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Ada, 47
United States, California, Santa Barbara

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About Me

"The charm of fishing is that it is the pursuit of what is elusive but attainable, a perpetual series of occasions for hope" ***C. I enjoy most outdoor activities, but specifically enjoy running and biking. Outside of those activities, I am usually game for just about anything as long as it's with the right person. My kids, bookends, are both teens and stay pretty busy with school, friends and extracurricular activities leaving me with more time on my hands than I sometimes know what to do with.I am an easy going, free spirit type that doesn't require a man to make me happy...although I do very much enjoy male companionship...:-), I FIND things to do. I absolutely love a man that can make me laugh! I am looking for a man whom I can share some of my time with who is fun and knows what he wants. A man to challenge me, encourage me, push and pull me which ever direction we need to go. I am looking for attraction, chemistry, passion...and my life long partner and friend.Ideally and in a perfect world (although i'm not looking for perfection...that would bore the hell out of me), i'm looking for a man that: - lives within 12.;)- is interested in having a committed relationship, but not looking to rush into anything - demonstrates a good balance and views their partner as equal- is able to communicate openly- maintains a strong drive to stay active with spending time together- is non-materialistic- is a frequent flosser with killer smile (okay not killer...that would just be scary) well i think that should depend on who's paying; if i'm paying...i think a stroll in a nearby public park sounds just lovely and if you're lucky, i'll spring for an ice cream IF the truck comes by. if you're paying...;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Jazz Video Games Watching TV Action Comedy Mystery Romance
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