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Lelia, 47
United States, California, Santa Barbara

Offline, last seen Wed, 01 Apr 2026 12:32:59

About Me

Honestly, I just want to find my soul mate, the right man, an honest man, someone to grow old with, my best friend....I'm not interested in chatting for weeks and weeks, would rather get right out there and meet casually to see if there is any chemistry. There must be chemistry and you will only know this by meeting in person, so why delay. I'm ready - are you?I've been on here two weeks now (Oct 24th) and have had three dates but evidently not the right ***still fishing. Hope you are out there and not afraid to meet; I don't find a lot of men rushing to meet, rather chatty and I'm looking for that man who can't wait to meet me, see me and be with me. I work a lot, trying to get my youngest daughter ready for college, Fall of ***. And it's hard to find time for me. I'm ready to be distracted. Distract me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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