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Sally, 48
United States, California, Santa Barbara

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Feb 2026 15:55:49

About Me

So let’s start with what I’m not looking for…I'm not looking for casual hookups or space-fillers, or endless messaging, so if that’s what you’re looking for, please keep fishing. I have a very full and happy life and will welcome in the right man at the right time. I'm a loving, affectionate woman and want the same in a partner, but not on the first date. Apparently I need to make that clear :) I'm a bit traditional, which comes from being 2nd generation American. My grandparents, both sides, came to the US in the early 20th century.I'm new to on-line dating so the jury is still out on the verdict, but for now I'll go with it. I find humor in everyday life, somewhat of a people watcher, you see a lot if you just look around you. I work hard, take care of myself and live a healthy lifestyle, and ride my bike (bicycle) when the weather is nice and I have the time!I’d like to meet a man with a good heart and who is sincere, but also has a strong personality and who has a sense of humor, a "partner in crime" to enjoy life with. It was time to live someplace warm! I work a lot so I don't have a lot of time for hobbies, but I like the outdoors, although I don’t get out as often as I would like. I love a good movie, the action kind, not the “chick-flicks” although occasionally I will watch them with my girlfriends. I'm open to doing most anything...I'm just as comfortable in jeans and a baseball hat as I am dressing for a formal event.…definitely a trip of a life time!I don't have children, but I have the most beautiful and wonderful niece in the world and she is the love of my life! Has been since the first moment I held her! I have lots of kids around me, friends kids, so I'm very comfortable with a man that has kids already and know they are the priority.There's more to me, which only the right man will get to know :) Coffee to get to know each other and see where that takes us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Greek Indian Portuguese Animation Comedy Cricket
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