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Hilary, 47
United States, California, Santa Barbara

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This sight is not for the faint of heart. It can be treacherous and highly disappointing.So if you are married , separated, in a relationship , looking only for a sexual encounter please move on . If you are unsure of what you want or what you are looking for move on as well . I'm not looking for casual dating . I can take myself to dinner and have plenty of friends whose company I enjoy.With that said , a little about myself and what I am looking for. A man who is secure in himself and has a vision for his life and his future. If that includes a long term committed relationship then keep reading . A man with integrity , who is honest and open and emotionally healthy . I am a fitness oriented person with the goal of living a long , healthy and active life. I enjoy almost anything ( but please no skydiving for me) . Anything on the water , boating , wave runners , paddle boarding , love sun and water! I like biking , camping , anything outdoors. Love physical challenges ... If I do something I try to give it my all. I am at the gym about five times a week. Take me dancing and I will be the happiest girl in the world . Movies, performing arts , almost everything is interesting to me . I cannot sit still , I am very active and love being on the go . I have many great friends that I enjoy having dinner with or an occasional happy hour. I am also the proud mother of an amazing thirteen year old girl . I try to support her passion for horses while encouraging her to try other things to keep her balanced and exposed to many different things. Best part is the discussions we have after each. Education is important to me, I have a BA in Business, a Masters in Education and a CAS in school administration . In the end , a man who can make me laugh, someone I can share everything with, I have much to give but only to someone who is willing to give in return. If you have a connection of the mind , heart and body there is nothing that compare. Teaching is my career , I love my students . They can teach me as much as I can them. It isn't always easy especially teaching in impoverished neighborhoods but that is where I am needed most . Open minded , like trying new things.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Greek Irish Japanese Thai Documentary Sport Computer Games
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