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Sophie, 49
United States, California, Santa Barbara

Offline, last seen Tue, 31 Mar 2026 20:10:43

About Me

What I'm looking for:My best friend FIRST! Lets take it slow and just see where it leads. I'm NOT looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits. If you are...please pass me by!My preferences - White, tall, male, straight and a non-smoker! I'm 5'6 and typically wear ***inch heels....so you need to be tall!Honesty is very important. Please be single (separated or unhappy in your marriage does not count as single!)Please have updated photos (more than one) and up close. Not ones from 5 yrs ago, 50 feet away.Chemistry is very important. If its not there, if won't work!What you need to know about me:I'm southern and have an accent...sometimes stronger when I want it to be! I love country music, country dancing (2-step, swing, cha cha, line dancing), ride horses, own cowboy boots...I do love other types of music too.I'm very loving, caring, romantic, passionate, enjoy cooking and love to laugh and smile. I enjoy traveling to the mountains for the weekend, riding horses, sitting on the beach enjoying the sun, attending a sporting event in downtown, or just hanging out at the house cuddling on the couch watching a movie. Also, its a big plus if you like roller coasters! I exercise and try to keep in good shape. I've taken salsa and swing lessons and looking for a dance partner, but you don't have to be a perfect dancer, just willing to try. I can also go from jeans and t-shirt to a black tie affair in about an hour. I'm looking for a definite chemistry and attraction when we meet, tall (5'10 and up), close in age, loving, caring, romantic, knows how to appreciate a good woman, and enjoys spending time with the one they love. I'm looking to date and then see where it leads. Want to know more, just ask!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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