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Arlene, 38

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About Me

Do not click the meet me button. I hate the *** do not even look at them. If u want to chat spend the time to send me an intellectual *** you grab my interest I will message you back. About me!Fishing with a pole and bait is much easier than this online stuff. If you’re going to ask for a nude photo, please do not waste my time by talking to me!I am a EMT-Basic, Fire Fighter-1A. I have been in collage since March of 09. I am closing in on completing the Special Education Signed Language Interpreting program. I have two year left and I well have my Bachelor’s degree! As of now I'm working full time as an EMT and also go to school full time... That does not leave too much time for anything else, but I make the most of my off time, which does not include being a couch potato. I am 38, but everyone says I look much younger. I am 5'8 about 180lbs, thick, but not a fat ass (got hurt at work a few years back and gained weight... starting to feel better now so I have joined a gym and loosing it.I have a different color of Brown/Red hair every few months, brown eyes, beautiful freckles (that i do not like).I am a smoker, not a big drinker, and I love anything outdoors (anything water related, camping, fishing, kayaking, bon fires, shooting guns). I love tattoos and have 7 with plans for more (all can be covered in daily clothes). I am tomboy at heart and not scared to get dirty but I clean up nice. I live in the city but miss the country. I work in health care and I am around men all the time (so if you’re the jealous type move on). I live alone in a small two bedroom crappy apartment.... but it is my own place! I am a clean freak, cannot have children and love animals.. I am fun to be around, can be downright goofy, but very serious when called for!Country boys make me giggle in awe! Tattoos are sexy.**hope you love the outdoors as much as I do, have a car, truck or horse, not live with mommy and/or daddy, children are ok, but no girlfriend, wife, ect..... and NO DRUGS! Let's not play the "where do you want to go?" game!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Naomi

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love travel, day trips,plays.comedy club,hot weather,going to the beach,day and night is always nice too,music,but except country not into motorcycles,dancing,going to a good movie every now and then,out to a nice dinner with great conversation, the red sox and the steelers!I love to laugh, considered to have a great personality and sense of humor. I enjoy what life has to offer! I'm not interested in having a text relationship lol . Only something real and with someone that hasn't forgotten what romance is about. Respect and honesty a must ,it goes a long way! coffee or a drink.

  • Marisa

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Prerequisites: Christian•Not Married•Not Separated (that's still MARRIED!) No shirtless pics (looking for a modest man)• No drinking/drunk pics (looking for a man with class & a grown up)• I am a hopeless romantic that wants very much to believe in true love and soulmates despite the fact that I am now ***or 29 for the 9th time as my sister and I prefer to say) and still have not found it...or it hasn't found me, whichever is correct. I thought I had a few times but I was sadly mistaken. Maybe it's not even about "soulmates," but rather two people wanting the same things, attracted to each other mentally, emotionally, and physically, and here is the important part... committed to stand by each other through lifes twists and turns, heartaches, and growing pains. But, I know of a few couples my parents included that were true blue soulmates... so I still believe. I am an independent woman and mother but not so independent that I don't realize that I would be so much better with a life partner. I want him to be my best friend and lover. Unfortunately for me, most of the men I hear from must only read that word "lover," and the rest of my profile is a complete blurrrrrrrrrrr..... Because, it has been my experience that most of the men that have asked me out from here are looking to hook up and nothing else. I am a little too grown up for that. I am after all...a lady. And I still believe that there are some gentlemen out there in the sea of fishies. It is my passion to work with survivors of trauma and eventually get into social policy. I am also a mother of five, yes five amazingly beautiful and fantastic children. If you are still reading this then you obviously did not freak out at the number five so I will disclose a little more info about my entourage. I have four daughters ages 19, 13,11, and 3, and a son who is 17. I share custody of my son and the next two girls. ( I was in a relationship with the oldest fours' father for nearly 13 years; that ended in ***And, my youngest is from a different father, she is primarily with me (I was with her father for 5 years). I'm saying this up front because the question, "are all your children from the same father?" is really tacky and I'd rather just avoid it all together. This way if you ask...I'll know you didn't bother to read my profile. I will not tolerate any form of abuse or ownership in any of my future relationships...been there, done that and I do not care to repeat the cycle. Two people who care about each other should never purposely hurt each other whether it's with words or actions. I've been cheated on and I know how badly that hurts. I have never nor would I ever cheat on someone. I have never understood why people even bother to get into a relationship if they are still wanting to sleep around or date other people. Also, I am not into open relationships... so please do not ask me out if this is something you fantasize about or God help you...practice. I'm completely disgusted by it. Eventually after I am finished with school which will be spring of ***, I would like to keep my options open to either moving somewhere more beautiful with water and mountains preferably or settling into the country somewhere here in Oz. I am a country girl at heart and always will be. Then my mama (a single mom most of my life) moved us to the city... Both places are very much home to me. I have family in both Indy and Pa., but most are in Pa. I do miss it there. My daddy died when I was almost 4. He and my mama were soulmates... in fact she did not find love again until 3 years ago. I sincerely pray to God that I am not a senior citizen before I find my true love. I would like to find a man who takes the lead with our relationship. I do believe men and women are especially created to fill certain roles. I want a man who knows how to lead without controlling. I want and require a man who will adore me. I like a lot of attention and I'll let you know if I'm not getting enough or I'll simply lose interest. Any place that we can interact and get to know each other better is fine. Some things I like are nice restaurants, cafes, hole in the wall diners, Final Fridays, First Fridays, concerts, the zoos, museums, anything outdoors, extreme sports, movies (but not on the first couple dates), church, FLYING, and amusement parks.

  • Mia

    Online

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    So what is it that im suppose to write here... okay,.. I'm a Bulldogs fan, lets get that out of the way. I'm looking for somebody to make me happy, make me laugh,and trustworthy.I am NOT looking for 1 night stands, fun, or hanging out. I want somebody to settle down with. I would like to make friends along the way if things dont work.Im not the girl next door, just a country kinda gal that dont mind gettin mud on my shoes, (flops)..Just give me a fishing pole, bondfire, some country music and a bow... theres our first date! lol. Lemme know if your intrested. anything. it depends on the person. Im cool with walking along the park just talking about whatever comes to mind...

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