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Danielle, 49
United States, Oregon, Bend

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Well the caption above is about how I feel. I know eveyone on here states no "drama" I would love a man definition of that please! I was also told I started dating to soon! I am a unique individual unlike what some might think! I have 3 kids 2 live with me and one doesn't. I have the normal everyday issues to deal with like evEry other person that has teenagers that live with them. I am tired of getting hurt by men that either can't deal with the fact that when you are with a pretty woman men tend to look or old boyfriends regret not continuing what they once had! That isn't the womans fault. Lack of communication! I want a man that is strong enough to deal with someone that has kids to someone else and isn't insecure because he comes to see his kids. I am secure in what I want! I will always have a rapport with my kids Dad no matter what. No I don't want a relationship with him but I do want him to have one with his kids! No man needs to be confused about that! As far as dating I want a man that is in this for the long haul! I don't feel kids need to meet your boyfriend until you are both sure its going to work! Oh better out this out there. I am an honest person and I guess some guys can't handle that! If a guy calls me I tell you if a guy says something to me I talk about it plz if something bothers you I can't read your mind you need to communicate! And for some reason men don't understand I don't like conflict but I will not be walked on and I will protect my own and will stand my own ground! I have a big heart and I do a lot for others. That's me. I work a lot I am a pediatric nurse and I am a single mother yes I have a lot on my plate but *** being told I started dating to soon how about man up if ya don't like me say so. I will always be busy my job my kids and family BUt I want a man in my life for me not that I need a man to take care of me I don't. Please understand I have time for a relationship! I would like to meet someone that can respect my decisions but if they don't understand why then ask. Everyone has drama if you will. In their own way unless you have no kids and have never loved before oh and have a financial advisor guess maybe you don't. But I do have a positive outlook on life and I want happiness but normalcy and drama are just words that every individual defines different! Any men out there that enjoy motorcycles quads football horses and a woman that is pretty and has a heart did I mention I have a brain? Mental connections make a great relationship physical attraction yep tall dark and handsome hard to resist! First date... Coffee. A beer. A good conversation. ?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there - I'm glad you took the time to read this..... I would describe myself as a happy camper! I wake up in the mornings happy especially after I reach for a diet dew....my bad habit....LOL I try to make work fun for all of those around me....I have great friends and love hanging with them after work....they are my support group!I love to do home projects or should I say I dream up the ideas, I just need a man to help me get them done! ha haI have a fun, loving and honest personality and I smile a lot.....makes people think you are up to something....LOLI have one son who will be a senior in high school this year.....which means I will have the empty nest syndrome this time next year when he goes off to college....ugh! He is more than I could of ever asked for in a son.....he gets good grades, he's funny, he has a job.....yeah! And he stops long enough to give me a hug when he sees I need it....I come from a family of 5 kids........I was right in the middle too.....I used to be a tough gal but somewhere along the line of life, I softened and now I prefer my lip gloss.....ha! :) I have lost both my parents and a younger brother....so I truly know that life is too short.....I want to meet the man that will stick by me and hold my hand.....I haven't had the best of luck in the "relationship" department and I am ready to be dealt a good hand for a change....I might be wounded, but I'm not completely broken.....still a hopeless romantic believing there is a nice guy out there that will appreciate me for who I am..... Dinner, sitting in a cozy spot...moving on to a small bar or winery....so we can visit and get to know each other......going to movie on the first date is out.....I don't feel you get to know the person very well.....

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  • Chris from Bend | Woman | 49 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    If your looking for a "chat life" NEXT! I'm a southern bell tomboy mix..I don't change tires, take out the garbage or carry groceries in. But, on the other hand I'll bait my own hook and get muddy almost anyday. Now that's it's spring, I just love taking my shoes off and feeling the grass between my toes!.......)...LOL....... That skill and the thrill of catching those crawldads.. all the while ready to move out of the way...real...real...fast from those terrifying snakes! It's just too much fun, especially when your there laughing at me everytime I flinch or scream... Then maybe, just maybe... while laughing...I Might Put The Fear Of God In You!...OMG...LOL..That's what I call fun!!! Even Though It's ***I Find It EXTREMELY Hard To Make 1st Contact Here!!... (Momma Would Have Killed Me If She Caught Me Calling A Boy) Wine tasteing?..........Wise man said:"If you find a man loves you for your faults, is willing to sacrifice his life supporting his family (which includes you!) and is completely loyal if not the most exciting man...hold on to him for dear life because it means he really loves you..." I am looking for the love of my life (marriage). I know I may never find him, but I will not waste my time in a "comfortable relationship". I'll know when he's not the one and never will be.....so I'm a firm believer in letting go. *She had to be special* I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her man through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good man never hurts his woman, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfaltering. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, her soul - the place where love resides. Me.... Stay at home mom. Married *** 3/4yrs of age wasn't pregnant...just ran off with high school sweetheart.. lasted 12 years...had 2 boys....Been divorced 12 years...all the kids moved back to Ky so here I am after 18 yrs in Ia. In the last 12 yrs I've had a few 1st dates...lol and 2 short term relationships...jus sayin... I know times are hard, but I expect a man my age to be a home owner and financially secure******

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  • Tia from Bend | Woman | 50 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Or should I walk by you again? Wow. Guess what? I'm 47! I do not look, feel or act my age ever really. I do understand that most men my age have kids already grown and gone, I do not, and I want them to live with me forever...ha! I am financially secure and emotionally secure and do not Need a man. I Want one! Key words: WANT and ONE. : ) I am fun AND funny, at least I think I am. I Love to play jokes and don't mind even bein the brunt on occassion, as long as you're sweet about it. A great sense of humor goes forever with me. I love all things outdoors and naturey stuff, I spend most of my days at work outside and I love it! I'm in love with my girls, 14 and 7, they are my air. Do I really have to note that they are from my one and only marriage? Ok. I do like my alone time but I'd be more than happy to share. Basically, I'm looking for a fun guy, silly but responsible. : ) If you look then why not say Hi? You might be glad you did..P.S. No, that is not my house so if you think you might want me for my money, you will be sadly disappointed. LOL That, however, is my awesome ride and I own it free and clear and may decide to live in it one day when I retire. I love him that much. Ha!P. S. S. To all of you boys that are concerned, my teeth are perfect, I'm a smirker, just how I smile, can't help it! Make me laugh n you'll see all of em!P.S. S. S. Again Maybe I want to put an "e" in potatoeing! I coulda said couch taterin....AND... If you just so happen to think I'm a "Bad Mom" cuz I called my kid a Turd once, well, maybe it's because you represent a little. Just tellin... Lets look at each other a bunch and talk...

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