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Emily, 41
United States, Virginia, Portsmouth

Offline, last seen Tue, 03 Feb 2026 03:54:06

About Me

Why is finding the 'one' so hard? I'm not so difficult or have set my standards so high. I want a best friend, someone who I can laugh with over absolutely nothing and talk about any topic without worrying about upsetting the other. There's never awkward silences because we never run out of stuff to talk about. And you're not afraid to give me a kiss wherever we are or a tender hug. Not so difficult, right?I am my own person too. I'm not looking for someone to save me or protect me, or tell me what I need to like. But I am open, no, looking forward to learning new things and having new experiences because I know what I like but I'm not afraid to find out what else is out there. I'm open to new ideas and new adventures, within reason. I will never, ever jump out of a plane or bungee jump. And I love learning new things and sharing the excitement of what I've learned. I just want to find someone to enjoy life with and experience things *** sitting on the couch waiting for things to happen. Meet somewhere for a drink and see if the inperson chemistry is the same as the online chemistry. I'm not one to spend weeks and weeks of e-mailing, texting and messaging because I think you can get along great in that format and then meet in person and find it's not there. And besides, summer is coming and there's so much to do!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Mystery
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