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Bernadette, 41

Offline, last seen Sat, 04 Jul 2026 22:10:00

About Me

Im very busy with not much time to go out and socialize. I work a lot and back in school getting another degree. I'm very driven and focused on my career and advancing further. My ambitions and goals come first and it's hard to find a guy to understand this....I have been successful so far as a single mom as I own my own home, car, have raised my children on my own do all my home repairs and have never relied on a man, but I would at this point like to finallly find time to date and maybe eventually find someone to devote more time to. I have one child at home that is 9 and I prefer not to bring men around him, so that should not be an issue.....I am very picky about the type of person I do date. I workout regularly and refuse to be with anyone that is not in shape as well. Physical attraction is a must!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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