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Tameka, 49
United States, Oregon, Bend

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You will always find me smiling, laughing, and, hopefully, making others smile and laugh too. I don't need a man to "complete" me, I am already complete and very happy with life. I am looking for someone that I can share all my smiles with, make him laugh and spoil him a little too. I want to be able to be vulnerable with someone and let them see that I may not always be able to handle everything alone, and not because I can't, but because, I don't want to anymore. I want a shoulder to lean on and,...if necessary, cry on. I want to allow someone to provide a strength that only a man can provide. I want to and will, adore someone who will appreciate even the little things I do for him. I want to make someone feel like he is the most wonderful man in the world, because, for me,....he will be. I am a woman with many gifts to give. I don't want a life without laughter and that unforgettable kiss. Just read a quote that sums it up,......."You wanted a kiss. Is that what you wanted? Are you prepared for everything that comes with a kiss? Because it doesn't just end with a fade out. There are repercussions. Hearts get broken. Friendships get ruined. Your entire life could fall apart because of ONE kiss". To me, this quote means that your entire life could change because of one kiss,...and not necessarily for the bad. It can and will be an amazing start.I want a man who will call me during the day just to say he is thinking about me. A text message is also good. While it only takes about 30 seconds, it is 30 seconds that I know he is thinking about me. A man who can make me laugh is one who will truly win my heart, and I am not talking about a giggle,....I mean a good ole fashioned belly laugh! I am looking for a man who makes me smile just thinking about him. The kind of guy who will make my heart smile. I want a man that, when I look at him, I get butterflies in my stomach coming from the fact that I can't believe I am lucky enough to have him in my life. I am generally happy on my own, but I know that real happiness is best when it's shared with someone really special. The person I am looking for doesn't have to be perfect, nobody is...but I know there will be something about him that is irresistable to me.I don't really have a "type" but if you can make me smile,make me laugh,hold my hand when we go for a walk, kiss me in the morning, and call for no reason other than to say "I'm thinking about you" then I will have all I need. Deep down, I believe, that we all want the same thing--someone who will truly love us for who we are--chemistry is important, being able to talk to someone with ease and not having to force a conversation or try and "be" who you think the other person wants.Please don't lose sight of the most important things in your life. Only you know what they are, but I can tell you this; I don't believe they have any thing to do with money or possessions. While these are great to have, they will mean nothing unless you have the people you truly love surrounding you. I understand that we are all busy and I don't want to be another "job" for you. My question is,.....is there a "man" out there who doesn't lie, disappear without explanation and says what they mean and mean what they say? At this point, my experience tells me that they do not exist. Almost done here because there has not been ONE man that has proven this theory wrong, and if there are, I'm sorry,...all of the bad ones are messing it up for you great guys. Good luck to the great guys out there, you have your work cut out for you because your predecessors are paving the way with molten lava

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Classical Jazz Chinese Mexican Middle Eastern Adult Fantasy Mystery Romance Thriller Baseball Watching Sports
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