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Melisa, 31

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**** IF YOU ARE GOING TO CONTACT ME FOR A HOOKUP OR YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A F%&K BUDDY...DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE. As my profile states I am serious about finding someone, but that does not mean I'm willing to sleep with Tom,****and Harry to find that someone. Friends in my book means just exactly that and I do not make out, have sex with or otherwise fondle my friends.... So if you make it to this point, please carry on. If anything I've said offends someone or if you otherwise find me or my profile offensive, please rest easy in knowing that I don't care. I am who I am and I am WHAT I am and I will not apologize for it. You like me or you don't, I'm your type or I'm not, but at least you get what you see... Also, if you're going to contact me, please have the decency to at least pick up on the details of my profile - there will be a quiz. You've been sufficiently warned - Procced with extreme caution! LOLThat being said.... The headline says it all. I've Lost and I'm looking again. Seems there are too many men who can't deal with the truth. Look at it this way, at least I care enough to say something. If you can't handle blunt honesty all the time, don't bother talking to me. Also, if you're too shallow to look past what any person looks like on the outside, don't waste your time either. I'm not dog ugly, but I'm not what I would call pretty either, although quite a few people disagree with me. I'm a big girl, I've always been a big girl and even if I weighed ***lbs, I'd still be considered a "big girl" (any less than that and I just would not be healthy). Would I like to look like a supermodel? Of course! Will I ever? Of course not. I refuse to starve myself to conform to society's idea of "Beautiful". I am trying to be more health concious and I'm trying to exercise more, but sometimes that easier said than done. I want a guy that is still "young" enough to know how to have fun, yet "old" enough to know when it is time to be serious. I'm not a mother and I don't want to play momma to a guy that hasn't discovered his balls yet. I'm rough around the edges and I'm sometimes less than sympathetic, but I will be supportive when there is actually something wrong....but I don't deal well with snivelling and I'm not good at dealing with a guy that whines about the mean guy at work but won't man up and confront him. I also refuse to sugar coat anything, so he's got to be able to deal with sometimes brutal honesty. The truth hurts sometimes, but I refuse to blue simply to spare someone's feelings. I believe if you can dish it out, you should be able to take it as well. So if you're giving me a hard time or trying to convince me you think what I'm doing is stupid, you better be able to take the same kind of thing from me. I'm game to try anything at least once and sometimes twice if I am tipsy).Well, if you're still with me after all that, guess you're at least intrigued. You can *** you want and I will try to respond - unless your *** me get obsessive.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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