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Wendi, 49

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First i would like point out that English is not my first language so if my writing seems a bit odd, now you know why I am European born and raised. I'm very outgoing, i make friends easily, and usually keep them for life. I don't do well with the antisocial or loner type of guy. I am way to outgoing for that. Very open and honest. I don't play games and i don't care for people who show off or try to impress me in any way. Be yourself please. Character is way more important to me then whatever toys you might have. I am looking for a man who appreciates the value of family and likes to be surrounded by friends. I enjoy a quiet nights at home watching movies, maybe sharing a glass of wine, or an evening with a few friends, maybe a bbq sounds just as nice.I like to dress up whenever possible but i don't consider myself high maintenance. I just think its a girl thing, we just like to look good. in fact i am just as comfortable wearing heels and a little black dress as i am getting dirty while getting under my car to change the oil. (yes i do that) Also, i am very fit and, although i don't need you to be jogging by my side or anything like that, if you are a couch potato or enjoy recreational drugs here and there, you are definitely not for me; so...please move on to the next one because that is a definite deal breaker. I live a pretty healthy life style, i am a good cook and have a pretty sweet tooth. I love to laugh, I love snow days and on a warm summer day you can probably find me at the lake. I am always very truthful and direct so if you want to know anything just ask.the man i am looking for will be confident and funny but first and foremost," very easygoing" and sweet. Someone who is easy to talk to, honest and doesn't stress over small stuff. I want a best friend... someone i can laugh with, have fun, travel, and share my life with. Chemistry is very important and when i find you i will know you are the one, because i will not be able to take my eyes off you and i wont be able to stop smiling. I know you are out there i just have to find you.PS: please don't lie about your age or anything else! I am what i say i am, my pictures are current and i don't feel the need to lie about nothing...i hope you are the same. we'll figure that out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marion

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Now that my son is nearly grown, I have more time for me! Just "me" is getting kinda dull, so I'd love to make the me, a "WE!" =)So as not to scare away those that like correct grammar, I know that the "we" should have really been an "us"...but not as catchy...sorry ;)!I am a pretty unique gal that does not fit the mold of most women. If it is a girlie girl that you are looking for, then I am not the one for you. I love to sweat and don't mind getting dirty. Don't get me wrong, I do clean up nicely too! I am not one to talk much about pop culture, in fact, I am not really sure who the Kardasians are, or even care to know...Not much of a TV watcher either. I am not materialistic and live pretty simply. If your profile pic is of you standing in front of your expensive car...we are probably not a match. Also...I have noticed many of you guys are into your motorcycles! Honestly, they really scare the heck out of me...being an orthopaedic nurse...so if this is an important part of your lifestyle, I don't think I can share that with you.I am an independent, down to earth, positive, and basically happy person. I am looking for that man out there who will thrill me, challenge me , inspire me, and be my missing piece. I am in a wonderful place in life....it is truly good...and look forward to sharing my happiness and time with that special guy.I live a healthy lifestyle and and am very fit and active. I love anything outdoors! Swimming, hiking ,biking, kayaking, beaches, lakes, mountains...can you introduce me to more?I am an avid runner and love the challenge of races, the longer the better! I adore my running friends, but would love to have a new training partner ;)! There is something very special and intimate about working out alongside a partner.....I want that. I also enjoy Yoga and practice nearly every day. This world of flexibility, strength, grace, and spirituality is my new frontier. I would also love to share this love with a Yogi guy!I like to cook and am getting better and more creative now that my son is past the chicken nugget stage. There is nothing more satisfying than feeding someone and getting their genuine compliments! All healthy stuff...if you like a steady diet of grease, you will become bored with me and my choices.I love music and always try to keep a good song in my head. When the going gets tough, just start singing it! I especially like classic rock, jam bands, reggae, and the blues. Love live shows in smaller venues or at huge outdoor festivals. Bob Marley once said: "a good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain"...ahhhh so true, at least for me :)On the spiritual side, I am a thoughtful, kind person that always seems to take the side of the underdog. I've been told I have a big heart. Born and raised a Catholic. It is my foundation, and has helped to shape who I am today...although I haven't been to church much lately, I am more spiritual than ever. I find that I no longer need rules and structure to help me be my best possible caring and compassionate and peaceful me....I try to live by the Golden Rule. When you think about it, isn't it the basis behind every world religion?I hope to find a like minded, passionate man who also does not fit the mold. Please, please be happy, optimistic, fit, active and soulful. Did I mention fit?? Respect for your mind, body and soul should be a priority. Are you kind? Crunchy, chewy and yummie are an added bonus also! Did I mention fit? Oh yes, I did...sorry to be redundant but this is a must. One that knows the correct use of an apostrophe and "their, there, they're" is a bonus too!Intimacy and affection are also very important to me. You too?Are you out there? I look forward to meeting you......together!

