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Chris, 49
United States, Oregon, Bend

Offline, last seen Sat, 17 May 2025 22:05:11

About Me

If your looking for a "chat life" NEXT! I'm a southern bell tomboy mix..I don't change tires, take out the garbage or carry groceries in. But, on the other hand I'll bait my own hook and get muddy almost anyday. Now that's it's spring, I just love taking my shoes off and feeling the grass between my toes!.......)...LOL....... That skill and the thrill of catching those crawldads.. all the while ready to move out of the way...real...real...fast from those terrifying snakes! It's just too much fun, especially when your there laughing at me everytime I flinch or scream... Then maybe, just maybe... while laughing...I Might Put The Fear Of God In You!...OMG...LOL..That's what I call fun!!! Even Though It's ***I Find It EXTREMELY Hard To Make 1st Contact Here!!... (Momma Would Have Killed Me If She Caught Me Calling A Boy) Wine tasteing?..........Wise man said:"If you find a man loves you for your faults, is willing to sacrifice his life supporting his family (which includes you!) and is completely loyal if not the most exciting man...hold on to him for dear life because it means he really loves you..." I am looking for the love of my life (marriage). I know I may never find him, but I will not waste my time in a "comfortable relationship". I'll know when he's not the one and never will be.....so I'm a firm believer in letting go. *She had to be special* I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her man through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good man never hurts his woman, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfaltering. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, her soul - the place where love resides. Me.... Stay at home mom. Married *** 3/4yrs of age wasn't pregnant...just ran off with high school sweetheart.. lasted 12 years...had 2 boys....Been divorced 12 years...all the kids moved back to Ky so here I am after 18 yrs in Ia. In the last 12 yrs I've had a few 1st dates...lol and 2 short term relationships...jus sayin... I know times are hard, but I expect a man my age to be a home owner and financially secure******

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Fitness / Gym Shopping Soccer / Football
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am divorced and have one child. I am looking for the right guy to have a relationship with. The right guy would probably be someone who is nice, honest, sincere, attractive, very funny, intelligent, outgoing and romantic. Is that too much to ask for??? Lol! Also, looking for someone that enjoys outdoor activities such as golf, baseball games, KC football games (yes, I know), exercising, working out, walks, going to the lake, boat rides, any sporting event, art festivals, music festivals, outdoor grilling, cooking, bonfires, yard work, and golf cart rides! Ha ha. I enjoy indoor activities such as going to the movies, renting a movie, card or board games, cooking, hanging out with friends. I only have one demand that must be included in the daily routine and that is laughter. I love, love, love humor. I will try my best to make you smile and laugh.I have a young child and I enjoy children and children's activities. I love hanging out with my son. I have a fairly large family..... So, when we do all get together, the house is full! I love to visit and hang out with my family. There is always lots of laughter and fun times! I love family and I have the greatest parents in the world. One thing that is so important to me is laughter. I love to crack up and joke around and laugh till it hurts (or till I pee my pants!.......Kidding!!!). So, a sense of humor in the personality is a must. I love to have fun!!!Lastly, I am a very nice, kind, honest and trustworthy person with good values. First, let's meet and talk and get to know each other and see how things go. If we hit it off first time, then second meet we can try a date with dinner and drinks and visit more or some other activity where we could talk and get to know each other more.

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  • Joni from Bend | Woman | 49 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there - I'm glad you took the time to read this..... I would describe myself as a happy camper! I wake up in the mornings happy especially after I reach for a diet dew....my bad habit....LOL I try to make work fun for all of those around me....I have great friends and love hanging with them after work....they are my support group!I love to do home projects or should I say I dream up the ideas, I just need a man to help me get them done! ha haI have a fun, loving and honest personality and I smile a lot.....makes people think you are up to something....LOLI have one son who will be a senior in high school this year.....which means I will have the empty nest syndrome this time next year when he goes off to college....ugh! He is more than I could of ever asked for in a son.....he gets good grades, he's funny, he has a job.....yeah! And he stops long enough to give me a hug when he sees I need it....I come from a family of 5 kids........I was right in the middle too.....I used to be a tough gal but somewhere along the line of life, I softened and now I prefer my lip gloss.....ha! :) I have lost both my parents and a younger brother....so I truly know that life is too short.....I want to meet the man that will stick by me and hold my hand.....I haven't had the best of luck in the "relationship" department and I am ready to be dealt a good hand for a change....I might be wounded, but I'm not completely broken.....still a hopeless romantic believing there is a nice guy out there that will appreciate me for who I am..... Dinner, sitting in a cozy spot...moving on to a small bar or winery....so we can visit and get to know each other......going to movie on the first date is out.....I don't feel you get to know the person very well.....

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I want (not need)n awesome man who wants to be serious n comment n not just blow smoke up my ass.... I'm a fun loving woman n I go above n beyond to make my man feel wanted n I expect the same in return..... I love the outdoors, being n the country, I love kids.... Hard worker I'm a queen not a princess I dont need to be saved or rescued lol..... Just lookn for someone to love on n get a lil wild with on a daily basis.... If it's u hmu :-)

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