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Helga, 41

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About Me

I am dating over 40... wow... what an adventure. I imagine we all have some great stories. I don't think it's possible to precisely describe the person I want because life can surprise you and something/someone you never thought you wanted can turn into something wonderful.I hope to find a kind, responsible man who can appreciate my strength and also understand and be sensitive to my soft side. I have been told I come across as too independent and as if I don’t need anyone... it’s true, I can take care of myself but I would love to find someone to share life with. I am nurturing and take care of others. I also should mention that I am the full time parent of a toddler - I adopted a baby as a single woman so there is no "daddy drama". Parenting is challenging but it's also the absolute best decision I have ever made!Let’s face it, there is chemistry or there is not. I am a size 12 and curvy. I am extremely healthy and eat a mostly vegetarian diet. I love SCUBA and long (fast) walks. I can’t sit still for long periods of time. I am always on the go and am a morning person. I'm VERY drama adverse. I can be a bit sassy. I deeply value my friends and family and work to maintain strong/healthy relationships. I am also very outgoing and not at all shy... I love talking to people and learning their story.For fun..... 2' x 3'), summer concerts in the park. I love music...I am looking for a kind, stable, funny (dry sense of humor is fine), nerdy/geeky, intelligent MAN. I hope you find what you are looking for… nothing fancy... coffee or a drink

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sadie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey guys!! On here looking for a nice guy!! Someone that I can connect with, that knows how to be a good friend to me as well as a boyfriend. I love seeing and doing things, I have alot of interests, Im FAR from boring, and Ill always make sure you have fun!! Im very upbeat and positive, I can have fun in almost any situation, Im easy to get along with and Im really looking for the same. Unfortunately I do attract the Debbie Downer types (I dont know why) but if your an argry person, hates life, complains, does drugs to get thru the day, plzzzz dont contact me I cant change your life!! LOL Happy fishing everyone!! something quick meet and greet dont want you to have to spend alot of money and dont expect me to put out..LOL

  • Zelma

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for someone who can be at ease hanging out watching a movie or sitting by a camp fire..... to getting all dolled up for a fun night out. I enjoy pretty much anything...... If your with the right person anything can be fun. Some things I currently enjoy....... I love being out doors and I grew up hanging with the guys playing match box cars....lol. Of coarse my dad wanted a son, but he got me *** I got Barbies and Tonka Trucks....lol. I enjoy cooking and baking...I'm pretty good, not to toot my own horn or anything :) I love antiques and refurbishing things I come across. ....I am a history buff and staying up to date with current events. I appreciate those who can hold a good intellectual conversation about current events rather then just so called reality shows. I love to learn, explore and travel. I go target shooting with my 16 yr old son and I am a pretty good shot ;). I can be kind of a wise ass sometimes, but all in good fun. But I am also very loving and giving of my time. Which my time means a lot to me...if I am taking time away from my son to be with you, make it worth my while and don't waste my time with BS, please.....I'm a pretty independent woman because I had to be but I would like to find someone to spend time with, get to know and go on some adventures with. And most importantly, have some fun... Life is too short not too :) I'm not into playing games. I'm looking for a loving and real relationship with a man who knows what they are looking for, is self confident, and knows how to treat a woman. I'm not looking for booty calls or lies.....Honesty is the best policy... I'm not looking for perfection but I do believe there is someone perfect out there for me and vise vera. Chemistry is key....."Physical attractions are common, a mental connection is rare." There's more to me then just a pretty smile and I'm looking for chemistry and a connection with someone beyond just a physical attraction. Meet some where for a couple drinks see if we connect and go from there......

  • Sheree

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a desperately unphotogenic woman looking for someone who likes a pint of the black, a good book, a game of scrabble and indie music. Being able to make me laugh is a real bonus. A warning though. A friend once described my sense of humour as "inappropriate". The rest you can find out later. I promise I'm nowhere near as boring as this profile sounds.By the way, I'm a little bit foreign. I moved here from Australia 6 months before the economy collapsed. Yay me. But if you're married, please don't bother. Ta!And apologies if I disappear and don't chat. I tend to pop in and pop out of here. Sorry about that. A natter and a laugh in a smelly old man pub.

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