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Selma, 45

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About Me

Update June ***: I am officially divorcedOk, after being on this site now on and off for a while I think it’s time for an update. A little bit of background…. Can’t help but feel that this built a strong foundation for humor and “I got your back”, if you know what I mean. Competing over food : ) and attention at the dinner table (aka jokes) has made me realize at this time in my life humor is a wonderful thing to have and I often use it to get through some of the tougher times. Not to say I don’t have a serious side, as I do, but I do love to laugh and enjoy making others laugh as well.I attended college in NYC for Graphic Design and still do freelance work as a Graphic Artist from home. The great thing about this is that I do get to spend a lot of time with my 10 year old & 13 year old. They come first and if your kids are over 18 and you do not want to date someone with younger children I completely understand.I am thankful for the many areas I have lived in in the US as well as overseas. Living in Guam 2x with 2 Super Typhoons under my belt has given me some life experiences that I would not trade. While living in Guam I had the good fortune to be a buyer for a gift shop which once again the travel and the people that I met on my trips make me realize I am privy to some things that some people will never know nor understand. I love being outside and actually enjoy doing yard work. The beach is and will always be a favorite place to go. Love the arts and enjoy diverse conversation.As stated in my original profile, I do not think this is a perfect science. I do believe that it is a combination of personality, chemistry and enjoying each other’s company. And a we bit of a crapshoot if you will. Timing plays a role as well. Looking to be friends first and see if any of the combos are working on both sides. I don’t discount a relationship but am not in any type of rush whatsoever…Ok, that all being said…. Please oh please do not contact me if:a. Married... this to me would be a no brainer... such is not the caseb. No picture... clearly you are hiding something or from someone... move alongc. Interested in "brief encounters" of any kindd. YES! The long awaited for d and here it is….You have pictures of yourself taking pictures of yourself in your bathroom mirror… c’mon work with me here…. Get a friend, heck pay a stranger to take your picture!! Anything but the dreaded “bathroom” picture please!Happy Fishing to all : ) Lot's of good ways to go on a first date.... we'll figure it out

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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