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Ruthie, 50
United States, Oregon, Bend

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I'm an art director and have a degree (BFA) in art. I do a lot of work as a graphic designer as well as other areas of my profession. So, yes, i love museums and culture, architecture & history, but i also love books, movies and simple things. I used to dj on college radio for ***? years and I pretty much love most music including genres like alt, indie, some classic rock, and a fondness for Bach, pretty much most music except country music, which is just fine if you like it, as long as you don’t take over ALL of the radio channel preset buttons in the car. ;)I think it's nice to be with someone who also wants to sometimes just be in each other's company, even if we're doing different things. I like company. Of course if it leads to something greater, i would like that very much. I love to travel. I’;; S.F. the most. I think it's important to be tolerant of others and their differences. I prefer no drama, but i do like romantic gestures. I'm very loyal and I'd love a companion who appreciates me as much as I value them. I love to share things, but I am also a pretty good listener. I like to give my full attention and indulge the man I care about.If you have kids that’s great. I love kids. I think it’s an amazing experience and is truly one of the most important jobs in life, too. I have one son and he’s away off in college, so I’m child free now. So I'm pretty flexible whether you have kids or don’t. There are lots of things to find to appreciate about each other, so most things shouldn't be a deal-breaker, i'm pretty tolerant. I’m scared to ride motorcycles so that’s probably not one of them. I love science and have a sense of wonder about the world. I love to learn. If there is something you are really into, chances are I might take an interest as well. I have a love of adventure. I think something casual and simple would be a best first date, meet at a cafe over coffee or something. I actually love movies, and i think it’s possible at least initially, to engage in conversation before and afterwards. Nothing should be so stressful that you find you are not enjoying it. I prefer low-key, getting-to-know-each-other kind of vibe. And who knows, if things work out great, well then that's cause to celebrate maybe and do something special together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Turkish Romance Western Drag Racing Soccer / Football Volleyball
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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