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Hester, 41

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About Me

I am divorced and I have 2 beautiful children ages 17 and 13. I have spent the last years building my career and focusing on my children. As it happens my kids are at an age where hanging out with their mother is very UNCOOL so as they tell me I need to "get" a life!!!!!! I love my job, I love to go to concerts and movies. I am a huge reader. Reading helps me take a step out of my own life and live vicariously through those in my books (again, as my kids say I need to "get" a life, lol).. I love my life and I am very fortunate, maybe just a bit sheltered and stuck in my ways. I would like to meet someone who challenges me, someone who dares me to take a chance. Not saying I will but I definitely don't need a pushover, I way too strong and independent for that. Something casual

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Are you looking for an energetic, fun-loving companion to share your life and love with? I could be that girl ;-) I'm a graphic designer so I enjoy most things that involve the arts like concerts, movies, street art fairs or visiting an exhibit at a museum. I'm open-;twerking" ;-). Healthy body and mind is priority which I achieve via diet, exercise, and a little meditation. FYI I'm also a vegetarian and quit eating meat over 2 years ago for health reasons. However, I don't expect my date to share my dietary choices - just to respect it and not judge. What makes a man attractive to me is one who is outgoing, articulate, sexy, fun and can light up a room with his positive energy. He's well-groomed, smells good and changes his undies every day ;-) A sense of humor is a must! A mutual interest in the arts like movies, theater, music is also desirable. Openly affectionate and embraces his sensitive side. Respectful of each others' feelings, opinions, lifestyles and time. Knows that you can gain influence people more using compassion than ruling with an iron fist. In love matters, he may have had his heart bruised in the past but he's still open to the possibility of finding committed, lasting love again. Must be emotionally and physically available for a relationship (i.e. not separated, married or still carrying a torch for another woman, or looking for a long distant relationship). I've been able to work through my relationship blocks and expect the man that I date to have worked through his too. The bottom line is that I'm not looking for perfection but I need to be with someone who will make me feel like I'm that shiny new "toy" that he never wants to stop playing with. If you think we might make a good fit, shoot me an *** something short and sweet like meeting for coffee or glass of wine someplace quiet so we can talk and see if there's anything worth pursuing further. If we find there's no chemistry between us, I won't waste your time and expect the same in return.

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