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About Me

Yodel yodel yodel lay…. the cynic of online sites like this one was convinced by pals this morning at the gym to say ‘what heck!!', and be open to actually giving it a try. So here goes my lame effort! :)I am a busy and very independent gal with a committed focus on my son, and my work (and sports!). I am easy going, laughter/good wit is part of my every day (yup-A guy that gets my attention is smart, clever wit, goal orientated, active/fit, loves sports, very grounded, communicative, and shares similar values…). Guys that typically do not get my attention (but you bet, they catch my eye most times) are the spin doctors, drama kings, and players. As much as you are some of the hottest, out going and fun guys— not into a rotation plan and it is just not the flavor of the day pick for me (no harm, no foul! :) ).So, if you think we have something in common and are open to learning to know someone and see where it goes.... click whatever buttons on this site you need to and drop me a hello.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shelby

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    hmmmm where to start....grab a coffee pull up a seat...In you I seek and hope you are confident in who you are, attracted to motivation & drive, humor, intelligence and great conversation. I hope you love the outdoors and are open to jumping in a car and just rolling with it...no itinerary needed just great company...you need to be strong mentally and emotionally I'm not good with weak minded people. I don't remember feeling I could count on a guy in a very long time...it would be nice to count on you. I'm best with a man who is laid back..calm...glass half full. I hope you lead a healthy lifestyle...amazed at how people go through life constantly trying to kill themselves..with fast food, drugs..smoking. etc.. No one's perfect but I believe in making an effort..I hope you love what you do for work and are a good man.A little about me....I miss the people but not the cold. I love the water in, on and around. I don't really see a point living west of 95?.... a goof at times...intense at times...love animals, love the smell of a crisp fall day....love the touch of the guy I'm head over heels for. Love affection and not afraid to give it if you are the right guy. I believe the choices I have made have brought me to the result good or bad, no one made me..I'm accountable and do what it takes. Im happy and very independent, just miss that someone which is impossible to put into words because words cant describe this feeling of magic when the stars align and there is this undeniable connection emotionally and physically..few seem to experience.but rather settle. I would rather go through life believing there is a God and find out that there isn't......vs going through life arguing it, not believing and find out that there is. I believe a spark fuels the fire and *** soul, and I believe a foundation of common values, interests and beliefs get you through the tough times...I believe a little curiosity and mystery creates anticipation and appreciation in life and people. It is the day to day things that make or break a relationship, a career and so on...and I believe meeting that person meant for you...comes down to timing and maintaining a healthy relationship is based on compatibility, chemistry, respect and communication....if you allow me to be me...I will always have your back and be your biggest fan.I have amazing friends that have been in my life ***years...and dated a guy longer than most marriages...never had kids because I'm not able to and was voted first to get married but have found I don't need a piece of paper or a ring to by loyal...just a good man meant for me. I'm finally ready regardless of where/when or how I meet someone...been a long time since I was in a relationship years...by choice and timing. As a person I'm a mix of Corporate America and the drive to achieve more however without having to work for anyone other than myself....a little bit of a free spirit and would rather be alone then fill time with someone I'm not crazy about....I would love to live the Kenny Chesney lifestyle.. I think sometimes its how you look at things and when you change how you see things and take a different perspective you see the beauty in it vs. the ugly...and it changes your life.Online is hard for me because my attention span lasts about 15 seconds!!...much better in person..old school I guess...not much into texting...emailing etc..would rather just meet you to see if there is any connection.....I do read what you wrote and if I feel there really isn't anything we have in common or the distance is too far ...it would be the reason I don't respond..I also don't know how to speak with more than one person at a time... casual low key..if the company and chemistry is good...where and what doesn't really matter...

  • Angel

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    "Couples are jigsaw puzzles that hang together by touching in just enough points. They're never total fits or misfits." ~ This quote is what I aspire for in achieving a relationship. While I am ultimately looking for a long-term relationship, it's not necessarily an immediate goal. // My friends describe me as people-friendly, fun-spirited, outgoing and trustworthy. Adding to that I would say I am very passionate about my family and my profession. // I work in military public affairs as a federal civilian (I'm also a retired Navy Chief). I'm a single mom of a 16-year-old son who lives with me. My 23-year-old daughter lives close by with my grandson (first grandbaby), born June ***. // Now that my kids are older, I have a lot of free time on my hands and would love to have someone join me for activities/events, such as wine tasting, volunteer work, running, dancing ... ever heard of meetup.com? // I value my femininity and I love being an independent woman. I attempt to live my life as a reflection of God's love. I enjoy working out, running in races, reading, hiking, biking and wine tasting. I like to travel, even if only "mini-vacations" in the local area. I am committed to working out and love the Planet Fitness gym.-*not* contact me if you are recently separated (3 months or less) and/or no separation papers, or you prefer not to say what your relationship status is.Qualities of my potential mate ~ loyal, fun-spirited and dedicated to life passions. And one who can accept that by touching in enough points like pieces in a jigsaw puzzle, the relationship has potential ~ refer to the jigsaw quote that began this profile :-) Ideal Date ~ I believe that the first date should be one that allows us to get to know each other more. Over an adult beverage in the early evening, and just go from there.

  • Brittney

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'd say I'm fun, flirty, sassy, spontaneous and adventurous. I tend to color outside the lines and have been called a rebel a time or two. (i've also been called a good person, a great listener, a great friend, and a comic!)I love the beach and being on the water. I enjoy cooking and baking. I am a jeep girl. I have a long list of things to do. (But my "been there, done that" list isn't too shabby!) I think that life is too short for mediocre experiences and I'm always up to try something or somewhere new.It would be great to find a guy who I really click with. Someone who I miss when we're not together (and who misses me). A man with confidence, who is not insecure, jealous or too needy. Someone who's comfortable to be around and who will make me giggle and make me feel safe. But I tell myself everyday that I'm lucky I'm employed (and I enjoy what I do, so that helps too!). I tend to find the bright side of every situation... I am the positive spark wearing the smile. :) I like to keep first dates short - a meet for lunch, dinner, coffee or drinks would be ideal.

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