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Alfreda, 39

Offline, last seen Fri, 03 Jul 2026 12:06:48

About Me

I'm a kind hearted person. I try to treat someone the way I except to be treated with respect. I'm a family orientated person. My family means the world to me. I have nieces and nephews that are like my own kids. There's nothing I wouldn't do for them, if it's within my means of living expenses. I enjoy going out from time to time, spending time with close friends, having a nice cold beer in front of a bonfire, listening to good music. My longest relationship lasted 4 yrs. I'm looking for someone that I can get to know on a friendship level first.we can hangout, maybe do things together see where things go from there. If by some chance something develops from the friendship GREAT, if not that's cool too. We can remain good friends, if it's cool with them. The type of guy, I'm searching for is one that'll stand by my side, not someone to stand in front or the back of me. I want someone I'm comfortable talking too, and that their comfortable talking to me as well. I want us to be able to talk about anything that's on our minds, or just general talk.!! One more thing no disrespect to anything, just putting it out there now. I don't date anyone outside of my race. Sorry just being honest, hopefully no one feels as though I'm being disrespectful towards them. My choice of having a first date would be dinner and a movieI'm also wouldn't mind maybe walking in the park.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Jennifer

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I would like to meet someone who I can enjoy my time with. Friends first & see what happens from there. I enjoy all types of music, like taking walks on the beach, I am willing to try new things ( as long as its nothing to crazy, lol) & Like spending time with my family.

  • Kaitlin

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    After taking a break from here for a bit, I have decided to give this another shot. I will be honest and upfront…I know what I am looking for and if you are into playing games, one night stands, saying something without truly meaning it, or a “wild and crazy” girl then please move on. With that being said…A few years ago I made the decision to start putting myself first. A lot has changed since then and with that I have been “rediscovering” who I am. It has been a process and at this point one in which I would like to start sharing with someone else.My friends would describe me as a quiet and extremely caring and thoughtful individual. I am more on the shy and quiet side but once I get to know you it is a different story. I have to admit, it does take a little to get through that shyness but it is worth it in the end. I am career and goal-oriented but also know how to have a good time. I took on a new position at work last year and what an interesting year it was. I like doing random acts of kindness; it brings a smile to my face hoping that I might have made someone’s day. I still often put others first; it is my nature. But, the past few years have taught me that I can’t help and be there for others if I myself am not in a “good place” so I make sure to put me first too. One way has been by becoming more physically fit and healthy. I made some major life-style changes over the past five years and it has definitely paid off. I now actively participate in many of the local 5k and 10k races. I have also had the opportunity to complete something on my bucket list (which 5 years ago wouldn’t have even been on it) by participating in two half marathons. Other things I enjoy include traveling, camping, cooking, gardening, trying new restaurants, going to the movies, plays/musicals, sporting events, and playing games/cards. I am a huge football person…during football season you will find me a local games and in front of the TV on Sunday afternoons. I enjoy other sports as well including professional bull riding…yes, you read correctly. My friends and family are extremely important to me. I spend quite a bit of time with both. Without them and the experiences I have shared with them, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I am looking for someone who is caring, compassionate and thoughtful…someone who cares strongly about their family and friends…someone who has goals and a personal drive…someone who enjoys going out to try new and different things and places but also enjoys quiet evenings at home watching movies, cooking a meal, or playing games and cards…someone who is genuinely happy and who has a sense of humor…someone who likes to hold hands…someone who appreciates that I am a little “old fashion”…someone who is open-minded and willing to listen…someone who will be my best friend…someone who will help push me to be the best person I can be and who is willing to let me do the same for them…someone who will be supportive as I continue to “rediscover” who I am.

  • Caitlin

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Blah blah blah , no one reads this crap and no one wants more then a text buddy or a trist. You gonna prove me wrong????I'm an educated and successful professional. I'm stressed out half the time because I'm a single mom of 3 in the United States. I have an x, a draining job, a house to take care of by my self....I'm busy, and I just want a simple life and a simple relationship.Honesty and respect.... If u can't handle those two concepts please please pass me by and do not waste my time or what precious energy I have left at the end of the day.I refuse to play games and I'm sick to death of dating I want a good man with a good heart a good job and emotionally stable who knows 100% that they want a real relationship with a real woman! Too much to ask for- well if u think that then just move on. I'm ready to give up and be alone I don't need a man but I know how wonderful it could be with the right man. So by now u must think I'm a bitter and demanding spoiled **** but the fact is I'm a fun loving easy going girl. With a heart of gold and an open outlook on life. Creative and musical and adventurous. I'm just not settling for crap anymore- I'm not scared to be alone but I don't want to be. Just trying to make it very clear that I'm done with serial dating and heartache. Smile have a great time fishing- but if u are a player at have ever been told u r an ass then go fishing with someone else lol....... See I can laugh :)I blind man walks into a bar......... And a chair and the table and the wall........... Hehe Sweep me off my feet, plan everything. Treat me like a princess.Quick add: looking for ***yo range. Sorry but not attracted to heavy men, bald men, or black men- just a preference we all have our physical type.PLEASE NO PROPOSITIONS OR 20 SOMETHING'S

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