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Shana, 49

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About Me

I'm not desperate for men, just never get out to meet any. Thought I'd give this a try. Used to never have a problem meeting people, then I guess new job less free time happened. Plus I was making sure my kids finished college! Taking care of parents, grandparents, everyone else that I forgot I might want someone in my life. Someone who has a great sense of humor but can be serious when need be. Someone willing to have me as a priority (but I don't expect to be main priority when kids are involved, but still a priority). Someone who has patience when need be. Spontaneous but stable! Tender and gentle, but strong! Someone who puts other people's feelings first, but isn't a pushover though! Someone who loves their family and has strong family values, but still lives their own lives and makes their own decisions. My kids are grown, working on living their own life and having their own families. I have three children and two grandbabies! I have spent the last nearly 30 years raising my children to be healthy, happy adults able to have their own lifes and families one day. I chose to put plans on hold and commit myself fully to raising them as best as I was able, and I think I did a pretty damn good job! I am proud of them all and no degree in the world can top having been able to just be called "Mom"! And I can be happy for the rest of my life by myself if need be. But if it doesn't have to be, why should it. So if I meet someone who clicks with me, then great. And if I just meet someone who ends up a good friend, well I'm always looking for new friends! I love the outdoors, just need plenty of sunscreen (natural redhead, I don't tan-I freckle alot or burn, neither a pretty sight!). I'm not looking for a sugar daddy either, you can't buy attraction. Please put a pic on your profile if you want to talk! If you don't want your pic public at least send me one with your first message or I WILL NOT respond! And please men, spare me excuse of how you work for the goverment and it would be a security risk to send a pic! Or you can't figure how to upload a pic! Don't assume I am stupid, *** gullible. I'm kind enough to let you see who you are talking to, return the favor. Otherwise you are just hiding something or yourself and in that case don't waste my time........ meet for coffee or a light drink, good conversation and go from there

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-29

    Hi! My name is Jennie. I am never married atheist caucasian woman without kids from Bend, Oregon, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Katie

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a down-to-earth independent gal that enjoys life and would like to share it with some one special. I love to laugh and have fun and with the right attitude life gives you many opportunities to do so. I find I laugh the hardest at myself. I am an optimistic person so I enjoy being around people who are optimistic as well! I'm sincere, stable, intelligent, trustworthy and non judgmental. My children, family and friends are important to me and I work hard to keep those relationships strong and healthy. Do you enjoy sports and fitness, movies, trying out new restaurants and outdoor activities? I would love to meet a man who is respectful, thoughtful and romantic but still is a man's man. I find kindness, intelligence, being true to your word and confidence along with a good sense of humor incredibly attractive. Do you like to work out, love to learn new things, are you driven professionally and most importantly do you lead a well balanced life? Do you appreciate the small things in life and realize it really is all the small things that make the big picture? Seeing the sunset, smelling coffee in the morning, lazy Saturdays, long hugs, feeling the sun on your face, taste of good wine, cool sheets on a hot day or flannel sheets in the winter and hearing a child giggle. I’m looking for a man who is comfortable with where he is at in life, can laugh at himself and not take life too seriously, be supportive and loving when needed in the relationship, and is capable of building a relationship one step at a time while being self-confident along the way. He is open with his feelings and knows what he is looking for and wants to get close to a woman for all the right reasons. He makes time for the special people in his life and yet takes care of himself too. I'm especially looking for someone who has dreams for their life and is willing to share them with a significant other. Let's see if there's a possibility to build some dreams together. Please have a Photo or I will not respond. Sitting down to coffee and meeting that other person for the first time. Listening to how the describe their life and passions. Sharing stories and laughing. It may be a quick 30 minutes or 3 hours. When the weather is nice having a place that allows you to sit outside is always nice. The first date is just that the first date, meaning you go with you heart and your mind open and just see what is there.

  • Ruthie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm an art director and have a degree (BFA) in art. I do a lot of work as a graphic designer as well as other areas of my profession. So, yes, i love museums and culture, architecture & history, but i also love books, movies and simple things. I used to dj on college radio for ***? years and I pretty much love most music including genres like alt, indie, some classic rock, and a fondness for Bach, pretty much most music except country music, which is just fine if you like it, as long as you don’t take over ALL of the radio channel preset buttons in the car. ;)I think it's nice to be with someone who also wants to sometimes just be in each other's company, even if we're doing different things. I like company. Of course if it leads to something greater, i would like that very much. I love to travel. I’;; S.F. the most. I think it's important to be tolerant of others and their differences. I prefer no drama, but i do like romantic gestures. I'm very loyal and I'd love a companion who appreciates me as much as I value them. I love to share things, but I am also a pretty good listener. I like to give my full attention and indulge the man I care about.If you have kids that’s great. I love kids. I think it’s an amazing experience and is truly one of the most important jobs in life, too. I have one son and he’s away off in college, so I’m child free now. So I'm pretty flexible whether you have kids or don’t. There are lots of things to find to appreciate about each other, so most things shouldn't be a deal-breaker, i'm pretty tolerant. I’m scared to ride motorcycles so that’s probably not one of them. I love science and have a sense of wonder about the world. I love to learn. If there is something you are really into, chances are I might take an interest as well. I have a love of adventure. I think something casual and simple would be a best first date, meet at a cafe over coffee or something. I actually love movies, and i think it’s possible at least initially, to engage in conversation before and afterwards. Nothing should be so stressful that you find you are not enjoying it. I prefer low-key, getting-to-know-each-other kind of vibe. And who knows, if things work out great, well then that's cause to celebrate maybe and do something special together.

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