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Trudy, 40

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About Me

I am a spirited, spontaneous and intelligent. No one has ever described me as shy.... I have always been a one man type gal. I have had several serious long relationships and now I have determined I must be a "bad picker". I am loyal to a fault and have high standards, I expect as much out of the person I am with as I give. If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship... On the lighter side...I love horses, music (although I can't really sing) and a good mental sparring match.If you want a pen pal, don't bother or waste my time.....I have great friends and do not want a "virtual relationship"...it irks me...If I don't respond it means I am not interested, I don't like to hurt someone's feelings...there are no good words for rejection....emailing me a second time will only get you blocked.If you only write the word Hi in your first ***, it doesn't matter how much of a match we may be, I will not respond...effort given = effort received.If your from another country please do not write me and try to convince me that a long distance relationship could work...it will never happen..just saying. I want the man to blow my mind. I am the type of girl that believes it doesn't matter what you do, it matters who you are with. I love to try new things..as opposed to revisitng the same thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pamela

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I want to enjoy this life and have no regrets at the end of the day. I can be shy but I can also speak my mind. I am almost always open to trying and doing new things whether it's a new adventure, food etc. I love animals, the beach and rock music. Would rarely give up a chance to go see a concert and have been to many. I have a few tattoos, want more and love a guy with NICE tattoos as well. And no you don't have to have a tattoo. After being on this site for a few months I have found it necessary to make the following statement: If it is your intent to ask for nude photos, talk dirty, you're looking solely for sex etc then move the *** on...I have heard there are plenty of bimbos on here to take you up on your offer. I'm not one of them....Oh and one final note so as not to waste your time or mine, if you are a progressive liberal and/or voted for Obama and don't regret it, I can assure you that we will not get along

  • Laurel

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ***Anyone looking for a girlfriend here? I want to meet and find a boyfriend, NOT a phone friend!! UPDATE: ***DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE MISSING YOUR TEETH AND OR HAVE NO JOB!please do not set up a meet and greet and not have told me your missing your teeth or that you currently do not work either one!!!Does anyone on here actually wanna meet or are you all just about txting and ***?? im on here to MEET?!?!? Do NOT message me if you dont have your photo on here... I am wanting to meet a WHITE, TALL, LOCAL, and NICE MAN. MAN meaning not in your 20's, I have grandchildren and 21year old child. ***please. White men only please, no one short as me and at least a bit taller. I pay my own way in life and I'm not looking for anyone to pay my way... Tall... Not short...and please if you've been convicted of child molestation, move on... Even if you were convicted but innocent. That sickened me!! So please guys, keep it respectful and respect my wishes. Good luck!! meet for coffee, a drink, a walk...just meet!!! WITH A LOCAL MAN, NOT A BOY and THAT IS WHITE and NOT SHORT!

  • Lily

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Please take note...,, I am not looking for casual sex or friends with benefits! If you are still interested continue.I have been off and on this sight longer than I care to mention. I have been on a few dates but so far haven't got the right "catch"! I am really hoping to find the perfect "catch," for me, that is, so I can delete this profile for good! I really want to meet someone who likes to have fun and is affectionate. I am so ready to find happiness in a relationship and share my life with the right someone. I have CURVES, CONFIDENCE & BRAINS. If you are afraid or intimidated by any of these, move on! I want to buy a motorcycle and learn to ski. I guess this is my bucket list. My faith is very important to me and in no way I claim to be perfect but I do try to make good choices and learn from my mistakes. I am not looking for marriage (not right now, anyway), I am independent, pay my own bills and although I am no Barbie doll, I am not ugly either. If you think you can handle a good time with a lot of fun, drop me a line. If you check out my profile and are looking for a friend, say hi! I promise not to bite, at least on the first date! Happy Fishing First date can include anything. I have an open mind. I like to have fun, concerts, drives to no where, amusement parks, anything that makes me laugh, including conversation with the right person. If you know how to have fun, feel free to drop me a line.

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