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Melisa, 31

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About Me

**** IF YOU ARE GOING TO CONTACT ME FOR A HOOKUP OR YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A F%&K BUDDY...DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE. As my profile states I am serious about finding someone, but that does not mean I'm willing to sleep with Tom,****and Harry to find that someone. Friends in my book means just exactly that and I do not make out, have sex with or otherwise fondle my friends.... So if you make it to this point, please carry on. If anything I've said offends someone or if you otherwise find me or my profile offensive, please rest easy in knowing that I don't care. I am who I am and I am WHAT I am and I will not apologize for it. You like me or you don't, I'm your type or I'm not, but at least you get what you see... Also, if you're going to contact me, please have the decency to at least pick up on the details of my profile - there will be a quiz. You've been sufficiently warned - Procced with extreme caution! LOLThat being said.... The headline says it all. I've Lost and I'm looking again. Seems there are too many men who can't deal with the truth. Look at it this way, at least I care enough to say something. If you can't handle blunt honesty all the time, don't bother talking to me. Also, if you're too shallow to look past what any person looks like on the outside, don't waste your time either. I'm not dog ugly, but I'm not what I would call pretty either, although quite a few people disagree with me. I'm a big girl, I've always been a big girl and even if I weighed ***lbs, I'd still be considered a "big girl" (any less than that and I just would not be healthy). Would I like to look like a supermodel? Of course! Will I ever? Of course not. I refuse to starve myself to conform to society's idea of "Beautiful". I am trying to be more health concious and I'm trying to exercise more, but sometimes that easier said than done. I want a guy that is still "young" enough to know how to have fun, yet "old" enough to know when it is time to be serious. I'm not a mother and I don't want to play momma to a guy that hasn't discovered his balls yet. I'm rough around the edges and I'm sometimes less than sympathetic, but I will be supportive when there is actually something wrong....but I don't deal well with snivelling and I'm not good at dealing with a guy that whines about the mean guy at work but won't man up and confront him. I also refuse to sugar coat anything, so he's got to be able to deal with sometimes brutal honesty. The truth hurts sometimes, but I refuse to blue simply to spare someone's feelings. I believe if you can dish it out, you should be able to take it as well. So if you're giving me a hard time or trying to convince me you think what I'm doing is stupid, you better be able to take the same kind of thing from me. I'm game to try anything at least once and sometimes twice if I am tipsy).Well, if you're still with me after all that, guess you're at least intrigued. You can *** you want and I will try to respond - unless your *** me get obsessive.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-20

    Im lookong for a long term relationship. Im highly atracted to country boys❤️. I love mudding and fishing. I hace never been hunting but i would love to go 😘💙

  • Patrica

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Okay, I'm in my early 30's and have had enough time to learn self worth and self awareness so if you haven't figure out these things then I really don't want to hear from you. I have a very strong work ethic, carrying two jobs making sure I can stand on my own two feet. I work hard and play even harder. So...I'm super exciting and love to travel. I'm layed back, and enjoy my nights in, but that doesn't mean I don't know how to go out and have a good time with a few beers and some good friends.I want a man that knows he's a man and isn't intimated by the fact that I don't need a man, I know how to take care of myself and have been for a very long time. You must be honest and respectfull. I don't ask for much, just for you to be my best friend, someone who I can be me around, someone who doesn't want to change me.Oh and if you're looking for NSA or FWB keep looking on."A wise girl kisses but does not love,Listens but doesn't believe, and leavesbefore she is left."- You are the man and if you can't decide where/what to do on a first date then you don't have enough motivation, determination or energy to keep my interest past the first date.

  • Lynnette

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Been through a lot in the past few years. I was on this site a few months ago thinking I was ready but realized there was still some work I needed to do on myself to be ready to let love in. I know for sure now that I'm as ready as I ever thought possible. I am a caring, loving, honest and compasionate person that gives my all to those I love and care about. There isn't anything I wouldn't do to help out my friends and family. I love to be affectionate with the person I'm with, enjoy flirting and acting silly. Friends and family are a big priority to me. Whether it's hanging out at someones house to watch movies and play games or karaoke and local live bands. Enjoy watching the Bruins, UFC and Patriots. LOVE family get togethers whether its for card games, birthdays or cookouts.. its always a good time. I enjoy almost all types of music except rap/hip hop unless it's old school... haha. I'm here for one thing.... To find that special guy to share the rest of my life with. That I look forward to seeing when I get home and that can't wait to be with me. I'm looking for the real deal. A real man that is honest, caring, loving, non-smoker, someone that I can joke and laugh with and isn't afraid to be open. I believe that chemistry, compatability and communication are key in building and maintaining a relationship. A best friend and lover, someone that I can horse around with and that'll be there for the good and bad times. A man that knows how to treat a woman and can back up his words with his actions. A guy that isn't afraid to show me how he feels and yes, I will say it... enjoys cuddling on the couch with a good movie and keeping each other warm especially on those chilly winter nights.When I date, I date one guy at a time so I know I gave 100% of myself *** dating several men until one becomes exclusive. When I love, there is no half-way. I don't hide from my feelings and tell it like it is. If I'm not feeling it, you'll know, because I'll tell you. I expect the same from my man. I put everything I have into my man (but not to the point of not having a life/friends of my own) and treat him like a king, but in return I expect to be treated like a queen in return. I want a man that knows what he has when he has it and can be man enough to tell me as well if he's not feeling the chemistry/compatability *** making me wonder. I don't put up with the games that are played. The reason I use the word real man so much is because I've found in the past and as I go out with friends that there are plenty of boys out there. Boys that are into playing the games of having several women and never committing. Boys that talk the game to get into a womans pants and then walks away and boys that don't know what it means to stand by their words and actions. Anyone can talk a good game, but it's the actions that speak so much louder. I certainly don't hate men, far from it. Just at a point in my life that I know what I want, where I want to go and won't settle for less.I'm not looking for a pen pal, father figure, smoker, drug user, booty calls or serial daters. Please save us both the time by being honest. I won't put up with a man that doesn't treat me with the respect I deserve. Not here for games, I'm here looking for that someone like everyone else. P.S. Please have a pic.. its only fair that you get to see what I look like and if you don't it makes me wonder what you have to hide.. after all isn't it about chemistry as well as compatability and communication? Maybe a quiet talk in a coffee shop, go for an ice cream if its nice out or karaoke at a local bar. Something fun that helps us to get to know each other better.

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