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Jessica, 41

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About Me

About me......So I am NOT a typical OC girl! I'm 100% sicilian and the youngest of five siblings. My parents were a true example of sticking it out through the tough times, however... I realize in today's society that is a rarity! I like most people come with some sort of baggage, so if you don't have "any" then that's cause for concern.The key is to know how to manage it, and to keep it to a minimum. About my perfect match...I'm looking for my perfectly imperfect best friend, my rock, and lover to share the 2nd half of my life with. I'd like that "SPECIAL" guy to lean on, and to listen to me (NOT FIX) on those not so perfect days. However... I also want us to laugh those (deep belly laughs), and smile on those amazingly beautiful days too! Hopefully to that "SPECIAL" guy I make perfect sense about what I've said! It goes something like this...it's like when two people meet face to face for the first time, and they "just know" no words need to be spoken, but only you two understand the depth of your fluidity you have between each other because it's an undescribeable feeling that can't be explained, only felt! That, what I 've just described to the best of my ability is what I'm searching for, for keeps!Below are a few more things that are important to me:For a man to know how to court a lady in today's society is priceless...Open doors for a women, allow a women to be seated first, know when to have a sailor's mouth, and when not too! If you are a man of honor, your "ACTION'S" will clearly speak louder than your words...otherwise don't bother, and move on!My daughter ***y/o, I have her ***and she is my inspiration)My dog (6 y/o female boxer)God/spiritualityLove my "Golden Girls"LOVE MY COFFEEFriends & familyBbq's, a nice cold beer, or dirty martini :)Dinner eating in preferably, and on special occasions fine diningCountry music, pop, classical, some opera and *** home or outThe lake/river/beachWeekend getaways are a MUST!PLEASE NOTE: I am NOT into serial dating! I am however trying to find that "SPECIAL SOMEONE"...so I am very selective, and I have a gut feeling I will know when I've found the "RIGHT"one! Until then...patience and perseverance are a virtue!Thank you for taking the time to learn a little about me. Somewhere casual (for drinks or coffee) where we can meet briefly to see if there is any "chemistry" between us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sue

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    For now, I'm just looking for someone I can build a friendship with and if something develops, cool, if not, then I have at least gained a new friend. I am NOT looking for a one night stand, booty call, or hooking up with your wife/girlfriend. If you are younger than 35, we are most likely not traveling similar paths in life. I keep my baggage to a minimum and try to have the least amount of drama possible in my life. I maintain and nurture my family and close friendships so that the drama monster doesn't show its ugly head. It's nice to have expensive toys and do fun things but sharing these things with others and our time together is what I find most valuable. I truly appreciate cuddling on the couch to watch a movie, or drinking coffee someone else made for me. I can honestly say that I can't remember the last time I was "bored". I have a great job that I love as well as a side business I enjoyb as well (9 years). I'm looking for a man who has his own hobbies and friends and doesn't need a woman on his arm 24/s7. I have two young children who are my #1 priority and they require a lot of my time. However, I can make time for someone special. No, you won't be meeting my children any time soon...we can cross that bridge when we get to it. I hope you would feel the same about your own children (if you have them). I' hoping to find a fellow goofball who can totally laugh at me and himself because I will if you don't! :)I love all kinds of music....I have actually met a couple people who claim that they never listen to music. How does that happen? That is one thing I will never understand....nor do I want to. Oh, and if we should meet, can we PLEASE NOT do the "date interview"? I know it's kinda difficult to escape, and unfortunately, I don't have any bright ideas to get around it either....but, if you have bright ideas, then I definitely want to hear from you!!! Anyway, I'm done with my jibber jab for now. Would much rather hear from you! Oh yeah, one more thing....I am REAL (apparently there are "fake" women on here?)Good luck in your dating endeavors...be safe and have fun!! Im pretty open for most anything...as long as it doesn't involve heights or spiders and includes opportunity for conversation, I'm game. I would probably prefer a walk in a park as opposed to a movie or something....bowling could be fun.

  • Jillian

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Moi? a dreamer, playful and sassy, VERY feminine and independent. I have a pretty clear awareness of who I am and what I am looking for & certainly appreciate the same in a man. I am an animal lover, love the outdoors, camping, picnics & weekend getaways to the coast. I love the arts, movies, good food, good conversation, sensuality, & REALLY appreciate humor....I believe a positive attitude makes all the difference in the world. I am goal oriented, love to travel, and care alot about my friends and family and really value my close relationships.Looking for a playful romantic who is responsible, has a great sense of humor and finds humor in life and can laugh at himself. Must love animals, be a great kisser, appreciate the arts, have a spirit for adventure & a desire to always grow.

  • Phoebe

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I like to think I'm fun, outgoing, and a hard worker. I'm an avid crossfit-er & love mud runs. I love to travel &; Europe one of these days!

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