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Katee
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I am a divorced mother of three. I love to dance, shop, watch movies and my favorite shows, read, paint, write, draw, and try new things. By genetics I am very loyal to the Red Sox and Patriots (I would probably be disowned by my family if I wasn't!). My life tends to be complicated at times, but that's what makes it all an adventure. I never adhere to "chick rules" or "chick speak". I call it like I see it, say what I mean, and mean what I say. I am looking for someone with solid work/family balance. My faith is important to me so I expect my partner to have a strong faith of his own, but be a perfectly flawed somewhat sinful man as well (not looking for perfection, only perfect for me!) Looks are important as that is the obvious first attraction, so if you don't have a photo don't bother to write. However my tastes range from short and stocky to tall and slender. I am not looking to move quickly. I am looking to get to know someone without expectations but with an open mind. I'd like to meet for a drink and maybe dinner. Pretty traditional as far as first dates go. Dinner is great because it leaves plenty of room to get to know one another but has a time limit for a polite out if there is no chemistry. If there is chemistry dinner could always leave time for more such as a walk around the battery or the beach.
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Shantelle
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Let me just start with what I am looking for. I am pretty much an open book and open to meeting people. After doing some of this online dating stuff on and off for the last year, I have learned some things I want and I don’t want (I am sorry if any of this offends anyone, but I don’t want to give anyone a false sense of what I am interested in):1. I want someone who has an open mind when it comes to religion. If religion is a driving factor in your life, you are probably not the person for me.2. I love good conversation.3. I have teenagers. If you have young kids, I have been there and done that. I am all about spending time with kids (as I am very fond of mine...lol), but dating requires getting to know each other before getting to know the kids, so if finding child care for your young child is going to be difficult, then you may not be the right person for me.4. Again, I have two teenagers; I am not looking to have any more. If you want a baby, look elsewhere.5. Also, my kids have a dad. I am not looking to fill that role for them and I do not plan on filling a mommy role for yours.6. I have A LOT of male friends. If you are insecure and have trust issues, this may not be the relationship for you. I have never cheated in a relationship and I won’t cheat on you. 7. I am FAR from high maintenance, but if you can not invest your time and some finances in dating, I may not be your girl. I don’t need expensive dinners or gifts, but I do like doing things from time to time.8. I am independent. I have a good job and do not need someone to take care of me financially.9. I am looking for a guy to start as a friend and see where we go from there. I want someone to spend time with. 10. I am not looking for a hook up. I like to date, but I want more than just a casual fling.If you are still with me, then continue reading. I am a divorced mom of 2 fantastic girls (ages 15 and 12). I have many hobbies and likes, but I have a passion for good music. I have a preference for country music and I enjoy keeping up with new "up and coming" artists and listening to new music. I like pretty much all kinds of music, so I do have an open mind. I am a girl of the 80's and of course love the music of that decade. Outside of listening to music, I am a fan of my favorite sport, competitive cheerleading. Yes, it is a sport and my girls love their cheerleading. We spend a lot of time during the competition season at practices and competing. It's kind of addictive if you are not careful. I am also a certified SCUBA diver. I haven't been in the water for a few years and I could use an adventurous dive buddy!I love the mountains and the beach.5 years in NC). I didn't grow up with mountains or beaches, so those are things I love to have now. Of course I love going to see live music as well as concerts. I love a good dinner when I can get dressed up, or dressed down for a relaxed evening at home with a home cooked meal and a movie. Wanna know more...send me a message.
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Christeen
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
Hi :) I am looking for a confident , sweet, intelligent, funny guy who actually wants to meet and see where it goes. I do like to exchange a few messages before meeting just to break the ice.(you must have TIME to be in a relationship and be able to carry on a conversation)I am funny , smart, educated, good sense of style, musical, adventurous , MORMON, spontaneous . I love being outside , enjoying nature , skiing, swimming, hiking etc. I would like to travel , especially Europe. I DO NOT need a man, it's more for good conversation and to enhance my life. I will not settle for a lot at this point in my life and neither should you. However I don't over look people either, everyone has worth I believe in being kind to those around us you never know when the right person might come along. Attraction can grow over time when you get to know someone, don't write off the girl who was almost perfect just because of the way she looks. Turn offs:Liars, cheaters mustache (without the goatee), no humour , rude, six profiles on meetville ( I'm not an idiot ), pictures without your shirt ( I don't even know you but I know if you have an outtie yuck ) cowboys who live in the city ( honey if you don't have a horse you should not wear wranglers or boots ) shallow, men who are still boys ( I am already raising three boys ) bad comb overs ( your hair is gone it's not coming back - shave your head!) Jealous, reeks of alcohol but is not an alcoholic ( hmmm it is before noon ) Guy's who claim to want a serious relationship, and then do not seem to know how to go about it. Drugs, criminal records. Aggression out of the bedroom , does not know how to be social. Playboy wannabe's , the desire to always be right, unreasonable, closed minded. On a side note, I prefer your children be over the age of ten as mine are almost grown ( I would make an exception for the right person) , also if you have not sorted out the 'baby mama drama' I am not interested. BTW if you looked like Brad Pitt you'd be with Angelina Jolie, don't come on a date thinking you are a ten when you are twenty to thirty pounds over weight, bad hair and clothes and dis me when I've been honest from the start. REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS GUYS :) Turn On's :Confidence, nerds, knows what they want,nice shoes, bald, tall, brown eyes, smell great !!! Great family, kids, owning a pet, nice smile, direction, spontaneous, hard working, nice hands. Wit, intelligence, knows his own worth, HONEST, great smile, can handle me lol I do enjoy a cultured educated man, that has some travelling experience, knows a good book ( not just watched the movie ) I am not just interested in that though I will get dirty (quading , try hunting, etc. ) for the right person, compromise is big on my list.Please feel free to send me a message if I don't respond I am not interested. Also, if your entire focus is to be with a beautiful woman to hang off your arm don't bother messaging me. I believe in attraction but not into being a toy nor do I want to be with man that shallow that is NOT attractive. :) BTW I am not a ***girl and not interested in having that around me or my children, so skip to the next profile :) I didn't even know what that meant hahaSleeping around is GROSS I am not interested in a guy that jumps from bed to bed to increase his self esteem, know your worth not if you have an STD :) Hmm a few messages are fine but let's talk on the phone get to know each other and meet ! I would like to meet in an environment where we can talk and get to know one another. Perhaps coffee or a lunch date, a park, nothing noisy or distracting.NOTE : I am not interested in having a pen pal, *** endless talking on the phone, I want a relationship, if you do not want to get out and meet people why are you here?Also, I am a size 14 that means I have curves, boobs etc. I do not have a models body. Yes, I have things to work on nobody is perfect, are you?