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Sandra, 47
United States, North Carolina, Chapel Hill

Offline, last seen Fri, 16 Jan 2026 12:29:28

About Me

I think I am finally courageous enough to start online dating and meet new people. I am a real Southerner so being online feels strange to me-guess you could say I'm traditional. I'm gregarious, expressive, intuitive, genuine. Total extravert but enjoy my alone time very much too. I am blessed with a large network of church, neighborhood and other good friends. I enjoy a full life and my busy, active children. I have a deep Faith. I have two beautiful, sweet, funny daughters ages 15 and 11; they inspire and challenge me daily! I'm at several sports activities of theirs weekly, and that's fun too. I hold neither all conservative or all liberal viewpoints, but some of each. I've lived, studied and traveled in several cities around the country and the world and have a huge bucket list of new things to try, places to go and dreams to accomplish. If we don't work out as a date or have the chemistry, I'm always up for an honest friendship and think we all can never have too many friends in life. No harm, no foul.I think that connection and friendship are the basis of any relationship. It really has to start there to be worth time for either of us. My children are my first priority and I have a busy job so I'm looking for lighthearted fun, activities or exercise. A walk around the lake followed by coffee would be perfect way to get to know others. If tennis is your game, I'm in. I'm always up for exploring, travel and new adventures. Like to cook and love to eat, try new things. Antiquing and thrift shops are fun and I could spend a whole day in home depot thinking about lots of fun creative projects for my home and garden. My girls and i volunteer alot around town and that's a meaningful value to pass on but have fun with too. I don't have time for tv but don't think I'm missing anything much? Mass is always a part of my weekend. I'm a home owner, stable in my job and don't need anyone to care for me financially: blessed by God in so many ways. In a contradictory way, I'm a total badass, but also very loving, nurturing, affectionate and spsiritual. Yes, sassy and sweet too. I'm looking forward to spending time with people with a good, benevolent, moral value system, their head on their shoulders *** somewhere else (!) a sense of humor and humility as well as a great laugh. I don't want to date a boy, I want to date a Man with a capital M who knows who he is, what he does and doesnt stand for and what he wants out of life. Just like Sheryl Crow wants to know "Are you strong enough to be my man?"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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