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Lena, 51

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About Me

Wanted... a man that is complete and confident; kind with an open heart; takes care of himself inside & out; and active!!! Gym, bike, surf, motorcycle, camping.........movies, dancing...... love a man that can cook - I'll gladly do the dishes!!!I live a healthy lifestyle .... I eat well and workout at least 3 days a week ..... it's a part of my life so I would appreciate someone that is the same. Not to say that I am crazy and never have pizza and I don't claim to be perfect .... I just like to take care of myself.In business I am a typical Capricorn - driven, focused and strive to be the best I can be.With friends and family I am supportive and available to be there through thick and thin.My next relationship will encompass all of the above and more - passion, fun and communications with no boundaries .... openness and honesty ..... we will handle the obstacles together and celebrate even the small things ....There is no better way to get to know each other than by having fun, dating, doing stuff.... movies, coffee, dinner, riding bikes ..... Then see if something long term develops.....I am wanting a man that is intellectually stimulating to me, funny - life is sooo serious - I love to laugh, truly interested in what's happening in my life and hopefully he will enjoy some of these things - dancing, bike riding, trying new restaurants, finding favorites, adventurous .... I would also like to get involved with things I never dreamed of .....I am very approachable, please *** however .... I request that you are honest with your profile, and have clear photos as well as have the above qualities. I also request you be within the age range I have defined ....... just because you like older women doesn't mean I have an interest in younger men, I do not... not as a "friend" or "lover" ...Also, I am considered to be tall ..... it is awkward to date someone less than my stated height ... I have tried .... so I'm sorry to all of you adorable men that are out there :-( Meet for a drink, coffee or tea. Walk on the pier.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ajay

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    Woman. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-54

    Hi! My name is Ajay. I am divorced catholic caucasian woman with kids from Appleton, Wisconsin, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Vonda

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    PREREQS: Must be a believer and have a relationship with God; pray and give thanks. Adore me; adore my kids and give me the opportunity to love on yours. Treat me and others with kindness and respect. Make me laugh!! LIVE WITH INTENTION. Also, looking for someone who has a bucket list; don't want someone with "destination disease" (feel like they have arrived and have no more goals in life).PHOTOS: Pics taken Summer ***. Yours are recent hopefully ..... outgoing, intelligent, witty, kind, generous, great mom, enthusiastic, adventurous, optimistic, genuine, high energy, creative, classy and confident. I strongly believe that "Our beliefs about ourselves are the most telling factors in determining our level of success and happiness in life."FAMILY: Son Sam ***and daughter Andie Elise ***.; (Mom passed when I was 19.)LIFESTYLE: If you treat your body like a garbage disposal, or are a couch potato we would not be a good match. I'm seeking someone to "do" things with - not just "be" with ... (One of the few blue water lakes in the world! No I wasn't a military brat - just had an adventurous spirit before getting married at 35. Met my husband in AZ and came east for a career opportunity. I've been in NJ for 8 years but really haven't been interested in dating until now. Feels really good to be emotionally free to want to date (and perhaps love) again. John, St... lots of the US. Ha. FOOD: Sushi, sushi, sushi! Oh yea, and designer salads and healthy stuff; clean food. I do enjoy going all out on holidays and special occasions with some comfort food, however, no red meat or corn.) LIBATIONS: A couple glasses of red/white wine to thwart off heart disease, yet not enough to bring on cancer. A beer or two on a hot summer day.PET PEEVES: Jealousy, people with no empathy and those who can't forgive! Oh yea, men (and women) who seem to be desperate. Lastly, people that are *** choice.GOALS: Fall in love again, publish a book ("A Museum of Memories"- I keep a list of ***things and when I accomplish one I replace it. WHAT'S ON YOUR BUCKET LIST?EDUCATION: Undergrad -; Mass Communication) and Grad - ASU (Higher Education and Counseling)WORK LIFE: Independent Career Coach, College ***, Corporate Trainer, Outplacement Specialist, Asst. Dir. Experiential Learning, Career Consultant, Training & Enjoyed all of them .... however, being a Mom is the best!LEISURE LIFE: I like to move; very rarely watch television. Took up knitting and started to read and write more to force me to chill out once in awhile.BLESSINGS: Happy, healthy "fun to be with" kids, supportive family, great friends and prayer warriors. On-Star navigation (a lifesaver), willpower, laughing with the kids, being able to provide new experiences for me and my kids. A roof over my head, food to eat. A wonderful church home. A satisfying career. Chocolate covered strawberries. And the list goes on, and on ... FAVORITE WORD: "Hope" - tatoo strategically located inside wrist over six plates from rollerblading accident. Hope heals; anticipate happiness! MUSIC: Almost everything but angry music; not a big fan of country. Contemporary, Rock/70s and 80s, Native American, enjoy live music.Thank you for reading. I hope we have some things in common ... and good luck to you! And guys, remember, a profile (and resume) is supposed to tell the reader what you have to offer, not what you want so much. So, beef yours up! Keep it real, share, laugh, open and honest. Laugh some more. See if there is some chemistry ... if not, perhaps a friendship! One can never have too many friends, can they? Meet for coffee, a quick lunch or a walk ...

  • Clarice

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I have been on this website for 5+ years. I have had exactly 3 dates. I am disappointed, to say the least. I don’t know what I can do different, so if you have any suggestions, other than the “take off your shirt” suggestions, I would be very interested in hearing them. I am tired of people wanting to *** forth. I don’t have a lot of time to spend on the computer and I don’t want to try to find more time for it. I truly believe that it is when you meet someone that you can really tell if there is going to be a future there or not. We can say all the right things, or blame the medium for any misunderstandings when all you have is *** want to have that face-to-face interaction with a real person. I want them to see me and my eyes when I am talking to them. Doesn’t anyone else feel the same? Let’s try this again. About me:I eat, I drink and I swear!!! I am a real woman and I like REAL food, real fun, and real men. Now that we have gotten that out of the way, let me clarify....I love food! I am not a BBW but I have curves...in all the right places. My favorite is Italian and Mexican. But I am a sucker for a good steak, hot off the grill with a fresh Caesar salad. YUM!!! I have been recently diagnosed a Type II Diabetic so my diet has changed some but needs to change some more. I am barely a diabetic so I am trying to heed the warning. I drink. I don't drink much or often but when I do....whiskey in a shot glass is just fine. I do not like wine. I don't even like alcohol enough to drink a mixed drink. Just a shot and get it over with. No phoo phoo drinks here! I swear. It is really funny how I did not swear (much) the first 40 years of my life but spend 3 years in college, with the youth of today, and there you have it, a fifty something woman who can swear like a sailor. Ok, maybe that was an exaggeration but I guess it is all relative to how much YOU swear in comparison.! I like to have fun with friends and family whether it is entertaining at my place or going to the lake or a casino. I like meeting new people, patios, live music, walking my dog and ice cream.I love real men. I love honesty, integrity, work ethic, and motorcycles!!! I love my job and I am a really positive person so I am looking for the same in a potential mate. I love men that take charge and don't let me do all the work. I love to be courted and I am old fashioned about making the first move, so if I have not scared you away, let me know. I am sure there are some real men out there. I don't really have a preferred "Date." I like good conversations and being silly with someone I am comfortable with. So, if that is how I feel when I meet someone, the "date" pales in comparison.

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