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Hello - Please don't click want to meet me but then leave no message....very hard to know what you are interested in and I like something to follow up with....I forget to even check that half the time.Mail me -Jaelynnmartin at ymail dot com fyi cuz for some reason i cant reply to some of my messages so try my mail please!!!Please read the next line very carefully so we don't waste our time:I am tall plus size girl with great personality and think I am attractive and fun and a little crazy. Please notice....Tall / Plus Size ok.....now then read on if still interested.My pictures are from past 2 years and some as recent as this month....If you don't have a picture or if you have no intention but wanting me to meet for sex on your lunch break then I am not the woman you are looking for....please don't waste my time by Bullsh*** me with false lines and what you think I want to hear- I am better than that.Am coming out of a relationship with a man I still consider my friend and I have been separated since end of January ***I am not wanting to 'settle' down but rather live life to the fullest and be free to be me - whoever I need to be.. Personality and conversation will get you much farther in my life then looks - once I have looked at you a few times I need to have something to hold me there, stimulating conversation, passion and a reason to keep seeing you.Looks are in the eye of the beholder... We all enjoy something pleasing to the eye but I want some one who is funny, outspoken, challenges my mind and likes my humor (twisted as it may be sometimes).No restraints relationship with trust and desire for the other to be content & happy (not missing a moment in life)is my wish. I hope to be able to expect trust in my partner & am not big on jealousy & distrust....the right Person will keep my attention.I hope many activities will be shared but there are those times and places that one of us may not want to go or be part of and that should be ok too.Kinda live by the No rest for the wicked song / motto / lifestyle.Live life large, Have fun doing it, & Let no one stop your dreams (crazy as they may be) I am tall with meat on my bones and am a solid frame with junk n trunk and curves, so if u r looking for a lil petite thing - I am not your girl....not interested in shallow personalities or stay at home all the time homebody types....been there and done that. I want the opportunity to get to know somebody well before just jumping into a full out relationship & not automatically obligated until it's been stated between both of us as an agreement. Again let me state i am separated and am not planning anything major yet but am still Having fun!! Also have 2 teens and unable 2 have kids.And dont need a Daddy for mine nor do I need to replace your baby mama. I respect that families are divided but have needs together when kids involved, Something simple and real:Movie, Dinner, Drinks, Shoot Pool, Concert, Casinos, parks...I don't care as long as I get to laugh and feel good about it when it's over. I understand there is always awkward moments when meeting but if all we find is awkward silences please just take me home and we say 'Nice to have met Thank you & Bye Bye' It won't be personal just - It is what it is.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mamie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok, gentlemen, here we go.....I would like to preface this by saying that never in a million years would I have entertained the idea of an on-line dating site, nor actually participate in one. I've also learned never to say never and have developed an attitude that anything is possible in life.I was married to the same man for 15 years, together with him for 18, and my divorce was, by far, the most devastating crisis in my life. With that being said, I believe that we are all dealt cards in life, we never know which ones will be given to us, however it is how we choose to play them that make us who we are today.A little about myself...First, a few random facts:1. My favorite candy is Good-N-Plenty2. I always put my left shoe on first.3. I drive too fast, but have never gotten a ticket.4. I CANNOT roller blade. I've tried many times and have the scars to prove it!.5. I have been to every single United State in this amazing Country.6. I hate grocery shopping, but love to go to Costco, Home Depot and Bed Bath and Beyond :)7. My favorite song has been my favorite for 20 years. It's by Depeche Mode.8. I have won the Rinke Award once in my lifetime (Bet you that you have no idea what that is, bonus points if you do!)9. My parents have 4 children and I am the middle child....figure that one out!10. I do not blush easily, but have a tendency to make others blush :)11. My eye color changes with the weather. Usually green, sometimes blue, but I always see beauty through them :)12. My friends would describe me as Sassy, Sassy and sometimes a little Sassy.13. I believe in Angels (perhaps because I am one...just sayin')14. I am a sucker for men who drive with their knees.15. I'm very girly-girl but have the mouth of a sailor...when warranted :)I went to Madonna University and have a Bachelors of Science in Nursing with a minor in General Science/Biology. I would never have chosen a different career path because it has showered me with experiences beyond belief. I am quick-witted and sassy with a tad (ok, maybe a whole lot) of sarcasm to my humor. I am intelligent,charasmatic, independent and outgoing. I am a people person and can become best friends with a room filled with strangers by the end of the evening. I am secure with myself physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually.I love to laugh until my stomach hurts and enjoy every moment that we have been given during this short visit He has granted us on Earth.I believe in living life to its fullest, forgiving the ones who have hurt us, cherishing the ones who love us and keeping in mind, at all times, that tomorrow may never come.And that is exactly what I am looking for in a man. Someone who will debate my negatives, embrace my positives and laugh with me through this thing called life.I just may be a challenge to your balance gentlemen.Good luck on your new journey through life. May God bless you and keep you safe....~ Michele ~ (with one L. Don't ever forget that!!! Just kidding. No, I'm serious! LOL!)Favorite quote by my favorite person: "It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice." ~ JC (he will forever hold my hand and a special place in my heart)...... I think it would be fun to go out on a beautiful Fall day to a cemetary, clean off as many gravestones as possible and place fresh cut flowers on them. Then, after we get arrested and bailed out of jail with my charming personality, we head out for coffee or drinks by the lake.....

  • Willa

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a really outgoing person who loves to have fun and laugh. My friends and family say I am very kind hearted as well. I love to socialize with my friends and family. I enjoy playing volleyball and everything to do with the Brewers! Watching my girls in all their sports is the greatest thing ever!!! Plan it together.

  • Erma

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I consider myself a positive deaf person who loves my life. I use America Sign Language and of course I can read and write English. LOL I don't believe in playing games, drama and try to treat others with respect and kindness. I believe we teach people how we want to be treated so I attempt now to be as upfront and direct as possible.Most of my family and friends that I'm very cool and fun to hang out with like one of the guys but only better to look at! I can take as much b.s. :D I'm smart, sense of humor, romantic, healthy, easy-going, trusting, spiriting, open-mind and still have a FRAGILE but big heart.I love active outdoors such as hiking, bodyboarding, walking, downhill skiing, yoga, beach, camping, etc.; sunset, silly/ sarcastic mixed with anything discussions, traveling (I have a passport), exploring and photography.I have great friends and family and love spending time with them. I get dressed up and going out on the town is great but also is cooking a meal and watching a good movie or sitting in front of the fireplace or bonfire. I love the arts and can carry on an intellectual/silly conversation over a glass of wine or water. :***P.S. I don't like to share my income information. Improperly. FYI: my income above is B.S. Once we get to know each other if we are right for each other. Then I will tell you how much I make an income. I appreciate your respectful. BIG SMILE. Mahalo***P.S. Those 75 questions; agree or disagree. I don't feel comfortable those silly questions. I rather you get to know me as real person than those silly questions. Agree? Haha...I appreciate it again. MAHALO!***

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