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Bettye, 44

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About Me

I'm not looking for someone perfect, just a good guy for me. After sifting through all the traits I thought I couldn't do without, I really just want someone I totally dig who totally digs me and wants to be with me. Laughter is essential, and in a perfect world I'd love to find someone who pleasantly surprises me (says/does sweet, funny or clever things that I didn't see coming). While not religious at all, I am really spiritual, so hopefully you'll think that's cool. With me you'll get no flash but plenty of substance. I don't wear heels, short skirts or make-up but I'm honestly pretty smart. I think of myself as the perfect balance of earth and sky: I believe in the power and love of energy and a conscious universe, but I'm addicted to Dr. Pepper and reality TV. What about you?A couple amendments: (A) If you are interested in getting to know me, please ask me questions about myself. If I find myself doing all the asking I burn out quickly. In order to respond I'll need more from you than "You are cute," or "Hi, I'm Joe." If you send an empty message like, "How are you?" or something, I'll assume you didn't read this and I'll delete it. This may sound harsh, but openings like that leave me with all the heavy lifting. (B) If you say you want "no drama" you're kind of looking for a unicorn. As women go I'm not that dramatic, but women are dramatic by definition, especially by male standards. Just something to consider. Thanks for reading.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Allison

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    NON-SMOKING COUNTRY BOYS ONLY No pic=No talk please and it needs to be more than a face shot buddy.DUDE - READ the PROFILE!!! IF YOU'RE NOT A COUNTRY BOY, then I'm not interested.STOP LYING ABOUT YOUR HEIGHT! It's amazing how at 5'3" with 4" heels I'm suddenly the same height or taller than some 5'10' guy. Do the math, it ain't so. I'm not saying you have to be tall but when you lie about it, it usually ends up you have other issues with feeling small.Mustache/goatee - great but a soul patch looks awful!If you don't like getting your hands dirty, yard and farmwork, you're not for me. IF YOU DON'T LIKE hunting...same again. Probably, if you don't know something about at least one of these it won't work: auto mechanics, carpentry or farming. And if you like cars more than trucks...not happening.Oh, and dudes who lie about your height/age 1.it's usually easy to figure out by your pics so I won't answer 2.if ya' fool me with a pic I sure figure it out when we meet and how stupid is that? Because, yes, I will count you out for that. Even if you're not very short if you lie about it - you're done :) I just don't get it.Just so ya know - I put "looking for a relationship" because in the long run I am BUT I won't be tying you down from the beginning.Dating in the beginning but eventually we figure out whether we mesh or we don't. If we don't that's fine and we will go our separate ways because I don't do 'Friends With Benefits'.Someone who likes pets is a MUST.BEING COUNTRY IS A MUST ALSO. I'm a country girl - I say 'educated redneck'. I have a small farm, or zoo, depending on the day. I enjoy pretty much anything outdoors from planting flowers, clearing brush to hiking, fishing (with beer included) or a sporting event. I can have fun visiting the city to eat, shop or absorb some culture but couldn't live there.AS FOR RELIGION: I'm wary of profiles with 'non-religious' - I'm not a Bible thumper but when work allows I get to church on Sunday as often as possible. If you can't go to church with me some or if you're a non believer it won't work between us. I do say blessing before my meals (silent and discreet in a restaurant). When I have a job with 'normal' hours I also prefer to be in choir and help on committees. Again, I won't be preaching to you - hey, I cuss some and drink too but I am a believer.-shirt or somethin. When I go out on the town, I'll probably be wearing some hot heels, (sandals a lot in the summer though). If it's snowing I'll wear my coveralls/snowboots until I get to my destination, then I'll put on the sexy shoes/boots ;) I'm a constant 'before' and 'after'.My job keeps me quite busy one month and pretty regular the next. I look a lot younger than my age and prefer to date men who are either younger or not more than a few years older. Taking care of yourself and eating healthy is important too. But hey, I still love Biscuits n Gravy and Macaroni n Cheese and other great foods - in moderation. I'm a devoted mom but my baby's now in college. That's why the pic is here, not to get your whining complaint about it. Enjoy...PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. For a first meeting probably just coffee somewhere. For a first date, dinner or a walk probably. I don't want to write too much because it varies so much by the person or timing.

  • Paige

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Easy going, healthy and fit. I'm more youthful than my age and looking for the same. I'm in no rush...but not willing to waste my time or yours. I'm attracted to a man who is confident, grounded, athletic, playful and has an open heart. You should be active and in shape to keep up with me. :)I’d like to share common interests such as working out, cooking and eating a healthy meal together, traveling near or far, laughing at a great movie, listening to music or seeing a concert, reading and snuggling under the duvet. I'd really like to share a passion for the outdoors and sports with someone. If the above information has you raising your eyebrow in curiosity, we should connect.Players and serial daters need not apply. If you aren't open to the possibility of a relationship please move along. I'm a quality girl. Can it involve dark chocolate?

  • Kenya

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a caring, kind hearted woman who enjoys fun and laughter. I have so much more to offer to that special man. I expect to be treated like a lady. Im looking for a man who can take care of himself and is financially stable. I believe in treating a person the same way I want to be treated. I'm not into games or drama, just looking for a special man who would enjoy me. I like to watch football and other sports, I enjoy horseback riding and traveling. Just recently separated and not looking for a relationship right now. I want to enjoy life. If I sound like a person u want to meet, please contact me. Open minded...

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