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Ruthie, 36

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About Me

Hi ya! For starters, I actually look like my pictures. They are all recent and no, I haven't gained 50 pounds since they were taken. Whew! So now that's outta the way. So online dating, huh? The men are afraid to meet someone fat, and the ladies are afraid to meet a serial killer. meetville is chaotic at best. It's free, so I guess that's why you're here too and we all know that we get what we pay for. Sometimes, I find myself scratching my head at how nuts this site can be. Why am I still here then? Good question. I am convinced that I can't possibly be the only sane one. Maybe even the men will start wearing a shirt in all their pictures. A girl can dream, can't she? ;)In short I am looking for someone dynamic, witty, good hearted, emotionally mature, and adventurous that can keep up with me. I'll try most things at least once. I take good care of myself and expect that you haven't let yourself go. * I think bad boys are actually bad. * I do not think texting can replace a real conversation. * I am practical and non materialistic. I've always found flashiness to be a form of arrogance. * I don't wear make-up to run or work out. * Typically, I am attracted to Asian and Caucasian men. * I tend to move at a snail's pace when it comes to beginning a relationship. I need someone that is on the same page with me and treating me like a lady is definitely a must. * I am comfortable around all kinds of people and pride myself on being non judgmental. * I am constantly on a quest to be a 2.0 version of myself. * I am not afraid to get my hands dirtyHobbies/interests: reading, writing, running (love, love mud runs), jewelry design, exploring new places, rock climbing, extreme sports, drawing, trying new food, volunteering, traveling, photography, architecture.Goals: finish MA, perhaps PhD, work on bucket list, find someone fantastic to stand still with, and be the best mom ever (when I finally become one)! What makes me unique: I am super fun, warm hearted, witty, spunky, optimistic, practical but not materialistic, not afraid to get my hands dirty, and a self proclaimed bad ass. I also believe in giving back to the world. I think we all have a purpose and it is to leave the world just a little bit better than we found it.* in your message. Thanks for reading and good luck in your own search!***Coffee, after all it's just a meeting of sorts. No pressure and low key is the best approach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Desiree

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Im smart, educated and have had a lot of experiences. I have no children never been married. Have had several long term relationships that didn't lead to marriage for the right reasons.Im down to earth and I'm looking for someone similar. Confident, outgoing, intelligent. Knows how to talk and express themselves more than texting. Most men text, seldom can they call. Im too busy to correct autocorrect after typing out my thoughts and wait for a reply constantly to try to have a conversation, sorry. Texting has its purpose but not all the time to get to know someone or end things. Im spontaneous and prefer to "conversate" Im busy w nursing school looking to make friends and see where it goes. I believe it takes time to know someone. So lets take some time to just have some fun!I want to be attracted to someone for multiple reasons not just bc initially there is a spark. After I know someone well I still want there to be an attraction. A connection is great but im looking for more than hooking up. A few months ago I went zip lining, other interests include weights, swim, karaoke, dance, museum, jazz club, road trip, bbq, football party. These are some of the things I like to do...when I'm not doing the regular...school, sleep, school thing. Im pretty busy just to be up front about that. Only contact me for a date if you like dogs, you can not be a racist, must be down to earth..do not contact me or message me for sex. A first date could be walk around mall so we can talk, grab something to eat.

  • Margarita

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I enjoy spending time with friends. I work out and run often. I am currently in Graduate School, my goal is to open a functional program which would cater to families. I aspire to learn something new every day. I strive to teach something every day. I have a dry sense of humor. I am a soccer mom. Every time I leave the house, I usually forget something. I do not remember other people's birthdays and/or anniversary dates. (I try) Every thing in my home has a place, then I rearrange everything, which has a new place and no one can ever remember where to put things! Ha! I am really involved in my community. I am an advocate for women with substance use issues. I can be ditzy, I like to think it is an adorable quality. I enjoy traveling, going to live shows and small town festivals. My favorite place is the mountains.

  • Helene

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a very down to Earth kind of girl...not materialistic at all!! I enjoy going out, but can be just as content hanging out watching a movie and having dinner at home because, in my opinion, where you go or what you do is not nearly as important as who you are choosing to spend your time with. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends...it doesn't take much at all to make me happy! While I am not necessarily looking for a serious relationship, I'm not completely opposed to it either if someone comes along that sweeps me off my feet and is my "" I enjoy watching any kind of movies except scary/horror (they make me have nightmares) and can listen to a wide variety of music...just depends on my mood really. If you want to know anything else, just ask... Hmmm....this is a tough one! Anytime you spend time doing something with someone, mutual interests should be a factor. Finding something to do for a first date would definitely need to be given some thought so that both myself and the guy can have a good time and feel more comfortable. So, I am open to suggestions.....

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