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Ursula, 47
United States, Virginia, Springfield

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I actually am content and happy with my life. I have a great job...well...actually two great jobs. I work full time in health care...and teach at a local community college two evenings each week. Teaching is one thing I do to 'give back'. I had an amazing professor during my undergrad who made an huge impact on my life. In return, I am hoping to inspire someone else to achieve what they thought they couldn't and to hopefully make a difference in the life of another. I am looking for that one great guy. You know the one....he is kind and compassionate, honest, faithful, funny, adventurous. He loves to debate the issues of the day...stays up on current events....and has a soft spot in his heart for the issues that face our world. He cares about others.. lacks prejudice and arrogance. He is strong...gentle...educated....insightful. He loves to travel...from fast paced cities to secluded beaches to ancient ruins. He enjoys a great burger.....and a fine wine. He loves Indian's baseball...and hopefully OSU football.I'm going to get a little specific here and state that I am looking for a man who is a professional and who is financially stable. Simply because....I am both successful professionally and financially. I have found in the past that when I have been involved with men who do not have the same values/work ethic/education as I... the outcome has not been positive. It may simply be due to cultural issues and the concept that the man feels he s supposed to be the provider. I am well educated and am thankful for that. I work hard. I am the only provider for my family. I save. I invest. I spend and I travel. I fell blessed for all I have: my family, my education, my career, my home - the life I have been given.....As I said....I am really content with where I am in life. My hopes are to find a man to be my partner...my confidant...my friend...someone who will still be holding my hand and telling me he loves me when we are 90 years old. But the key for me is balance. Balance in my personal and professional life. I'm not looking for someone to 'complete me'...to be my 'knight in shining armor'....I'm looking for someone to come along side me...and walk with me thru life. All cliche....I know. But for someone to really be a part of my life...then allowing me to be who I am is really important... showing mutual respect for each other...equality...tenderness...all those things. I also know for a relationship to truly be successful...each partner has to make compromises....its a give and take. I've always stepped up to the plate and played the game fairly and with all my heart. I am looking for someone to do the same...the real deal...the love of my life....a true romance. I have no desire to settle for anything different.So...if you think you are that great guy....send me an ***'s chat! I can't wait to meet you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting Caribbean German Mexican Documentary Drama Golf Soccer / Football Collecting Spirituality
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