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Danielle, 49
United States, Oregon, Bend

Offline, last seen Fri, 16 May 2025 15:49:26

About Me

Well the caption above is about how I feel. I know eveyone on here states no "drama" I would love a man definition of that please! I was also told I started dating to soon! I am a unique individual unlike what some might think! I have 3 kids 2 live with me and one doesn't. I have the normal everyday issues to deal with like evEry other person that has teenagers that live with them. I am tired of getting hurt by men that either can't deal with the fact that when you are with a pretty woman men tend to look or old boyfriends regret not continuing what they once had! That isn't the womans fault. Lack of communication! I want a man that is strong enough to deal with someone that has kids to someone else and isn't insecure because he comes to see his kids. I am secure in what I want! I will always have a rapport with my kids Dad no matter what. No I don't want a relationship with him but I do want him to have one with his kids! No man needs to be confused about that! As far as dating I want a man that is in this for the long haul! I don't feel kids need to meet your boyfriend until you are both sure its going to work! Oh better out this out there. I am an honest person and I guess some guys can't handle that! If a guy calls me I tell you if a guy says something to me I talk about it plz if something bothers you I can't read your mind you need to communicate! And for some reason men don't understand I don't like conflict but I will not be walked on and I will protect my own and will stand my own ground! I have a big heart and I do a lot for others. That's me. I work a lot I am a pediatric nurse and I am a single mother yes I have a lot on my plate but *** being told I started dating to soon how about man up if ya don't like me say so. I will always be busy my job my kids and family BUt I want a man in my life for me not that I need a man to take care of me I don't. Please understand I have time for a relationship! I would like to meet someone that can respect my decisions but if they don't understand why then ask. Everyone has drama if you will. In their own way unless you have no kids and have never loved before oh and have a financial advisor guess maybe you don't. But I do have a positive outlook on life and I want happiness but normalcy and drama are just words that every individual defines different! Any men out there that enjoy motorcycles quads football horses and a woman that is pretty and has a heart did I mention I have a brain? Mental connections make a great relationship physical attraction yep tall dark and handsome hard to resist! First date... Coffee. A beer. A good conversation. ?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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