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Thelma, 40

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About Me

I am an easy going, active, independent woman. I am a very thoughtful, caring person. I am very aware of how I affect other people and want the same in a partner. I am very compassionate and empathetic. I like to stay active and take care of my total health without being a total freak about it. I exercise regularly and eat pretty well, but I do enjoy a bar burger or pizza once in a while. Some things that I like to do are working out, bike riding, running 5k's, mountain biking, sitting by a fire, quiet night at home, going to a dive bar to listen to live music, all performing arts, enjoying a great home cooked meal with someone. I have my life together and can be serious when I need to, but I love to goof around and have fun. I try not to take things too seriously.I am looking for someone that has similar interests along with new things that we can learn from each other. Respect is the number one quality for me. Having respect and integrity in everything you do is a must. I want someone that participates in life. Don't just sit there and watch the world go by. I am looking for someone that makes my life better and I do the same for you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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