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Ursula, 47

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I actually am content and happy with my life. I have a great job...well...actually two great jobs. I work full time in health care...and teach at a local community college two evenings each week. Teaching is one thing I do to 'give back'. I had an amazing professor during my undergrad who made an huge impact on my life. In return, I am hoping to inspire someone else to achieve what they thought they couldn't and to hopefully make a difference in the life of another. I am looking for that one great guy. You know the one....he is kind and compassionate, honest, faithful, funny, adventurous. He loves to debate the issues of the day...stays up on current events....and has a soft spot in his heart for the issues that face our world. He cares about others.. lacks prejudice and arrogance. He is strong...gentle...educated....insightful. He loves to travel...from fast paced cities to secluded beaches to ancient ruins. He enjoys a great burger.....and a fine wine. He loves Indian's baseball...and hopefully OSU football.I'm going to get a little specific here and state that I am looking for a man who is a professional and who is financially stable. Simply because....I am both successful professionally and financially. I have found in the past that when I have been involved with men who do not have the same values/work ethic/education as I... the outcome has not been positive. It may simply be due to cultural issues and the concept that the man feels he s supposed to be the provider. I am well educated and am thankful for that. I work hard. I am the only provider for my family. I save. I invest. I spend and I travel. I fell blessed for all I have: my family, my education, my career, my home - the life I have been given.....As I said....I am really content with where I am in life. My hopes are to find a man to be my partner...my confidant...my friend...someone who will still be holding my hand and telling me he loves me when we are 90 years old. But the key for me is balance. Balance in my personal and professional life. I'm not looking for someone to 'complete me'...to be my 'knight in shining armor'....I'm looking for someone to come along side me...and walk with me thru life. All cliche....I know. But for someone to really be a part of my life...then allowing me to be who I am is really important... showing mutual respect for each other...equality...tenderness...all those things. I also know for a relationship to truly be successful...each partner has to make compromises....its a give and take. I've always stepped up to the plate and played the game fairly and with all my heart. I am looking for someone to do the same...the real deal...the love of my life....a true romance. I have no desire to settle for anything different.So...if you think you are that great guy....send me an ***'s chat! I can't wait to meet you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beverly

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Wow - where do I start -- How do you summarize who I am, what I want, and my goals and inspirations in a text box? LOLBut here it goes.I am an IT Project Manager for a SW firm and I love my job. While my job is good, it does not define me.. I would define myself as independent, caring, passionate, and I strive to be kind. Most people say I am warm, happy and love to laugh.I think that it's a woman's job to walk with her man and being there when he needs me, and I would expect the same. I am fairly self sufficient, but I am looking for someone that I want to spend Saturday night hanging out, going to sporting events, concerts, plays and over all fun times, and then can get up on Sunday for brunch and a day in the park.I would love to find someone that I want to talk to first thing in the morning, and the last thing before you go to sleep. While I think love is mutual and reciprocal, I want someone who loves me for me, and my dog and cat. My dog is an extension of me, and if we have issues with animals, I am probably not the right girl. At most I had over 8 animals including 4 horses, a donkey, 2 dogs and 3 cats.... In my spare time, I enjoy fine dining, as well as just hanging in the park with a picnic. I love great beverages. I am extremely loyal to my friends and family. I enjoy running 5k's, as well as long bike rides. Maybe someday I can get a mini-triathlon under my belt. I love to travel - and am hoping to go to India soon. Let's just meet for a beverage, talk for hours, and take it from there...

  • Bridget

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Looking for someone real & that is seriously looking for a relationship. Tired of the single game, or being with someone if either is not really happy. Why waste the time? I love to hang out, beach/sunsets, Bucs/Rays games, movies (either in or out, prefer in with popcorn & cuddling), dinner (either cooking together or out) ,, cuddling/kissing .. mmm, love to kiss .. just having fun with who I'm with. I love live music on the beach, & really enjoy concerts -; Bon Jovi - been to all of them. Been to Aerosmith & Bon Jovi at least 8 times each, LOL. I like the new stuff as well (Rihanna, Black Eyed Peas, Usher, Pitbull, etc.***just no country or classical, LOL.I have a good sense of humor & just a tad bit of sarcasm (humorous sarcasm), looking for the same in someone. Looking for a man that treats a lady like a lady and doesn't play head games. We're all too old for that shit, & it's a major waste of time. Drinks &/or dinner would be nice, or bowling is always good .. kind of on equal footing & a nice ice-breaker. Well, unless you have an average of ***or more. :) Beer seems to help, LOL. If there's chemistry, we can decide where to go from there. And if it doesn't work out, hopefully we had a good time. :)

  • Sabrina

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi..I am a school counselor.. I love my job. Off for the summer. I have two children. I work out. I am close to my family. . I like to laugh and have a sense of humor. I love music. Especially music of the 80's. I am looking for someone who is athletic, who has a good sense of humor is easy going. . Not into Drama. Lets meet and see if there is chemistry. Any questions *** I think for the first date coffee or a drink would be great.

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