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Chris, 49
United States, Oregon, Bend

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If your looking for a "chat life" NEXT! I'm a southern bell tomboy mix..I don't change tires, take out the garbage or carry groceries in. But, on the other hand I'll bait my own hook and get muddy almost anyday. Now that's it's spring, I just love taking my shoes off and feeling the grass between my toes!.......)...LOL....... That skill and the thrill of catching those crawldads.. all the while ready to move out of the way...real...real...fast from those terrifying snakes! It's just too much fun, especially when your there laughing at me everytime I flinch or scream... Then maybe, just maybe... while laughing...I Might Put The Fear Of God In You!...OMG...LOL..That's what I call fun!!! Even Though It's ***I Find It EXTREMELY Hard To Make 1st Contact Here!!... (Momma Would Have Killed Me If She Caught Me Calling A Boy) Wine tasteing?..........Wise man said:"If you find a man loves you for your faults, is willing to sacrifice his life supporting his family (which includes you!) and is completely loyal if not the most exciting man...hold on to him for dear life because it means he really loves you..." I am looking for the love of my life (marriage). I know I may never find him, but I will not waste my time in a "comfortable relationship". I'll know when he's not the one and never will be.....so I'm a firm believer in letting go. *She had to be special* I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her man through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good man never hurts his woman, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfaltering. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, her soul - the place where love resides. Me.... Stay at home mom. Married *** 3/4yrs of age wasn't pregnant...just ran off with high school sweetheart.. lasted 12 years...had 2 boys....Been divorced 12 years...all the kids moved back to Ky so here I am after 18 yrs in Ia. In the last 12 yrs I've had a few 1st dates...lol and 2 short term relationships...jus sayin... I know times are hard, but I expect a man my age to be a home owner and financially secure******

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Fitness / Gym Shopping Soccer / Football
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