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Dena, 41
United States, Texas, Pasadena

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 May 2025 19:48:13

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Hello - Please don't click want to meet me but then leave no message....very hard to know what you are interested in and I like something to follow up with....I forget to even check that half the time.Mail me -Jaelynnmartin at ymail dot com fyi cuz for some reason i cant reply to some of my messages so try my mail please!!!Please read the next line very carefully so we don't waste our time:I am tall plus size girl with great personality and think I am attractive and fun and a little crazy. Please notice....Tall / Plus Size ok.....now then read on if still interested.My pictures are from past 2 years and some as recent as this month....If you don't have a picture or if you have no intention but wanting me to meet for sex on your lunch break then I am not the woman you are looking for....please don't waste my time by Bullsh*** me with false lines and what you think I want to hear- I am better than that.Am coming out of a relationship with a man I still consider my friend and I have been separated since end of January ***I am not wanting to 'settle' down but rather live life to the fullest and be free to be me - whoever I need to be.. Personality and conversation will get you much farther in my life then looks - once I have looked at you a few times I need to have something to hold me there, stimulating conversation, passion and a reason to keep seeing you.Looks are in the eye of the beholder... We all enjoy something pleasing to the eye but I want some one who is funny, outspoken, challenges my mind and likes my humor (twisted as it may be sometimes).No restraints relationship with trust and desire for the other to be content & happy (not missing a moment in life)is my wish. I hope to be able to expect trust in my partner & am not big on jealousy & distrust....the right Person will keep my attention.I hope many activities will be shared but there are those times and places that one of us may not want to go or be part of and that should be ok too.Kinda live by the No rest for the wicked song / motto / lifestyle.Live life large, Have fun doing it, & Let no one stop your dreams (crazy as they may be) I am tall with meat on my bones and am a solid frame with junk n trunk and curves, so if u r looking for a lil petite thing - I am not your girl....not interested in shallow personalities or stay at home all the time homebody types....been there and done that. I want the opportunity to get to know somebody well before just jumping into a full out relationship & not automatically obligated until it's been stated between both of us as an agreement. Again let me state i am separated and am not planning anything major yet but am still Having fun!! Also have 2 teens and unable 2 have kids.And dont need a Daddy for mine nor do I need to replace your baby mama. I respect that families are divided but have needs together when kids involved, Something simple and real:Movie, Dinner, Drinks, Shoot Pool, Concert, Casinos, parks...I don't care as long as I get to laugh and feel good about it when it's over. I understand there is always awkward moments when meeting but if all we find is awkward silences please just take me home and we say 'Nice to have met Thank you & Bye Bye' It won't be personal just - It is what it is.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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