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Helga, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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About Me

I am dating over 40... wow... what an adventure. I imagine we all have some great stories. I don't think it's possible to precisely describe the person I want because life can surprise you and something/someone you never thought you wanted can turn into something wonderful.I hope to find a kind, responsible man who can appreciate my strength and also understand and be sensitive to my soft side. I have been told I come across as too independent and as if I don’t need anyone... it’s true, I can take care of myself but I would love to find someone to share life with. I am nurturing and take care of others. I also should mention that I am the full time parent of a toddler - I adopted a baby as a single woman so there is no "daddy drama". Parenting is challenging but it's also the absolute best decision I have ever made!Let’s face it, there is chemistry or there is not. I am a size 12 and curvy. I am extremely healthy and eat a mostly vegetarian diet. I love SCUBA and long (fast) walks. I can’t sit still for long periods of time. I am always on the go and am a morning person. I'm VERY drama adverse. I can be a bit sassy. I deeply value my friends and family and work to maintain strong/healthy relationships. I am also very outgoing and not at all shy... I love talking to people and learning their story.For fun..... 2' x 3'), summer concerts in the park. I love music...I am looking for a kind, stable, funny (dry sense of humor is fine), nerdy/geeky, intelligent MAN. I hope you find what you are looking for… nothing fancy... coffee or a drink

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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