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Trudy, 42

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- Im not looking for a long distance relationship.I don't want to meet men at a bar, so here I am . - I have been divorced for seven years now and have learned alot about myself and what it takes to make a relationship work. I know I want to be able to enjoy life and enjoy it with the people that are around me. I would say I have a good since of humor, but at first I may be shy. My friends would tell you that I am fun to be around, a great mom, and for those I care about-I would do just about anything for you. I have two boys and they are my world. Besides some hard lessons learned, they are the best thing that came out of my marriage. If you don't enjoy kids I am not the person for you. I do have my kids full time (that does not mean I can not get away) so it is important for me to be around someone who does enjoy kids.I am looking for a man that will treat me with respect, is honest, and will be there in rough times. I want someone who will respect my kids, and realizes when you do have kids plans can change at the last minute. I want someone who likes to go out and have a good time, yet he has no problem staying at home lounging around on the couch. I am looking for someone who is done with the party scene and more on the settled side. My hope is to find a good hearted, loving man! I'm looking for someone I can share my life with, so if you are just looking to get laid- don't contact me.As well, while I will text quick messages I hate texting full on phone conversations. If you can't pick up a phone to have a conversation then please don't bother contacting me. Honestly, for first dates I prefer, to either go for coffee, a happy hour or lunch. I feel this takes some of the pressure off. If there is not a connection, then we are out an hour of our time! If there is a connection we can can plan another date soon, or continue on with the date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lalabey

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-33

    Hi! My name is Lalabey. I am never married catholic african woman with kids from Evanston, Illinois, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Ofelia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a 41 yr old divorced mother of three great kids. Two of them still at home. I have two dogs and one cat. I don't really have a lot of free time due to working nights and sleeping during the day. I do have my weekends off!I like all types of music except classical. As far as movies, I'll watch just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors. Camping is one of my favorite things to do. I'm very laid back and easy going. I can get along with almost anyone.After a couple of not so good experiences on here I felt I should add a few more things. 1. If you're going to lie to me keep looking for someone else to lie to.2. If you think you're going to feel the need to lie to me keep looking.3. If you just want someone to "use" keep looking for someone who wants to be used.4. If you think you might want to "use" me keep looking.5. If you don't want to know something don't ask.6. If you don't think you'll like my answer don't ask.It really isn't hard to be honest and be a good person who knows how to treat a woman.One more thing and Ill get off my soap box...don't ask me for money the first time you meet me. What the hell kinda sh*t is that?*****UPDATE**Are threre any men left who know what the word honesty means? I apologize to those of you that know how to treat a woman. I obviously am not finding the ones who don't lie, take advantage of, and use. Did i mention lie? I understand I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty. I'm not one that has to go out all the time and have money spent on me. I'm happy with getting a coney dog somewhere. Maybe I need to be more high maintenance. If I am not dating you on a commited relationship basis don't expect me to cook for you all the time. I am not your wife, mother, ol lady or whatever you choose to call a woman. Don't get me wrong I greatly enjoy taking care of a man but its a two way street! I do not work as a maid so don't treat me as one.Toilet seats....what can I say but PUT THEM DOWN!!! Especially when you're in my home. What you do in your home is up to you.Pictures....People smile!!! Why do you guys look pissed and mad at the world? Just in case any men did not know this we as women are not impressed to see forty yr old men flipping the camera off. Its ok to act like a gentleman. It would be nice if you were one but I know for some that's a huge request! I'm giving this 2 more weeks then I'm done! I have a 110# boxer at home who drools, berps, has gas and snores just like a man. He's always happy to see me. He doesn't complain when he gets fed. He doesn't lie to me and he's loyal. With that being said lets try this again.People please....is there any men on here that know what the words truth, honesty and loyalty mean? I give everyone a fair chance. Once you lie to me or take advantage of my kindness you're done! All Iwould like to have is one man (preferably one that knows the definition of a man) to prove me wrong about my impression of men right now! I hate to lump the good with the bad but the bad outweigh the good. I'm only saying this so some of you won't waste your time....DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!! I am NOT a bank. I do NOT have bank tattooed anywhere on me. For those of you who do not know this little piece of info this is for you...It is still ok to ask a woman on a date. Either pick her up or meet. Its ok for a man to pay for dinner. I'm not saying you have to all the time but the first time is acceptable. I'm tired of having to update this so please just do the right thing! It isn't difficult to be honest loyal and sincere. It is not acceptable to lie cheat take advantage of and steal money (you know who you are)!Thank you :-)Julie First date.... I prefer not to go to the movies for a first date. I feel like that's two hours wasted not getting to know one another. Dinner would be nice. Going for coffee. Something simple that will give us the opportunity to get to know one another. If things go well then movies are acceptable.

  • Lillie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Wanna know a bit about me? Here are a few crumbs... I am newly a non-smoker & serious about staying that way.. I am looking for some adventure that could lead to forever... I do believe I am finally ready to get out of the house and explore some. Are you a fun companion who can entertain me with your wit and fearlessness while keeping me mesmerized with your sex appeal? I want my forever to have some SPLASHES of excitement and to NEVER EVER feel like a chore. Here is my vibe du jour: *** if this is how you roll we might be a great fit!Likes:Diet Mt DewBaby WipesManners.. Yes Ma'am - Please & Thank You - Honors with Words & Works - Girls are girls and Boys are boys!CampfiresLIPGLOSSNaughty Heels ;)FLOSSIce CreamI Have a THING for teeth and hands?!?! Favorite Colors: Pink & TurquoiseFavorite Mixed Drink: Whiskey if its chilly & Vodka & Juice if its notFavorite Board Game: Backgammon Dislikes:Racists & BigotsLimited Vocab and mostly limited to 4 letter wordsTotal SlobsPUSHYThat guy who talks thru the movie and TELLS you whats about to happen...Bad Manners.. Doesn't hold doors - Girls can take out the TRASH - Disrespectful Words & Works - EXCESSIVE CURSING!Sushi... but love Hibachi! Can we compromise?**As I have been perusing I have noticed that a few of you struggle with your pix. I do want to take a moment to throw out some helpful hints. 1. A clear shot of the face, SMILING, NO SHADES OR HATS is crucial... kinda the whole point of a pic is to show what your look like TODAY! 2. Keep your clothes on and get out of the bathroom mirror that you forgot to windex and has a years worth of toothpaste on it. Those pix look gay... not knocking gay... but I think you are looking for a girl if you are on MY profile? jus sayn! 3. NOT A PIC OF YOU AT A WEDDING... be you! If you suit up everyday, show that & if you wear overalls everyday show that! Don't you want a girl to want you for your sexy self? 4. If you are tooooo scared to show your face this is not the medium for you.. probably because you are married? But, if on the off chance you have a semi-famous job.. be prepared to share quickly as it makes you come across as having something to hide. Meet n Greet.... after we determine there is chemistry, then ask me out on a first date! :)))

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