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Been through a lot in the past few years. I was on this site a few months ago thinking I was ready but realized there was still some work I needed to do on myself to be ready to let love in. I know for sure now that I'm as ready as I ever thought possible. I am a caring, loving, honest and compasionate person that gives my all to those I love and care about. There isn't anything I wouldn't do to help out my friends and family. I love to be affectionate with the person I'm with, enjoy flirting and acting silly. Friends and family are a big priority to me. Whether it's hanging out at someones house to watch movies and play games or karaoke and local live bands. Enjoy watching the Bruins, UFC and Patriots. LOVE family get togethers whether its for card games, birthdays or cookouts.. its always a good time. I enjoy almost all types of music except rap/hip hop unless it's old school... haha. I'm here for one thing.... To find that special guy to share the rest of my life with. That I look forward to seeing when I get home and that can't wait to be with me. I'm looking for the real deal. A real man that is honest, caring, loving, non-smoker, someone that I can joke and laugh with and isn't afraid to be open. I believe that chemistry, compatability and communication are key in building and maintaining a relationship. A best friend and lover, someone that I can horse around with and that'll be there for the good and bad times. A man that knows how to treat a woman and can back up his words with his actions. A guy that isn't afraid to show me how he feels and yes, I will say it... enjoys cuddling on the couch with a good movie and keeping each other warm especially on those chilly winter nights.When I date, I date one guy at a time so I know I gave 100% of myself *** dating several men until one becomes exclusive. When I love, there is no half-way. I don't hide from my feelings and tell it like it is. If I'm not feeling it, you'll know, because I'll tell you. I expect the same from my man. I put everything I have into my man (but not to the point of not having a life/friends of my own) and treat him like a king, but in return I expect to be treated like a queen in return. I want a man that knows what he has when he has it and can be man enough to tell me as well if he's not feeling the chemistry/compatability *** making me wonder. I don't put up with the games that are played. The reason I use the word real man so much is because I've found in the past and as I go out with friends that there are plenty of boys out there. Boys that are into playing the games of having several women and never committing. Boys that talk the game to get into a womans pants and then walks away and boys that don't know what it means to stand by their words and actions. Anyone can talk a good game, but it's the actions that speak so much louder. I certainly don't hate men, far from it. Just at a point in my life that I know what I want, where I want to go and won't settle for less.I'm not looking for a pen pal, father figure, smoker, drug user, booty calls or serial daters. Please save us both the time by being honest. I won't put up with a man that doesn't treat me with the respect I deserve. Not here for games, I'm here looking for that someone like everyone else. P.S. Please have a pic.. its only fair that you get to see what I look like and if you don't it makes me wonder what you have to hide.. after all isn't it about chemistry as well as compatability and communication? Maybe a quiet talk in a coffee shop, go for an ice cream if its nice out or karaoke at a local bar. Something fun that helps us to get to know each other better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Kayla

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am a pretty easygoing person and usually have a smile on my face.I enjoy talking about the world - politics, religion, whatever. I am an energetic learner and like to be challenged. I think this is demonstrated by my fascination - and uber-enjoyment - of random trivia (the phrase "kit and caboodle," for example, was popularized during the Civil War). I usually have a crossword puzzle and/or book with me at all times. I love to read and wish I had more time to do it. I prefer non-fiction but have joined a book club to get out of my comfort zone. In my free time, I am generally working on a myriad of projects that are non- or quasi-work related, piddling around the house, hanging out with friends, or going to the movies/concerts/baseball games/plays. I enjoy going for walks and find the gym to be relaxing, but don't go as much as I'd like. I hope to change that soon. Faves: Movies - I will give nearly anything a try; but, favorites? I will go with The Shawshank Redemption, Labryinth, the Major League movies, the HP series, Die Hard and Sixteen Candles. Sometimes, I make bad choices in this area. A recent example is The Purge, which was about ***minutes of my life that I will never get back. Music - rock, especially 80s metal/hair bands; KISS; Counting Crows; JBJ; Jonny Lang; Gavin DeGraw; Sara Bareilles. Shows - The Daily Show; L&O; L&O: SVU; The X-Files; Scrubs; MASH; McGyver; That 70s Show; and Psych. I suspect I would love Breaking Bad and The Wire but don't have cable and haven't had ghe chance to watch them. Sons of Anarchy was pretty awesome too but I haven't seen an episode in over a yr. Food - I am a Southern girl so, I enjoy BBQ, especially in the summer. Mexican is also at the top of my list. And I make some mean sweet tea :)I love to travel and try to take a trip to someplace new every year - even if only a day trip.I also love my job and appreciate the fulfillment I get from a good day's work.I have what some would call a strange affinity for gnomes (I don't collect them, just enjoy them.)And hot air balloons.Seriously, though, I've spent the last decade in school or developing my career. I have hit a sweet spot, professionally, and am finally focusing more on relationships. I am a strong-willed, independent person and still have several goals/tasks/etc I hope to achieve. I don't have many opportunities to meet new people through work and thought I'd give this a go - it is the 21st century way to meet folks, I hear.If you've made it this far, and are still interested, you sill have to bring more than "hey" or "hey beautiful" for a response. I am more than a face or body and expect to be treated as such. It may sound harsh but I am busy and know what I want and need in life. Probably going on a tour or baseball game, etc. Someplace you can talk (rather than going to a movie) but more interesting than just dinner.

  • Myrtle

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Hello to all the men out there!I'm new to the site, recently single and looking to meet some new ppl in the area. Im self employed and buisiness is goin awesome so far ;-) I'm big into music , I enjoy playing ***, listening to pumping tunes and dancing. Karaoke is also a blast. Other than that i enjoy playing pool and snowboarding so excited... I am passionate, agressive ,determined and very outgoing individual. I've got my head screwed on straight and expect honnesty from whom I'm talking to. My motto is treat others how you want to be treated and love life. I enjoy listening to all types of music except for hard core death metal and I hate country music. I also have a good sense of humour. If you are looking for someone who is independent and a positive person feel free to message me ;-) If you are married, or in a relationship than don't bother ! I'm looking forward to hear from you . Ciao for now. going for coffee or something in a public place :-) pretty outgoing so open to try something new

  • Felecia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    A few things that are important & essential to me in a life partner/soul mate are:Honesty & TrustGreat Communication/OpennessUnderstanding & SupportiveStability A little about me:I love my daughter more than life itself.I am always the whitest person... always.When people stop talking to me I assume the absolute worst, even if it's just for ten minutes.I love people that have a good sense of humour – no joke; I’m serious about this one.I hate seeing a senior waiting at the bus stop in the middle of winter with groceries in their hands.I flip my pillow over to the cool side several times a night.I don’t believe in third chances.I'm a night owl.Honesty and kindness are traits I value most in a person.I can't stand the feel of cotton balls.I believe everything happens for a reason.Once I trust you don't screw it up, because it will be gone forever.I believe everyone has a soul mate.I like being around people with brains and wit.I find social confidence and poise to be very attractive qualities.I don't eat seafood.PS: Thank you for the kind messages, each and every one of them is appreciated. Should I not reply, please do not take it personally, or be offended in any way. Likewise, I do not expect that my messages will all be replied to. A weekend getaway...

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