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I am looking to meet someone to spend some time with leaving options open to the possibility of a long term relationship. I am looking for someone who is fun, professional, confident, not intimidated easily, can take it, as well as, dish it out but can also be sensitive at times. Someone who has similar interests as I. I enjoy the beach, any outdoor activities from art shows to lake parties, BBQs, friends and family, movies, dining out, cooking, roller coasters, concerts and traveling. Basically just enjoying life. My favorite holiday is Halloween, favorite time of year is fall. I am looking for someone to be my equal and accept me for me....bad habits as well as good, imperfections, clumsiness, sarcasim....well you get the idea. Just looking for that unconditional acceptance and want to find someone who I feel the same and can provide the same support. I am looking to meet someone close to my age give or take a few years. Please have recent photos.Addendum: I have discovered the e-cig and seems to satisfy the craving most of the time. One day at a time is all I can say. I am also looking to meet someone as stated above for long term (eventually). I am not looking for anything casual. I must emphasize this as there seems to me a miscommunication at times with the *** I do know there are (good) guys out there looking for the same as I, but just wanted to make it very clear as to what I am looking for. I feel we must be a match in similar interests, physical attraction, values, morals, etc. I understand no one is the same or thinks the same so this is why I say similar. I am open for learning or experiencing new things as well as I would like my partner to be open for that as well. I do like my time with my "girls" and would not have a problem with my partner to have the same with the "boys" (golf, music, etc.....not necessarily at the "bachelor" type clubs, will not go for that). Please contact only if we are on the same page and with pics. WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. ( I got this from another profile. Feel free to use it, It makes sense). I would leave that up to him. Hopefully it would be a creative choice.......nothing to stuffy, but certainly not to crazy to where we could not have a conversation and see if anything clicks. Then if it does, just go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Adventure Drama Martial Arts Bowling
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