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Kendra, 32
United States, New York, Elmhurst

Offline, last seen Sat, 21 Feb 2026 17:41:39

About Me

u never know where or when u will meet someone that will impact ur life in a positive way :) i am on here because i am keeping options open, using the computer to make my eyes look over to the other side of the mountain that i dont frequent ;) hoping that one day i will find my best friend again, who makes me feel i could b in a relationship. ... are u strong enough to be my man? i want someone to wrap me in their arms and hold me, but not control me.. its a partnership... ** and if u are looking for just T and A, move along buddy, cause i get that everywhere i go, and is NOT why i am on here, i am not desperate in anyway, i am not fat, i am not a ****, i do not lie, i dont have "issues" i hold my own, i feel beautiful, and dont need a guy grabbin on me to feel beautiful..... about me, im 30, i have 2 wonderful kids and dont plan on having more, so if u want someone yo have kids with, thats not me at this point in my life. i have been divorced for 5 years, and i just got out of an almost 2 yr relationship. it would be nice to find a best friend, a companion, to share love and life with.im a metal chick but luv many types of music, the message is whats most important ;) im grounded yet like to live on the edge, but would never push anybody over itim outgoing and laid back, yet shy at the same timeim very honest and blunti like to lift people up, and bring good vibesim often told how i just seem to make others feel comfortable when im aroundi wear my heart on my sleeve, yet with a force field around iti love going to shows, i have A LOT of guy friends, anyone i date must understand and accept thisi have a love hate relationship with humans, common sense isnt common, nor is being tru to souls , sumtimes i'd rather b an alien...i luv movin fast, and living slow, never want to grow, i will play all dayif ur my friend, i've always got ur backbut if u threaten the ones i love, then i will attack, and u dont want that.. oh, and FYI guys, i'll b fair and warn u now, my kids come 1st, and i dont live with my celly attached to me, if im busy, i wont even pay any mind to my phone. just because we no longer live in a world where u have to leave a msg on someones answering machine and wait until they get home b4 they will call u back, doesnt mean im going to jump up at the 1st sound my phone makes and text someone back *** HATE pushy annoying people who jump on u of u dont text back within 1 minute!! Lolso with that being sid, with great power comes great responsibility, if i DO give u my number, use it wisely! Lol so many options, why would you pick dinner and a movie .... lolso do u shoot pool bar or league rules?? o, i gota 1st date.. lets sit next to each other, talking, while gettin ink >;->

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Gardening South American Vietnamese Adult Family & Kids History Mystery Snowboarding
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