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Thelma, 40

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About Me

I am an easy going, active, independent woman. I am a very thoughtful, caring person. I am very aware of how I affect other people and want the same in a partner. I am very compassionate and empathetic. I like to stay active and take care of my total health without being a total freak about it. I exercise regularly and eat pretty well, but I do enjoy a bar burger or pizza once in a while. Some things that I like to do are working out, bike riding, running 5k's, mountain biking, sitting by a fire, quiet night at home, going to a dive bar to listen to live music, all performing arts, enjoying a great home cooked meal with someone. I have my life together and can be serious when I need to, but I love to goof around and have fun. I try not to take things too seriously.I am looking for someone that has similar interests along with new things that we can learn from each other. Respect is the number one quality for me. Having respect and integrity in everything you do is a must. I want someone that participates in life. Don't just sit there and watch the world go by. I am looking for someone that makes my life better and I do the same for you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anacontemplativa

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-48

    I'm lively, and love enjoying life, family and friends. I exercise to be healthy in the first place. I'm a hard-worker, but do value a balance with my personal life. I'm looking for someone to grow, share and learn together.

  • Robert

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Loving mother, educated, goal driven, and a whole lot of common sense!Expect the same (except the loving Mom) Cheers!! In pursuit of one day becoming a DBA manager or who knows CIO (chief information officer). I have a degree is in MIS (management information systems). I am finally working on my dream career as a professional in the IT world. I love my job and the people I work with. Things I do for fun:I love anything that has to do with water. Beach, lake, there is just something wonderful about the sound of the ocean early in the morning. My daughter and I love too bowl. I am not very good but I have a lot of fun trying.I have swing at a golf ball or two and would love to learn more about the sport.Take a weekend trip to a place I have not been before. I don't plan my life around dancing with the stars, the bachelor, fill in favorite football team vs. whoever....so I guess I am a spur of the moment, adventure seeker, get out side and enjoy Gods creations, kinda girl.....;) O.K. I am threw day dreaming now… back to reality. What I really want is someone who can be honest with themselves first and then with others. I realize that I may have a different view on a subject and that is cool, but don’t just go along. Sorry guys, I just am not crazy about football, but I do like to go to live games as I find them much more entertaining. Nothing worse than being with someone at a social gathering and everyone is laughing about a joke and the person you are with has the deer in the headlight look. (yes I have dated a few of those too, I know so sad , right) So I hope your I.Q. is higher than a 3 year old. Lastly, someone that can laugh at their mistakes and admit when they are wrong. Children:I have ***year old daughter. She is beautiful, energetic, and awesome! So an absolute must is that they love children.P.S. I am not looking for a pen pal, I am looking for a real relationship, so if you are just into having a texting, *** gf, that's just not my cup of tea. So please don't waste my time or yours!Cheers! And Have a Good Day!Just had too add this. Sorry,but I do not date black men. Hum first date...Dinner, Glass of Wine, Great converstion, walk in the moon light. However, I really like it when "he" already has a plan.

  • Shirley

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hello! I’m looking for someone who doesn’t know what they want in life, has hang-ups from past relationships, has lots of drama in life and is not able to carry a conversation. Ha-Ha just kidding. But I have to say, you meet people after reading their profiles and they’re the complete opposite of what they say. So I had a thought: maybe if I put what I don’t want but say that’s what I want…maybe I will find a super cool person! LOLSeriously though….I LOVE my life, my career, my family (daughter, dogs, and cat). I've really had a great time and have lived my life to the fullest...I have travelled all over the world with my job. I have been in the Air Force 20 years now and have spent half this time overseas. I have also been all over the United States as well. My plan is to travel with her all over the world when she’s about 10. So for now…travelling is not out of the question by no means; but I am more geared towards family events/day trips. I'm not into bar scenes/clubbing. I consider an awesome day as swimming with sting rays/tubing/sky diving/wakeboarding/boating/watching gocart races....whatever gets you outside and get the andrenaline pumping....come home with a slight sunburn...make a great meal...lay down on the couch and watch a movie. Love to BBQ and hang out with close friends. Looking for someone who can really enjoy life and appreciate it. Someone who has their life together: career, house, car etc. Someone who really knows what they want. Life is way too short for not being happy. Sure…everyone has drama, but it’s what you do with it that matters. Learn from it, laugh at it and it will be all good. I am open to try just about anything. I can't wait to get my daughter on a wakeboard or in her first go cart race :-) I have a great sense of humor...LOVE to laugh at life/myself...if you don't like someone who is sarcastic/witty then I'm not your girl...you have to be able to just relax and enjoy the great moments we have been given and not be so uptight. I love all kinds of music/movies. I absolutely love the song by Kenny Chesney "Don't Blink" it really makes you sit back and think...goodness life is just going by so fast and not to waste a single second.I love animals....so if you’re not big into animals I’m not your girl.I’m looking for someone to share my life with but not looking for marriage right now....but no opposed if I find the right one. I would rather be in a relationship that was like a marriage and NOT married…. then be in a marriage that was just a piece of paper and no substance. Been there…done that…got the T-shirt. Take care....Ciao!

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