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Selma, 45

Offline, last seen Thu, 04 Jun 2026 21:55:16

About Me

Update June ***: I am officially divorcedOk, after being on this site now on and off for a while I think it’s time for an update. A little bit of background…. Can’t help but feel that this built a strong foundation for humor and “I got your back”, if you know what I mean. Competing over food : ) and attention at the dinner table (aka jokes) has made me realize at this time in my life humor is a wonderful thing to have and I often use it to get through some of the tougher times. Not to say I don’t have a serious side, as I do, but I do love to laugh and enjoy making others laugh as well.I attended college in NYC for Graphic Design and still do freelance work as a Graphic Artist from home. The great thing about this is that I do get to spend a lot of time with my 10 year old & 13 year old. They come first and if your kids are over 18 and you do not want to date someone with younger children I completely understand.I am thankful for the many areas I have lived in in the US as well as overseas. Living in Guam 2x with 2 Super Typhoons under my belt has given me some life experiences that I would not trade. While living in Guam I had the good fortune to be a buyer for a gift shop which once again the travel and the people that I met on my trips make me realize I am privy to some things that some people will never know nor understand. I love being outside and actually enjoy doing yard work. The beach is and will always be a favorite place to go. Love the arts and enjoy diverse conversation.As stated in my original profile, I do not think this is a perfect science. I do believe that it is a combination of personality, chemistry and enjoying each other’s company. And a we bit of a crapshoot if you will. Timing plays a role as well. Looking to be friends first and see if any of the combos are working on both sides. I don’t discount a relationship but am not in any type of rush whatsoever…Ok, that all being said…. Please oh please do not contact me if:a. Married... this to me would be a no brainer... such is not the caseb. No picture... clearly you are hiding something or from someone... move alongc. Interested in "brief encounters" of any kindd. YES! The long awaited for d and here it is….You have pictures of yourself taking pictures of yourself in your bathroom mirror… c’mon work with me here…. Get a friend, heck pay a stranger to take your picture!! Anything but the dreaded “bathroom” picture please!Happy Fishing to all : ) Lot's of good ways to go on a first date.... we'll figure it out

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Darla

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If you don't have a picture up don't expect a reply unless you are willing to send one. Sorry to all the lovely black men out there, but I am just not interested. Update: Fellas, I have reached a time in my life where I want something more than endless dating. I want a man to see when I return from a business trip. I want a man to go on fun weekends together. Please be serious, honest, and forthright.Hello there fellow single and looking!!! I am a normal, somewhat well adjusted woman who is looking to date and hopefully find that special someone. I left this site for a while, but I'm back to give it another try. I am looking for a man who makes my heart go pitter patter and strikes that cord that makes me excited to get up in the morning and see if there is a message from him. You know what I am talking about...that certain je ne sais quoi that is not explainable, but gives you tingles none-the-less.I like my job and travel quite a bit, but I am home almost always on the weekends and can usually find a day or two during the week. When I am home, I work from home. It's a great gig.I don't live to work. I work to live! I like going to outdoor concerts and festivals, exploring restaurants, having a glass of wine, spending time with friends, having cookouts, or just watching t.v. together. I am nice, outgoing, and love to have fun so please have a sense of humor.Go on and message me if you are single...let's chat! First dates are...awkward. I suggest meeting for coffee and just talking for an hour or so. No movie dates! How are you supposed to get to know one another in a movie???!!!??? You should message me if you are quirky and enjoy life to the fullest. You like to have intelligent conversations. You like to have inane conversations. You like wine. You don't like intolerant people. Let's have fun!

  • Maxine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Traveling, shopping, movies, fishing, boating & Harley rides are a few of the things I enjoy doing. I love to laugh & I have an excellent sense of humor.I dont lie or cheat. Family is very important to me. I'm looking for someone w/ the same qualities.I do have1 requirement...U must Have A JOB!! Meet for dinner or drinks

  • Emilia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm easy going, love the outdoors, looking for someone who enjoys the simple things in life. I would like to find my best friend and someone who is ready to be involved in a relationship. I am happy being with just one man and would like the same in return. I do not smoke, do drugs, but I do drink socially. You will see my interests listed above but I am always open to new adventures. Looking for drug free, non smoker, social drinker ok.....I am drama free and looking for the same.anything else, just askGood Luck in your search....... anything is fine as long as it is casual and we are both comfortable, after that who knows.......

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