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Jo, 53
United States, California, Ventura

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About Me

I am an entrepreneur in the spa business for 15 years. Other than work, my life revolves around family and children. Most of my pics are ***years old but I did just post a ***pic. I am blessed to have good genes, look much younger than I am and have aged slower than most. Yes, those are actually my children in the pics, not my grandchildren! My goal is to regain financial freedom so that I can thoroughly enjoy my children and travel. I hope to be able to spend perhaps a month during the summer in Bali once my girls get old enough. Can't wait! Maybe I won't come back!I am intelligent, very intuitive and fun loving. Love to laugh and observe the funny, positive side of life. When life gives me lemons I make plenty of lemonade. I am never down long and believe with faith, anything is possible. Ethics and doing the right thing are essential to who I am. I am a "young" Christian although I have always conducted my life as one. I do believe my future is with another Christian of like mind.I love (and sing) jazz, swing, standards. Like pop and latin. Even have done a bit of ballroom dancing. Love swing and most latin dance forms.Lastly, I would like to relate some of my latest experiences on meetville. Two gentlemen in a row that I went out with for a month or two came to the same conclusion. They felt I was "not really interested in them." They were introduced to my family, friends and one I even brought to my church. Just because an intelligent, classy woman does not jump in bed with you right away does not mean she is not interested. (Unless all she was interested in was sex.) I am old fashioned. I do expect the man to court the woman. That doesn't mean I sit on a pedistal and do nothing. However, things must start as a friendship and grow from there. As long as respect and affection is there, love and all the rest will come. I'm very independent and resourceful but prefer a "take charge" guy. PS - Please be child and pet tolerant. A drink is always easy or perhaps a cup of coffee somewhere. After that, if we click, the sky is the limit on options. If you can dance, have a positive outlook, Christian values, great sense of humor and love family, you'll win my heart!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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