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Elinor, 35
United States, New York, Elmhurst

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About Me

First I didnt pick "which personality fish" Am I b/c I think its stupid.If you message me and I dont reply,its not because I am rude, its simply because I am not interested! In the past I would give a courtesy and reply stating I was not interested however when I would do that I got a lot of guysguys who were insulted and wanted to no why and so on......If u are mentally unstable please keep going....(yes u know who u are)I am not looking to rush into anything with anyone. I enjoy my space and am not looking to jump into anything head first. If you cant accept that then keep going please. What im saying is I am not the type that needs to be with you every free moment you have or I have. I like to do stuff with my friends, I value my friendships and will not ditch my friends or time with family for any man no matter how much I like u. I want to really get to know someone first without him talking about marriage on 2nd date!!ahhhIf u are looking for a booty call,,,FO-GET-ABOUT-IT! No dramaI have no baggageI love and appreciate life and what I have been given and love to pay it forward...I have a big heart,morals,good personality and oh sense of humor and not selfish and looking for the same in someone else.I look like all my pics which are recent, Only thing that changes is my haircolor! I care about myself and body so I workout to keep myself where I am, no I am not skin n bones...no I dont eat just salads...If you want anorexia look elsewhere! Last I think Im pretty darn cute :)Thanks for reading and good luck as if u live here in this small town where everyone knows everyone we all need luck :) Tell ya later...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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