  • Esperanza

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Humour is a must ! Up front so as to NOT waste your valuable time ... I'm looking for a match that is self confident and happy in their own skin. The first thing you are curious about is the 'must love dogs' bit right ? Well if you don't mind hanging out with some cool pooches - rescue is my thing ... hunting breeds to be specific !you're still here ? ... it does tend to scare most men away ! That is my true passion. I believe in giving back & if one small step makes a difference then I'm in ... My 'career that keeps me covered comfortably' is as a Freelance Designer ... I love life, my dog - black lab rescue :) enjoy my career(s) with enthusiasm ... a happy, open minded, grounded gal. I have at least a few awesome dogs about, at any given time, hanging at my house. Love being outdoors, LOVE my family ... I hold my friendships close to me ... Love to laugh, travel, the arts, music is huge ... always downloading and listening to cool new stuff but my tastes are wide and varied from Indie, electronica, rock, pop, classics to the old stuff, 50s, 60s and the list goes on. Known as a 'gear head' I appreciate my toys. Also appreciated are fine wines & dining, cooking a fab meal, dinner parties / entertaining and a single malt ... with or without cigar ! Social, active & looking for someone who feels the same ... So ? If you are cool with what you read drop a line ! Well if it makes it this far .... oh don't roll your eyes ! if you're on this site you KNOW there are way too many connections that don't cut it ... lets be upfront about that ! Lunch - dinner, casual - a chance to meet & see if there's something worth exploring !

  • Sandra

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I think I am finally courageous enough to start online dating and meet new people. I am a real Southerner so being online feels strange to me-guess you could say I'm traditional. I'm gregarious, expressive, intuitive, genuine. Total extravert but enjoy my alone time very much too. I am blessed with a large network of church, neighborhood and other good friends. I enjoy a full life and my busy, active children. I have a deep Faith. I have two beautiful, sweet, funny daughters ages 15 and 11; they inspire and challenge me daily! I'm at several sports activities of theirs weekly, and that's fun too. I hold neither all conservative or all liberal viewpoints, but some of each. I've lived, studied and traveled in several cities around the country and the world and have a huge bucket list of new things to try, places to go and dreams to accomplish. If we don't work out as a date or have the chemistry, I'm always up for an honest friendship and think we all can never have too many friends in life. No harm, no foul.I think that connection and friendship are the basis of any relationship. It really has to start there to be worth time for either of us. My children are my first priority and I have a busy job so I'm looking for lighthearted fun, activities or exercise. A walk around the lake followed by coffee would be perfect way to get to know others. If tennis is your game, I'm in. I'm always up for exploring, travel and new adventures. Like to cook and love to eat, try new things. Antiquing and thrift shops are fun and I could spend a whole day in home depot thinking about lots of fun creative projects for my home and garden. My girls and i volunteer alot around town and that's a meaningful value to pass on but have fun with too. I don't have time for tv but don't think I'm missing anything much? Mass is always a part of my weekend. I'm a home owner, stable in my job and don't need anyone to care for me financially: blessed by God in so many ways. In a contradictory way, I'm a total badass, but also very loving, nurturing, affectionate and spsiritual. Yes, sassy and sweet too. I'm looking forward to spending time with people with a good, benevolent, moral value system, their head on their shoulders *** somewhere else (!) a sense of humor and humility as well as a great laugh. I don't want to date a boy, I want to date a Man with a capital M who knows who he is, what he does and doesnt stand for and what he wants out of life. Just like Sheryl Crow wants to know "Are you strong enough to be my man?"

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