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Sharon, 41

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About Me

Hello, I am 41 Single, never been married, and I have no children. My family and my friends are very important to me. They are a huge part of my life. I am here because...haven't met anyone or the one for me yet while shopping, while going for walks, at the gym, through mutual friends, ect...you know the whole scenerio. Not into clubs or bars, on a daily, weekly, monthly basis. However,I love music and love going to hear bands live.I would like to meet someone I am compatible with, someone I feel a connection with, some of the same interests as well. I have long-term down, but in reality you have to date first, be friends, and go from there. I want a relationship. I would like to meet someone who has their own life, but can include me in it as well as me including them in mine. It is nice though to know you have someone that you can call (not text constantly and never calling is annoying to me) to say Hi to or vise versa, or to look forward to seeing them again, make plans to do things with, and spending some quality time with them,when time is permitted. Those are the things I want and miss in my life. I want someone who is sweet,kind hearted, passionate,honest,trust worthy, responsible,outgoing, fun, can keep their word,and wants basically the same things I want. Someone, that I can be myself with as well as enjoy each others company,no matter what we are doing. Someone who will spoil me and knows how to treat a lady. I won't put on here I want a real man, I just want A MAN, not a child, not a boy.Summer is my favorite season and I love being outdoors, as you can see by some of my interests listed, but not all of them are listed. I am comfortable going without make-up and dressing down just as well as wearing that little black dress and heals for a night out. I am not your typical average lady. I am outspoken,sometimes at a fault. Say what I mean, Mean what I say, and Try not to say it mean. Love that quote! I guess it is because I am so honest,maybe brutally at times. I am picky, which could be a variety of different things. Selective, meaning I won't settle for just anything or anyone. Why sell yourself short? Stubborn too, at times. Which that doesn't mean I can't compromise at times and that I don't know when I am wrong or if I am in the right either. I believe I have good morals/values and a great sense of character/judgment. I definetly know what I want and what I do not want. No fakes,PLAYERS, x convicts,or people that pretend to be someone they are not. I am a very caring person, passionate, confident/secure with who I am. I am fun, very outgoing, strong, and very giving. I am a trusting person until, you give me a reason/s not too. I am a simple person and I like it that way, no drama. For one I am not into playing games, nor do I want a liar, cheater, woman beater, someone who is negative, or verbal abusive, someone who has to drink every day to have fun or better yet an acoholic, nor a druggy, or can not let go of their past, or someone that can not be true to themselves. If your looking for someone to make you happy, then you are here for the wrong reasons, you should be content with yourself first. By content, that means free and clear of any OLD baggage such as X's or some deep down ugly past. I don't mind being second to kids, but I will not be second to your X or a horrible life style, who wants only half of someone? I want to be number one and want that person to be my number one. Another thing everyone has heard, but seems to have forgotten is that you should treat others the way you would want to be treated or how would you feel if someone treated you that way, is another way to look at it. I am not perfect and will never claim to be, I have faults and have made mistakes just as everyone else has. I want someone that adds something to me.....not someone that takes things away. I am looking for the 4 S's = SINGLE,SEXY,SMART, & SUCCESSFUL;) I am attracted to a variety of different men (Only Wanting ONE MAN) it all depends it could be a man in a suit and tie, a sweaty construction man with nice pecs, tan, and tattoos, cowboy in wranglers even though I prefer Levi's, a farmer, a casual dressed man, military man, or a Harley rider. I am attrated to men that shave their heads, I find it sexy! Not attracted to red headed men at all nor do I date outside my own race. I won't lie, looks do matter to me because I want to be attracted to the person I am with,( I want to date someone who cares about himself, not only physical, but everything) but they are not everything if your not a good person. I also want/NEED to feel a connection with the person I want to date ( a spark, chemistry,butterflys, or something that makes me can't wait to see them again). I hope to find a best friend some day and a lover. I like men that are kind,have nice teeth, smell good, respectful, caring, thoughtful, loving, confident, mature, secure, not selfish, *** if we r dating, I want to go places and go out-not sit inside and watch movies all the time, mechanically inclined, romantic, not materalistic, mentally stable,reliable, funny,responsible, laid back at times, HONEST, and many more qualities... Also they should know what they want as well. I believe friendship should come first in any type of relationship, TRUST, and communication is very important to me. So if your wanting the hook-up or if you think that is who I am, you are very wrong so please don't waste my time or yours. I also hope that your looking to date one woman at a time as well, if things work out. Because I don't like to share the man I am seeing and I WON'T!!! I don't believe in rushing into things quickly everything takes time including getting to know each other, so if your impatient then move on. Back to me only wanting ONE MAN, I know and you know sometimes it takes meeting ALL the wrong ones before you meet the right one, just stinks that it takes forever. The right ONE for me anyways:)It isn't what you have/own that impresses me. It is who you are and how you would treat me. "I am human, so I look." My friends say I am real, which is a good thing. Never have to guess where I stand or basically what I am thinking, no that does not mean I am a chatty Cathy. I need some down time, silence, peace, serenity. LOL:)Another favorite saying of mine is, "Why settle for someone you can live with, I would rather settle for someone I can't live without!" "Hopefully, you're a man with a PLAN." SURPRISE ME, BE SPONTANIOUS, BE FUN, PLEASE DON'T BORE ME!!! Something fun, outdoors if it is nice out:) where we could get to know each other better. Dinner/Picnics is always nice on dates:) If we are compatible great if not great, maybe a good friend. You can never have too many friends:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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