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Jessica, 41

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About Me

About me......So I am NOT a typical OC girl! I'm 100% sicilian and the youngest of five siblings. My parents were a true example of sticking it out through the tough times, however... I realize in today's society that is a rarity! I like most people come with some sort of baggage, so if you don't have "any" then that's cause for concern.The key is to know how to manage it, and to keep it to a minimum. About my perfect match...I'm looking for my perfectly imperfect best friend, my rock, and lover to share the 2nd half of my life with. I'd like that "SPECIAL" guy to lean on, and to listen to me (NOT FIX) on those not so perfect days. However... I also want us to laugh those (deep belly laughs), and smile on those amazingly beautiful days too! Hopefully to that "SPECIAL" guy I make perfect sense about what I've said! It goes something like this...it's like when two people meet face to face for the first time, and they "just know" no words need to be spoken, but only you two understand the depth of your fluidity you have between each other because it's an undescribeable feeling that can't be explained, only felt! That, what I 've just described to the best of my ability is what I'm searching for, for keeps!Below are a few more things that are important to me:For a man to know how to court a lady in today's society is priceless...Open doors for a women, allow a women to be seated first, know when to have a sailor's mouth, and when not too! If you are a man of honor, your "ACTION'S" will clearly speak louder than your words...otherwise don't bother, and move on!My daughter ***y/o, I have her ***and she is my inspiration)My dog (6 y/o female boxer)God/spiritualityLove my "Golden Girls"LOVE MY COFFEEFriends & familyBbq's, a nice cold beer, or dirty martini :)Dinner eating in preferably, and on special occasions fine diningCountry music, pop, classical, some opera and *** home or outThe lake/river/beachWeekend getaways are a MUST!PLEASE NOTE: I am NOT into serial dating! I am however trying to find that "SPECIAL SOMEONE"...so I am very selective, and I have a gut feeling I will know when I've found the "RIGHT"one! Until then...patience and perseverance are a virtue!Thank you for taking the time to learn a little about me. Somewhere casual (for drinks or coffee) where we can meet briefly to see if there is any "chemistry" between us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Setting my horizons high to find a lonely soul that matches mine.Someone with big heart and small ego.I believe that anything is possible, and that's way I'm open to new opportunities in my life. I'm a very good listener and detail oriented.I believe in leaving our past behind and moving on into the future. When one door closes the other will open...( I will write more soon...)

  • Ofelia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a 41 yr old divorced mother of three great kids. Two of them still at home. I have two dogs and one cat. I don't really have a lot of free time due to working nights and sleeping during the day. I do have my weekends off!I like all types of music except classical. As far as movies, I'll watch just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors. Camping is one of my favorite things to do. I'm very laid back and easy going. I can get along with almost anyone.After a couple of not so good experiences on here I felt I should add a few more things. 1. If you're going to lie to me keep looking for someone else to lie to.2. If you think you're going to feel the need to lie to me keep looking.3. If you just want someone to "use" keep looking for someone who wants to be used.4. If you think you might want to "use" me keep looking.5. If you don't want to know something don't ask.6. If you don't think you'll like my answer don't ask.It really isn't hard to be honest and be a good person who knows how to treat a woman.One more thing and Ill get off my soap box...don't ask me for money the first time you meet me. What the hell kinda sh*t is that?*****UPDATE**Are threre any men left who know what the word honesty means? I apologize to those of you that know how to treat a woman. I obviously am not finding the ones who don't lie, take advantage of, and use. Did i mention lie? I understand I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty. I'm not one that has to go out all the time and have money spent on me. I'm happy with getting a coney dog somewhere. Maybe I need to be more high maintenance. If I am not dating you on a commited relationship basis don't expect me to cook for you all the time. I am not your wife, mother, ol lady or whatever you choose to call a woman. Don't get me wrong I greatly enjoy taking care of a man but its a two way street! I do not work as a maid so don't treat me as one.Toilet seats....what can I say but PUT THEM DOWN!!! Especially when you're in my home. What you do in your home is up to you.Pictures....People smile!!! Why do you guys look pissed and mad at the world? Just in case any men did not know this we as women are not impressed to see forty yr old men flipping the camera off. Its ok to act like a gentleman. It would be nice if you were one but I know for some that's a huge request! I'm giving this 2 more weeks then I'm done! I have a 110# boxer at home who drools, berps, has gas and snores just like a man. He's always happy to see me. He doesn't complain when he gets fed. He doesn't lie to me and he's loyal. With that being said lets try this again.People please....is there any men on here that know what the words truth, honesty and loyalty mean? I give everyone a fair chance. Once you lie to me or take advantage of my kindness you're done! All Iwould like to have is one man (preferably one that knows the definition of a man) to prove me wrong about my impression of men right now! I hate to lump the good with the bad but the bad outweigh the good. I'm only saying this so some of you won't waste your time....DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!! I am NOT a bank. I do NOT have bank tattooed anywhere on me. For those of you who do not know this little piece of info this is for you...It is still ok to ask a woman on a date. Either pick her up or meet. Its ok for a man to pay for dinner. I'm not saying you have to all the time but the first time is acceptable. I'm tired of having to update this so please just do the right thing! It isn't difficult to be honest loyal and sincere. It is not acceptable to lie cheat take advantage of and steal money (you know who you are)!Thank you :-)Julie First date.... I prefer not to go to the movies for a first date. I feel like that's two hours wasted not getting to know one another. Dinner would be nice. Going for coffee. Something simple that will give us the opportunity to get to know one another. If things go well then movies are acceptable.

  • Penny

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Trying to find my best friend. I'm looking for an honest, faithful, fun, attractive to me, understanding guy. Someone I have chemistry with. Also very important, someone close to my age. Please no boys, I'm looking for a man. Preferably, ***& non smoker, this does include dipping which some guys do not consider. I think it's all gross! Getting tired of just what I like to call "texting buddies". Anything else, just ask! Probably out to eat so we can talk.

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