet your boyfriend until you are both sure its going to work! Oh better out this out there. I am an honest person and I guess some guys can't handle that! If a guy calls me I tell you if a guy says something to me I talk about it plz if something bothers you I can't read your mind you need to communicate! And for some reason men don't understand I don't like conflict but I will not be walked on and I will protect my own and will stand my own ground! I have a big heart and I do a lot for others. That's me. I work a lot I am a pediatric nurse and I am a single mother yes I have a lot on my plate but *** being told I started dating to soon how about man up if ya don't like me say so. I will always be busy my job my kids and family BUt I want a man in my life for me not that I need a man to take care of me I don't. Please understand I have time for a relationship! I would like to meet someone that can respect my decisions but if they don't understand why then ask. Everyone has drama if you will. In their own way unless you have no kids and have never loved before oh and have a financial advisor guess maybe you don't. But I do have a positive outlook on life and I want happiness but normalcy and drama are just words that every individual defines different! Any men out there that enjoy motorcycles quads football horses and a woman that is pretty and has a heart did I mention I have a brain? Mental connections make a great relationship physical attraction yep tall dark and handsome hard to resist! First date... Coffee. A beer. A good conversation. ?

  • Smithbeth6Dc

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-32

    Hi! My name is Smithbeth6Dc. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Bend, Oregon, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Chris

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    If your looking for a "chat life" NEXT! I'm a southern bell tomboy mix..I don't change tires, take out the garbage or carry groceries in. But, on the other hand I'll bait my own hook and get muddy almost anyday. Now that's it's spring, I just love taking my shoes off and feeling the grass between my toes!.......)...LOL....... That skill and the thrill of catching those crawldads.. all the while ready to move out of the way...real...real...fast from those terrifying snakes! It's just too much fun, especially when your there laughing at me everytime I flinch or scream... Then maybe, just maybe... while laughing...I Might Put The Fear Of God In You!...OMG...LOL..That's what I call fun!!! Even Though It's ***I Find It EXTREMELY Hard To Make 1st Contact Here!!... (Momma Would Have Killed Me If She Caught Me Calling A Boy) Wine tasteing?..........Wise man said:"If you find a man loves you for your faults, is willing to sacrifice his life supporting his family (which includes you!) and is completely loyal if not the most exciting man...hold on to him for dear life because it means he really loves you..." I am looking for the love of my life (marriage). I know I may never find him, but I will not waste my time in a "comfortable relationship". I'll know when he's not the one and never will be.....so I'm a firm believer in letting go. *She had to be special* I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her man through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good man never hurts his woman, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfaltering. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, her soul - the place where love resides. Me.... Stay at home mom. Married *** 3/4yrs of age wasn't pregnant...just ran off with high school sweetheart.. lasted 12 years...had 2 boys....Been divorced 12 years...all the kids moved back to Ky so here I am after 18 yrs in Ia. In the last 12 yrs I've had a few 1st dates...lol and 2 short term relationships...jus sayin... I know times are hard, but I expect a man my age to be a home owner and financially secure******

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