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Jessica, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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About Me

About me......So I am NOT a typical OC girl! I'm 100% sicilian and the youngest of five siblings. My parents were a true example of sticking it out through the tough times, however... I realize in today's society that is a rarity! I like most people come with some sort of baggage, so if you don't have "any" then that's cause for concern.The key is to know how to manage it, and to keep it to a minimum. About my perfect match...I'm looking for my perfectly imperfect best friend, my rock, and lover to share the 2nd half of my life with. I'd like that "SPECIAL" guy to lean on, and to listen to me (NOT FIX) on those not so perfect days. However... I also want us to laugh those (deep belly laughs), and smile on those amazingly beautiful days too! Hopefully to that "SPECIAL" guy I make perfect sense about what I've said! It goes something like this...it's like when two people meet face to face for the first time, and they "just know" no words need to be spoken, but only you two understand the depth of your fluidity you have between each other because it's an undescribeable feeling that can't be explained, only felt! That, what I 've just described to the best of my ability is what I'm searching for, for keeps!Below are a few more things that are important to me:For a man to know how to court a lady in today's society is priceless...Open doors for a women, allow a women to be seated first, know when to have a sailor's mouth, and when not too! If you are a man of honor, your "ACTION'S" will clearly speak louder than your words...otherwise don't bother, and move on!My daughter ***y/o, I have her ***and she is my inspiration)My dog (6 y/o female boxer)God/spiritualityLove my "Golden Girls"LOVE MY COFFEEFriends & familyBbq's, a nice cold beer, or dirty martini :)Dinner eating in preferably, and on special occasions fine diningCountry music, pop, classical, some opera and *** home or outThe lake/river/beachWeekend getaways are a MUST!PLEASE NOTE: I am NOT into serial dating! I am however trying to find that "SPECIAL SOMEONE"...so I am very selective, and I have a gut feeling I will know when I've found the "RIGHT"one! Until then...patience and perseverance are a virtue!Thank you for taking the time to learn a little about me. Somewhere casual (for drinks or coffee) where we can meet briefly to see if there is any "chemistry" between us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Chinese Vietnamese Adventure Music Sci-Fi Basketball Tennis
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