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Tammi, 41

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About Me

I am first and foremost a single mother of two wonderful children. I work full time and between the two sometimes life can get a little crazy. I am currently separated, with divorce to be finalized in November. I am looking for someone who is ok with the fact I have kids and can understand that on occasion, things have to revolve around them before they can revolve around us. I am not looking for sex, one nighters, etc. If that is you please move on. I am looking for someone who can't wait to talk to me, can't wait to see me again. Someone who will talk to me and tell me about their day, what makes them tick, what pisses them off. I am outspoken and tend to say what is on my mind at any given time. Looking for someone who can keep me grounded. If we start to chat and hit it off, great. But I am usually a pretty good judge of character and can tell when things aren't moving anywhere. I believe in communication and I believe communication goes both ways. It should not be expected that one person always initiate the contact, however if contact is made and there is no response, it's time to move on. I am short, 4"***to be exact. I am not a supermodel, nor will I ever be a supermodel. I am working towards self improvement and take great pride in doing so. I have lost 60# and am working on ***# more but still will not be a supermodel. If that is what you are looking for, I am not for you. I want to get to know you and you know me. I want you to think about me and let me know with a simple text or a call to let me know. As I will do the same. I know what I want, I know what I like and I'm not into playing games. I am a good friend and do what I can for anyone that I consider a friend. I listen to just about any type of music, however Country is my most listened to. The first date will always need to be something simple and most likely lunch, coffee or a meet in the park. I would hate for either of us to be in a position where there is this big evening planned and there is no attraction. Keeping it simple is the best way. If we hit it off, then the 2nd date can be something more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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