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Jo, 53
United States, California, Ventura

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About Me

I am an entrepreneur in the spa business for 15 years. Other than work, my life revolves around family and children. Most of my pics are ***years old but I did just post a ***pic. I am blessed to have good genes, look much younger than I am and have aged slower than most. Yes, those are actually my children in the pics, not my grandchildren! My goal is to regain financial freedom so that I can thoroughly enjoy my children and travel. I hope to be able to spend perhaps a month during the summer in Bali once my girls get old enough. Can't wait! Maybe I won't come back!I am intelligent, very intuitive and fun loving. Love to laugh and observe the funny, positive side of life. When life gives me lemons I make plenty of lemonade. I am never down long and believe with faith, anything is possible. Ethics and doing the right thing are essential to who I am. I am a "young" Christian although I have always conducted my life as one. I do believe my future is with another Christian of like mind.I love (and sing) jazz, swing, standards. Like pop and latin. Even have done a bit of ballroom dancing. Love swing and most latin dance forms.Lastly, I would like to relate some of my latest experiences on meetville. Two gentlemen in a row that I went out with for a month or two came to the same conclusion. They felt I was "not really interested in them." They were introduced to my family, friends and one I even brought to my church. Just because an intelligent, classy woman does not jump in bed with you right away does not mean she is not interested. (Unless all she was interested in was sex.) I am old fashioned. I do expect the man to court the woman. That doesn't mean I sit on a pedistal and do nothing. However, things must start as a friendship and grow from there. As long as respect and affection is there, love and all the rest will come. I'm very independent and resourceful but prefer a "take charge" guy. PS - Please be child and pet tolerant. A drink is always easy or perhaps a cup of coffee somewhere. After that, if we click, the sky is the limit on options. If you can dance, have a positive outlook, Christian values, great sense of humor and love family, you'll win my heart!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I am a fairly attractive woman who looks younger than her age, I take care of myself and am very health conscious. I am a committed Christian, but not fanatically religious. I'm smart (so if you're a scammer or a liar, trust me I will find out, I have the resources and the brains to do so, it's not even that hard in most cases - scammers will be reported to the authorities). I love animals, I have 2 dogs and 2 cats, I love nature, photography, art. I have owned my own business, I am very emotionally stable, no drama, I love to get together with friends and laugh, I'm also fine with spending time at home, as there are many things I enjoy - reading, painting, music, movies, spending time outdoors, taking photographs, exercising (right now, mostly yoga***so I don't mind being alone. But am also very good in social situations, love to talk to friends, acquaintances and meet new people. My life is good without being in a relationship, but I know it would be better if I found the right man for me, who would be also emotionally stable, secure in himself (without being narcissistic), honest, loyal, caring, intelligent, laughs a lot, but can be serious when the situation calls for it, likes balance in life, is responsible, attractive - but not perfect, someone who is genuine - not a fraud in any sense of the word, has a great smile that is warm and genuine. And someone who has enough compassion about women to understand why it could be potentially dangerous to meet in person with a guy without knowing for sure who he is and can verify that fact. First date would be in a public place, probably meet for coffee, just to talk (nothing more) to get to know one another, then decide whether to see each other again. First find out if we could be friends first, then if a friendship develops, we will know at some point whether it will develop into something more. So if you want to rush right into a relationship, especially a physical one, then please do not contact me. I will also use this space to say I am a constitutional conservative, while I have dear friends who are liberals and we respect each others differences, I would not be happy in a relationship with a liberal. Also as I said I am a committed Christian, not fanatic, but this is at a deep level a very important part of who I am, other genuine Christians will understand this, I am not interested in dating someone who is not a Christian. No judgment here, I also have friends who are atheist, agnostic and everything in between, but when it comes to dating, I would be most compatible with someone who has similar beliefs. I do not want to set out to convert or change anyone, I just want someone who shares the same basic values. One man tried to convince me that opposites attract and all that, but sorry, while I know there are exceptions, when there are strong differences in core beliefs - I know that some of you may be turned off by my comments, if so then we are not compatible, I don't have an expectations of finding "Mr. Right" on this site or any other site, it's just one resource and it would only take one man to be the right one. I am not desperate to find a man, I'm just open to the possibility that one day I will meet my soulmate.

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