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Effie, 55
United States, California, Ventura

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About Me

ToJust beginning to spread my wings to fly. I been cooped up for too long.Divorce with two young adult children, One lives at home the other is out on his own. I have two German Sheppard dogs and a cat. I love my Family and pets. I am retired and beginning my second career as a nurse aid. I like what I am doing but it dose get a little demanding. That's why I would love to meet some great people to have fun with. I like country music best, but am also open to just about any type. I did learn to do the cha cha and the east coast swing. Been a while but bet I could again. Don't have much of a singers voice but love to watch those that do at karaoke.Hoping to meet nice guys who like to have fun.I do cake decorating and love to cook. II tend to be drawn toward artistic stuff. i.e... Photography, cake decoration, painting. crafting, .... I think meeting up for some Coffee or a lite snack would be a good first date. Some place where we can chit chat and learn about each other. A place that is not so loud or too quiet that we would be uncomfortable communicating.PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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