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Helga, 41

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About Me

I am dating over 40... wow... what an adventure. I imagine we all have some great stories. I don't think it's possible to precisely describe the person I want because life can surprise you and something/someone you never thought you wanted can turn into something wonderful.I hope to find a kind, responsible man who can appreciate my strength and also understand and be sensitive to my soft side. I have been told I come across as too independent and as if I don’t need anyone... it’s true, I can take care of myself but I would love to find someone to share life with. I am nurturing and take care of others. I also should mention that I am the full time parent of a toddler - I adopted a baby as a single woman so there is no "daddy drama". Parenting is challenging but it's also the absolute best decision I have ever made!Let’s face it, there is chemistry or there is not. I am a size 12 and curvy. I am extremely healthy and eat a mostly vegetarian diet. I love SCUBA and long (fast) walks. I can’t sit still for long periods of time. I am always on the go and am a morning person. I'm VERY drama adverse. I can be a bit sassy. I deeply value my friends and family and work to maintain strong/healthy relationships. I am also very outgoing and not at all shy... I love talking to people and learning their story.For fun..... 2' x 3'), summer concerts in the park. I love music...I am looking for a kind, stable, funny (dry sense of humor is fine), nerdy/geeky, intelligent MAN. I hope you find what you are looking for… nothing fancy... coffee or a drink

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sadie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey guys!! On here looking for a nice guy!! Someone that I can connect with, that knows how to be a good friend to me as well as a boyfriend. I love seeing and doing things, I have alot of interests, Im FAR from boring, and Ill always make sure you have fun!! Im very upbeat and positive, I can have fun in almost any situation, Im easy to get along with and Im really looking for the same. Unfortunately I do attract the Debbie Downer types (I dont know why) but if your an argry person, hates life, complains, does drugs to get thru the day, plzzzz dont contact me I cant change your life!! LOL Happy fishing everyone!! something quick meet and greet dont want you to have to spend alot of money and dont expect me to put out..LOL

  • Anna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single drama free woman that is tired of these dating sites and I am hoping you are too!I am also a mom of a 10 yr old so if you are not looking for a woman with a child, you may stop reading now.What do I look for? Someone that is funny, sarcastically sexy you might say. I love a man that smells good, takes pride in his appearance, and believes in himself and the world around him. I have a child so I don't mind if you do as well. Likes to cuddle, hug, hold hands, watch scary movies, adores my completely geeky self and does not judge others. Patience, kindness, empathy, and a fun spirit is also a must. I don't drink much but I don't mind a nice cold beer on a hot day. Pool, wings, darts, etc. All fun things even if I suck at them.If you are interested in meeting a really cool chick that is drama free, message me!!Here's a question: Do guys ever read or see some of the photos that they put on here? I'm not trying to sound rude but if you have posted your mug shot, passport photo, or those wonderful 'selfies' with you shirtless, I will not respond or message. It screams a) creepy b) criminal and c) arrogant and self absorbed. I'm just sayin...my opinion onlyThis just in: I am not, repeat NOT looking for an intimate encounter, a ***, or any type of strictly sexual relationship. Not my thing so please do not message me or I will report you. Thanks and have a nice day! I will give in to the rest of this site and say, first date is after the first meet. Something public, not too loud, maybe coffee, a drink at a local pub, who knows. Figure that out when the time comes.

  • Ollie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I can be your best friend or your worse enemy.Im a very busy independent woman that handles things myself my kids and career come first which leaves little time for a personal life so thats why im here .please dont come at me on no sex sh*t you dont even know me. Im worth more than that I keep everything ***all the time and exspect the same************Also white men I date black men so dont bother and then talk crazy when I dont respond

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