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Candace, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

Offline, last seen Sun, 26 Apr 2026 10:44:13

About Me

I'm not exactly sure how or where to start...so if I ramble I promise at some point it gets interesting ...ok here goes...I'm short blonde spunky and I'm told feisty ...I stand up for what I believe in and I always back those that I love...I'm very passionate about my family and when it comes to my kids tread lightly because I am very protective...I have 3 AMAZING kids that I raised on my own ...and now 3 equally amazing grandsons...my only son is full time army and I couldn't be more proud... HOOOAHHH... I also have ***legged sons...I love my boys... ok now as far as me...well...I like to go camping and fishin and boating and 4-wheelin and diggin...and all that stuff...I'm so not afraid to get dirty...therapy sessions for me involve me in my Jeep with no top ...no doors...find a nice big mud puddle n tear that chit up...I wear my mud proudly!!! A great day for me might start off heading out to play in the mud...maybe do some exploring ...dig up some pretty geodes from the geode beds...head home get cleaned up n do dinner and a movie...ballet...theater...art show...or cuddling on the couch... I'm very versatile ...I also love to travel...im definitely a beach girl...ANY BEACH ANY WHERE as long as its a REAL BEACH ...i want to find someone who completes me...and not competes with me...I want to find someone I can actually have interesting conversation with...about politics religion or just the weather and not feel like I'm talking to a cracker Jack box...you don't need a college degree ...just more than 2 brain cells to rub together ...oh and sense of humor is a must!!! okay as I have been on here for a little while ...met a COUPLE nice guys (we just didnt make a real connection)I've mostly met sucker fish and bottom feeders...therefore I feel the need to add to this...as sad as this sounds...i say this only from experience on here... if you don't shower regularly that's a problem... I am very attracted to a smile... nice smiles...I love to laugh and I love to laugh with somebody and I love to be able to look at them when they laugh and think how cute they look im not shallow...I just know what I am attracted to and honestly I'm pretty soft hearted and I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings so with that being said a good smile is very important to me .....if you dont feel a connection during the date then by all means shake my hand and we part ways...don't feel this need to tell me a bunch of BS trying to lead me on and then not call me ever again because chances are I felt the same way I'm just too nice to say anything...now im done ****ing ...i hope to have some better luck now... be creative and think outside the box do something that WoWs me...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Running / Jogging British Chinese Korean Drama History Horror Sport
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