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United States, Virginia, Portsmouth

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I am vivacious and strong willed. I have tons of energy. I love being around people who can laugh at the smaller things in life and not take everything so seriously. But when the serious stuff comes around, I want someone who can face it, talk about it and just basically communicate honestly. How does one describe himself? I strongly believe in chemistry. I would like to find someone who I have that undeniable chemistry with. I am very passionate and pour my heart and soul into everything I do, from my children, to my job and to my partner. In a nutshell, I don't want the games, drama or confusion that seem to go along with this dating thing. Trying to guess what the other is "looking for" from me. I want to enhance my life, not complicate it. I am not one to put on airs, just the opposite. You will always know where you stand with me. I am very casual and can just as easily sit home with someone as go out and do something fun. I am divorced, have a full time job, own a home and have 3 kids who live with me ***the time. My children have a wonderful father who I respect tremendously and we have a good relationship now. We communicate well and are able to laugh about our kids and make mutual decisions with ease. It makes life much easier and we have wonderful children as a result. We were just simply not "made" for each other. And we both realize it. So, none of that "baggage", anger or resentment here. I am over it and have been for a long time.What brought me here? Honestly, in the last few years I have not gotten out much. Busy with life in general and I have made no time for me. Finally settled into a new normal routine for myself and my kids, I find myself still yearning for that special someone who completes my life. I have found myself with a lot of free time on my hands. I have no real "interests" in particular as I have spent the last 12 years starting and raising a family. Getting there though and meeting lots of nice people who have introduced me to new and different things. There is no real way (other than the web) for me to meet anyone though, as I work in an all female industry.I would like to find someone who is caring, has the time to dedicate to a relationship and appreciates all I have to offer. I do not have any specific "qualifications" as I think the feeling just has to be right. I need someone I am attracted to, but that attraction can come in many forms. I have found men in the past who, although initially not attracted to, have captivated me with their personality and my lack of attraction fades quickly. I guess what I am saying is that appearance is more than skin deep. SO, I am up for trying anything. I am a clean slate waiting...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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