Natalia, 43
Offline, last seen Mon, 09 Feb 2026 19:53:41
About Me
This feels right.... Scaring some of you, drawing others nearer. Honestly.Authentically.No games.It's been decades and I am just learning all the lingo and etiquette for ***online dating but it doesn't interest me who you know or how expensive your car is... I need to know if you'll be there when I need you. For the stupid things and the sublime things. If you refuse to read this whole thing, then at least google "the Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Dreamer. I want to be real with you on this level. If you can't, good luck but flip to the next profile. You say you want a woman who knows what she wants. I do know what I want. Just wish I were a better writer.My purpose in dating is to discover someone who I can feel comfortable with like in t- Someone who I can stay young-at-heart with and play with be real with and laugh and laugh and cry with. .... Deep breath....Deal breakers first...really it'll save your time and mine. The following deal breakers are not meant to be personal affronts. If you're the right puzzle piece, we'll both know it. :)Deal breakers:smokes, uses drugs, has a drinking problem.I am probably past my prime for another pregnancy(I already have an 8 y.o. daughter who is part of the package but NO ONE meets her until I am rock solid certain I'm in a committed, mutually passionate and dedicated union... how long that takes, I don't know.If you are looking for a child bearer, we're probably at or around expiration date.That's not saying if we're financially stable, I wouldn't consider adopting ...if you were interested in that. It would be worth a conversation.No Sports fanatics- being banished on Sundays or Monday nights for this season or that season... or this week long playoff or that championship.... not desired.I would be willing go to a game with you here or there but I'd rather play than watch.Okay, I had to insert this in between...I do not have a lolipop body, guys. lolI've got curves. I work out, do qigong and going back to yoga after an injury. The Curves? That's called DNA.Hips/thighs/butt still substantial because I'm made that way. Im somewhere between a pear and hourglass...so, I need to be desired. I need to be your body type. I'm not going to become a pretzel to impress.I also expect you to value your body temple as well. Take good care of it so it can last, you know, to get to the life long part. ;)You don't have to be perfect and I don't need you to have Adonis' body but be generally working towards somewhere near your best Self... without being obsessive of course...it's not whether you succeed at perfection (whatever that is for you) but make the effort. I will continue to, too.By this time I've probably posted photos... yes, they're current. I am 43 going on 44...lolLastly on deal breakers...Boundaries between the love and admiration you have for your mom and that which you have for me and us.This is really only for mamones who have mom do their laundry and/or still live with her. I can't/won't compete against your mom. Really, how could I? Be the strong, loving but Independent son.Whew.... Pretty sure... Yep, done with that section.Next, what I need and what I'd love, then what I will give.What I need from my partner:I need an honest man with integrity,strong sense of Self, purpose and patience, someone who's seriously interested in who I am,a financially responsible man who can provide but also allow me to fulfill my calling and not feel threatened. Doesn't mean I'm competing, I just have this thing I have to do before I die...a man who can communicate his needs and his ideas well... I will listen without interrupting,a man who will communicate on a regular basis, even if you need to put a reminder on your calendar...lola sweet and kind man with family values who is willing to share my love for my daughter and create a safe environment for her and any other children between us,an appreciative and affectionate man who can say I love you without hesitation, be vulnerable and unafraid to show kindness and physical affection and can say thank you and you're the best, by literally saying it and by the little extra things you do...fixing or building things, cooking with me, hugs, all sorts of caresses and touching, massages, I even love flowers!...a man willing to hold space when I talk about what's bothering me in any situation and just ask, "and what else happened?" or say, "that stinks", or nod in understanding without needing to fix, unless I ask... :)that's a biggy...a man who strives for longevity by being true to a physically and psychologically healthy lifestyle, which includes taking pride in his appearance and working at being physically attractive to me,a man that will understand that I discipline my daughter...when the time comes, if you have a problem with her (as she is entering puberty and duly unpredictable), bring it to me. I don't claim to be the perfect parent, so we can talk it out and come up with a plan, but I have to be the one to go to her.I will do the same for your offspring (if you have any), I will honor you.Here's what I'd love...a man full of passion, sensuality, sexual openness and adventure, I would love to be guided to realms of ecstasy with your words, it's an auditory thing... II don't mind if you're more experienced, I'm a quick and enthusiastic study ;) who opens my eyes to new experiences and opportunities,Ask and I'll tell you what I'm willing to do as I've run out of room here apparently .... ;/ Please reference the Interests section above... that should give some dynamite ideas...yes? So, help me out here... some count coffee "dates" as a date, some say it's just a screening ... lolEveryone has their preference. If we correspond online and then decide just casual meeting with quick escape route, then so be it. If we have off the charts chemistry just through our amazing writing and wit... then, I'm open to spending longer than 40 minutes with you ;)... to see if that white hot written wordsmith chemistry translates into person to person magnetism. :)Did I say I'm a romantic? I am. So don't be shy in that arena. Corny and sweet well responded to... that was supposed to be funny... :PNot a clubber. Not a barfly, but if it's an insanely cool place with character and good food, and they loooove you,okay maybe. Lol :)
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
man
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Relationship
Separated
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
Someday
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Other
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Body type
Average
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Height
5'5"
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Eye color
Brown
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Smoke
No
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Drink
Yes, socially
INTERESTS
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