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Ruby, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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About Me

well time to write a new profile.... no clue what to say! Feels so bloody awkward doesn't it? Online dating - whoda thunk? Best way to meet opposite sex nowadays it seems. First off if you are looking for a one night stand, fwb or just aren't "ready",,, i'm not going thru that again.... just move on, not meaning to be rude it's just i am not looking for a one night thing. Also if we don't "click' or if you're not interested, please have the courtesy of telling me and NOT using a "kind lie"... i like honesty and the truth.I will just begin I guess. I am an attractive, tall with long brunette hair and green/blue eyes. I am curvy, open minded and rather humorous I'm told. I enjoy good conversations with people in all sorts of situations. My interests vary in so many ways from music, art, movies, nature, children to enjoying good company. Learning new things is a passion of mine and I am a question asker - everyone can teach someone something.Let's see... i have used this site for a bit and I STILL feel sorta stupid writing this stuff! ...... Honesty is THE biggest thing to me - lies are pointless and stupid and I'd rather forgive a man for doing something wrong than lying about it. I don't hold grudges and don't get vindictive. I guess I'm looking for some casual but often, fun and dating. Going out once in awhile or staying in and enjoying each other's company. Not a high maintenance woman, sure being treated special is great but I am not a 23 year old with childish needs. If we like each other then it should come naturally to indulge each other I figure. Being a single mom can be rough at times but I love it and luckily my girl's dad sees her often so I do have free time. For work I do what I can and find enjoyment in it when i can (but let's face it ... it's work!! LOL ) but luckily I freelance and sculpt at home and that keeps me happy and lets my creative side out. I do insist on seeing a photo of a man who wishes to contact me, doesn't need to be right away, but fair is fair - my picts are on here - send me one ok? Message me and let's see.... I will be putting up newer photos asap... and as a male friend says "what the hell does the rest of her look like???" I shall post more than head shots! :) Meeting for drinks (soft or hard - doesn't matter really) at a pub/lounge is good, background music & comfortable atmosphere. I'm pretty much game for most things... a mutual decision is good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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