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Lydia, 41
United States, California, Orange

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About Me

I am new to the whole online dating scene. It's hard to meet someone, or even know where to start, when you've been out of the game for quite awhile. So I thought I'd give this a try and see were it goes. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, going to outdoor events, camping, beaches, walking, movies, shopping and listening to music. I'm looking for someone to spend time with who's honest, kind, and has a good sense of humor. I tend to be quiet and am a good listener, in other words I'm not a talkative person until you really get to know me. I also tend to be a bit serious, but I love to laugh and definitely have my silly moments. Hoping to find someone to share those moments with. I value honesty, trust, and communication in relationships. It's better to be up front and talk things out *** lying or letting things fester. I have three children, one teenagers and other two are grown and on their own. I also have a four year old grandson as well, they are my world life would not be complete without them. Not looking for a dad for them, they already have one. Definitely not looking to play games or have random hook ups. Please don't waste my time or yours if that's what your seeking, because it's not gonna happen. Also not interested in talking to anyone who is under 30. No creepers please! In all honesty, it helps if you have a few pics of yourself on your profile as well; not gonna lie, attraction is a part of this. If you're interested please don't hesitate to message me. I will get back to you as soon as I can. thanks for taking the time to read my profile and best of luck to you and your search! Good conversation over dinner and/or drinks!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae American Indonesian Middle Eastern Adult Crime Family & Kids Sailing Volleyball
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