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Ofelia, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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I'm a 41 yr old divorced mother of three great kids. Two of them still at home. I have two dogs and one cat. I don't really have a lot of free time due to working nights and sleeping during the day. I do have my weekends off!I like all types of music except classical. As far as movies, I'll watch just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors. Camping is one of my favorite things to do. I'm very laid back and easy going. I can get along with almost anyone.After a couple of not so good experiences on here I felt I should add a few more things. 1. If you're going to lie to me keep looking for someone else to lie to.2. If you think you're going to feel the need to lie to me keep looking.3. If you just want someone to "use" keep looking for someone who wants to be used.4. If you think you might want to "use" me keep looking.5. If you don't want to know something don't ask.6. If you don't think you'll like my answer don't ask.It really isn't hard to be honest and be a good person who knows how to treat a woman.One more thing and Ill get off my soap box...don't ask me for money the first time you meet me. What the hell kinda sh*t is that?*****UPDATE**Are threre any men left who know what the word honesty means? I apologize to those of you that know how to treat a woman. I obviously am not finding the ones who don't lie, take advantage of, and use. Did i mention lie? I understand I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty. I'm not one that has to go out all the time and have money spent on me. I'm happy with getting a coney dog somewhere. Maybe I need to be more high maintenance. If I am not dating you on a commited relationship basis don't expect me to cook for you all the time. I am not your wife, mother, ol lady or whatever you choose to call a woman. Don't get me wrong I greatly enjoy taking care of a man but its a two way street! I do not work as a maid so don't treat me as one.Toilet seats....what can I say but PUT THEM DOWN!!! Especially when you're in my home. What you do in your home is up to you.Pictures....People smile!!! Why do you guys look pissed and mad at the world? Just in case any men did not know this we as women are not impressed to see forty yr old men flipping the camera off. Its ok to act like a gentleman. It would be nice if you were one but I know for some that's a huge request! I'm giving this 2 more weeks then I'm done! I have a 110# boxer at home who drools, berps, has gas and snores just like a man. He's always happy to see me. He doesn't complain when he gets fed. He doesn't lie to me and he's loyal. With that being said lets try this again.People please....is there any men on here that know what the words truth, honesty and loyalty mean? I give everyone a fair chance. Once you lie to me or take advantage of my kindness you're done! All Iwould like to have is one man (preferably one that knows the definition of a man) to prove me wrong about my impression of men right now! I hate to lump the good with the bad but the bad outweigh the good. I'm only saying this so some of you won't waste your time....DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!! I am NOT a bank. I do NOT have bank tattooed anywhere on me. For those of you who do not know this little piece of info this is for you...It is still ok to ask a woman on a date. Either pick her up or meet. Its ok for a man to pay for dinner. I'm not saying you have to all the time but the first time is acceptable. I'm tired of having to update this so please just do the right thing! It isn't difficult to be honest loyal and sincere. It is not acceptable to lie cheat take advantage of and steal money (you know who you are)!Thank you :-)Julie First date.... I prefer not to go to the movies for a first date. I feel like that's two hours wasted not getting to know one another. Dinner would be nice. Going for coffee. Something simple that will give us the opportunity to get to know one another. If things go well then movies are acceptable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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