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Carey, 48
United States, California, Santa Barbara

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About Me

Hi guys!.... After having pretty lousy luck here, I hid my profile for almost a year. Decided to give it one more try! Now, a little about me! I'm a mother of two grown children, both on their own, living their own lives! And, while they are the light of my life, it's time for me to start my adventure! I'd like to find a partner to enjoy life with, experience new things with, go places I've ( we've) never been before!! I have a great sense of humor, I laugh at dumb stuff!!.. I'm a good cook, and enjoy it, tho, I don't do a lot of it anymore. I'm not a gold digger, I have a job, won't ask u to pay my phone bill, LOL! And, I own my home, not looking for a place to live!!...and , some day soon, I'll have my Harley, so, I don't need yours! But, that doesn't mean I won't go for a ride on yours til then! LOL! I'm honest, almost to a fault! I'm not afraid to speak my mind!.. I think my mouth has gotten me into trouble on more than one occasion!!Just as I'm sure u have heard stories about a lot of men on this site, I have heard stories about some of the women.. To that I will say this, I come from a great family, my parents are still together after 49 years of marriage. I believe in going to the dentist, I still have all my teeth. I have never lived in a trailer park, or been on public assistance. And, all my children have the same father! I am not looking for hook ups! I'm looking for a like minded, trustworthy, quality man who will treat me like the lady that I am! And, I, in turn, will treat like a good man deserves! If you are unemployed, a convicted felon, a drug addict or just looking to get laid, please do me favor, and don't waste my time or yours! I apologize if I sound a little harsh, just trying to be real and specific! I don't want to rush anything, I will not change my status after a couple of dates! Want to build a solid foundation as friends, having fun, then see where it may lead! If you are still here, thank you for reading, Happy fishing, and good luck to you! A cup of coffee, see if there is a connection. If there isn't, at least u don't have to spend the time or money on a meal! Lol!!! Yes, I do believe in chivalry!! At least at first, the man should pay!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Indian Middle Eastern Thai Adult Adventure Music Romance War Rodeo
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