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Kaitlin, 39

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About Me

After taking a break from here for a bit, I have decided to give this another shot. I will be honest and upfront…I know what I am looking for and if you are into playing games, one night stands, saying something without truly meaning it, or a “wild and crazy” girl then please move on. With that being said…A few years ago I made the decision to start putting myself first. A lot has changed since then and with that I have been “rediscovering” who I am. It has been a process and at this point one in which I would like to start sharing with someone else.My friends would describe me as a quiet and extremely caring and thoughtful individual. I am more on the shy and quiet side but once I get to know you it is a different story. I have to admit, it does take a little to get through that shyness but it is worth it in the end. I am career and goal-oriented but also know how to have a good time. I took on a new position at work last year and what an interesting year it was. I like doing random acts of kindness; it brings a smile to my face hoping that I might have made someone’s day. I still often put others first; it is my nature. But, the past few years have taught me that I can’t help and be there for others if I myself am not in a “good place” so I make sure to put me first too. One way has been by becoming more physically fit and healthy. I made some major life-style changes over the past five years and it has definitely paid off. I now actively participate in many of the local 5k and 10k races. I have also had the opportunity to complete something on my bucket list (which 5 years ago wouldn’t have even been on it) by participating in two half marathons. Other things I enjoy include traveling, camping, cooking, gardening, trying new restaurants, going to the movies, plays/musicals, sporting events, and playing games/cards. I am a huge football person…during football season you will find me a local games and in front of the TV on Sunday afternoons. I enjoy other sports as well including professional bull riding…yes, you read correctly. My friends and family are extremely important to me. I spend quite a bit of time with both. Without them and the experiences I have shared with them, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I am looking for someone who is caring, compassionate and thoughtful…someone who cares strongly about their family and friends…someone who has goals and a personal drive…someone who enjoys going out to try new and different things and places but also enjoys quiet evenings at home watching movies, cooking a meal, or playing games and cards…someone who is genuinely happy and who has a sense of humor…someone who likes to hold hands…someone who appreciates that I am a little “old fashion”…someone who is open-minded and willing to listen…someone who will be my best friend…someone who will help push me to be the best person I can be and who is willing to let me do the same for them…someone who will be supportive as I continue to “rediscover” who I am.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tiffany

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First things first, if you have no education beyond high school OR you have no inherent intellect (because education isn't everything) it's unlikely we're a match. If you care too little or too much (obsessive) about your health and appearance, it's unlikely we're a match. Also, I don't mean to offend anyone, but if you have everything in that hunter-like (the leaves, etc. not the military kind) camo in your wardrobe (this includes hats), we are very unlikely a match(again, this excludes those of u who are military). Call me what you will, but I know me and there's no point in wasting either of our time. And if that hasn't turned you away, :-), I'm a 40 year old, 5'3", professional woman, who is looking for the guy who wants to be with a fun, sexy, witty, and oh-so-charming mate. I love hanging out with old friends and always making new ones, but also enjoy alone time either with a glass of wine/bottle of beer, a book and my thoughts, or with someone important to me and some great conversation and goofing around. Make no mistake, I'm very serious, focused and determined most of the time, but really believe life is too short and we need to enjoy everyone and everything while we can; taking nothing for granted. I am someone you can share your deepest, darkest secrets with, as well as your dreams. Any of my friends and family will tell you that if you're a part of my life I'll do everything I can to be there for you. I'm looking for someone who is witty and not afraid of a challenge. Not to mention, a bit of a challenge for me. I enjoy clever banter with a partner to keep us both on our toes. I want to meet someone who loves to travel and learn new things. A handy guy is always welcome, but that never excludes the not-so-talented-with-a-hammer-but-knows-who-to-call guy! I'm looking for someone who enjoys life but also knows when to be serious. Someone who can, and will, share their thoughts is a must for me...not the "sappy" guy, but the one who isn't afraid to say what he thinks. As you well know, we women have many more things we are looking for, but I don't want to put you to sleep reading any more. Hopefully you're still with me and can get the fact that I'm worth checking out. Take care. How about a drink, see how it goes and move on from there. Maybe dinner, maybe more drinks, maybe some live music, maybe a ball game...

  • Lilian

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well... So far I'm lovin' it! I don't miss the freezing cold winter or shoveling all that snow! I've been in a number of long term relationships and am not afraid of them...just wasn't my time to settle down...I have many life goals and continue to work on those. If I find someone who fits into my life, I would be ecstatic, but don't hate being single either! I love kids and don't mind if you have some...I believe in honesty and trust...not into playing games, just want someone who is real! I enjoy all kinds of activities! I'm a big sports fan and enjoy attending sporting events, especially baseball! My fantasy line up is up and ready to go. I love my niece and nephew to death! Enjoy reading, shopping, taking long walks or hikes, almost any sport, golfing, shooting hoops. I'm picky about pictures and don't often have people take many of me. Ill try and do better with that. I'm 5'2" and weigh between ***and ***depending. I know this seems to be important to men but more importantly I think I'm a nice person. Oh and I'm not a meat eater. Surprise me!

  • Stacey

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I find it difficult to start this profile.... so go easy on me. I am looking for someone who enjoys and embraces life - lives it to it's fullest. I am a confident, no nonsense girl who is not interested in playing games. I look for happiness and joy in everything and am embracing my life as a single mom. I am able to dedicate my time to my two children and now have time for myself and my friends. I've held the same job now for seven years. I enjoying entertaining with my friends, dancing, dinners and the movies. I also like a night in to relax and watch a movie.You must have a great sense of humour as I enjoy to laugh.....but I can also laugh at myself too! :) I am attracted to someone who is open, honest, caring and affectionate. Looks may catch my attention, but it is personality, substance and passion is what keeps my heart. Surprise me!

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