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About Me

Yodel yodel yodel lay…. the cynic of online sites like this one was convinced by pals this morning at the gym to say ‘what heck!!', and be open to actually giving it a try. So here goes my lame effort! :)I am a busy and very independent gal with a committed focus on my son, and my work (and sports!). I am easy going, laughter/good wit is part of my every day (yup-A guy that gets my attention is smart, clever wit, goal orientated, active/fit, loves sports, very grounded, communicative, and shares similar values…). Guys that typically do not get my attention (but you bet, they catch my eye most times) are the spin doctors, drama kings, and players. As much as you are some of the hottest, out going and fun guys— not into a rotation plan and it is just not the flavor of the day pick for me (no harm, no foul! :) ).So, if you think we have something in common and are open to learning to know someone and see where it goes.... click whatever buttons on this site you need to and drop me a hello.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carrie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm looking for someone to have fun with, hopefully get close to and be able to share life's experiences with and cook a few great meals for...I love to cook. i'm 5'5" and ***Lbs. I actually enjoy going to the gym... I'm looking for someone that has a somewhat healthy lifestyle and enjoys getting out and doing stuff. I'm only looking to meet guys that are close to my age and close to my location. a couple of drinks and a lot of laughs...

  • Alisa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Lets see.. always on the go, love the outdoors landscaping, beach and travel. I strive to be a positive and balanced individual and tend to gravitate towards that in my everyday life. I am a mom first and everything else after therefore I make lifetime decisions based on responsibilityand integrity..I love to explore new places and revisit the familiar as well. I don't get caught up in politics but will if asked. I tend to avoid all drama in my life and look for the good in all, for the most part. As for music, don't have a favorite- it varies from whatever I am going through at the time I guess. Love scary movies but will do the romantic, action packed and any others.. Love to try new restaurants with great company..Love great coffee shops! Not a drinker therefore I don't do the bar scene- I frequent the beach and love the city life as well- culture is what I dig and big cities are where you get it all! I work out frequently would like to enjoy some company once in awhile.. I would like to start by *** out what makes us click and if we like some of the same things- going in the same direction, then maybe meet for dinner or coffee- I'm open! I hate to say what I am looking for because I really don't know! That sounds a bit flaky but it's the best way I can describe it.. don't know til you know. I really appreciate a great personality and witty sense of humor. I can always tell when someone is trying too hard and I think that is the biggest turn off so just be yourself and we'll go from there..

  • Aline

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm hopeful that there is ONE decent guy out there, but haven't met him yet - so I'm here hoping that HE will find ME.When he does, he will be TALL (ok, taller than me), with a beautiful smile. I can only hope he's fit and cares about his appearance.I enjoy scruff... facial hair is a bonus, but not required. Hair is only an important factor if it's not longer than mine and I definitely think BALD is beautiful. I also enjoy tattoos that are tasteful and can be considered "art"This person will also enjoy country music - It is the heart of who I am.I also hope that he's a good kisser. No... in fact, I insist... *sighs*I would hope that this ONE decent guy would be hoping that I am ME.He needs to be accepting of my flaws and imperfections, because I am NOT perfect...Then too, I am most positive that he is not perfect either.Perfect people are NOT doing online dating.I might not be perfect but I am fun and witty, with a serious side.I'm outgoing and shy all rolled into one.I like to dance with my friends but I wanna dance with someone who will hold me close during the slow songs.I am a runner and I have a road bike. I enjoy riding on the back of a Harley and enjoy having bits of excitement in my life.Riding roller coasters is the main reason for going to an amusement park, but I like to stop and smell the roses too.I am hopeful that this ONE decent guy will give me reason to delete this account, I've been tempted to... but I'm too darned hopeful...FYI - I hate to mention this last, but I am a Christian. I can only hope that you are as well.It's important to me. I also hope that you're a forgiving person - because at my age, I've done my fair share of mistakes and understand that you may have as well. We can't change or forget our past, but we CAN forgive it. If you don't have a forgiving attitude... First things first: We gotta meet (in a public place). Which may be confusing - simply put... the first time we meet - there will be a ton of other people in the same location.Just do me a huge favor and, as much as I appreciate you having showered beforehand, please don't use perfumey bath soap. My allergies can't handle it.;Old Spice" >PFYI - I don't drink coffee, so please don't use the "let's have coffee" line. Be more original and no, I don't want to meet you at the ***for a slurpee. Sonic for a Slushee? Yeah, I'd like that. But ***? No thank you. LOLThen IF the first meeting goes well and we have a mutual connection: The first date needs to be casual. No fancy dinner, no major expense. Maybe just a stroll on the beach and a quick dinner at a beach bar/grill. I'm a simple girl, but I like to have fun too. So think outside the box, but just a little.BTW - if you have no intentions on meeting me - you will never know if I was all the things you thought I wasn't or if I wasn't the things you thought that I was and if you want to know about me ... you'll have to actually carry on a conversation. So if you don't want to talk and you have no plans on meeting me... I ask that you please don't even waste my time. And if we chat and you later decide that you're not interested, at least have the decency to say so.I'm tired of the disappearing act.

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