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Trudy, 40

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About Me

I am a spirited, spontaneous and intelligent. No one has ever described me as shy.... I have always been a one man type gal. I have had several serious long relationships and now I have determined I must be a "bad picker". I am loyal to a fault and have high standards, I expect as much out of the person I am with as I give. If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship... On the lighter side...I love horses, music (although I can't really sing) and a good mental sparring match.If you want a pen pal, don't bother or waste my time.....I have great friends and do not want a "virtual relationship"...it irks me...If I don't respond it means I am not interested, I don't like to hurt someone's feelings...there are no good words for rejection....emailing me a second time will only get you blocked.If you only write the word Hi in your first ***, it doesn't matter how much of a match we may be, I will not respond...effort given = effort received.If your from another country please do not write me and try to convince me that a long distance relationship could work...it will never happen..just saying. I want the man to blow my mind. I am the type of girl that believes it doesn't matter what you do, it matters who you are with. I love to try new things..as opposed to revisitng the same thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Danielle

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi there. So, about me….Well I just turned 39 but most days I feel that is simply impossible because I am still 20 ish lol Ok a girl can dream. But honestly I try to stay young and live life to the fullest.I am a recent empty nester. My 20 year old daughter just moved out. For the first time in my life, it’s all about me. I am a self-sufficient princess/tomboy…yep, both, swear true story. I love my fun make-up and hair and nails and all those girly things but I am the first one to kick off my shoes and play in the mud. I have a very demanding career so my free time during the week is limited. I certainly make up for it on the weekends. I work hard so I can play harder.I am outgoing and spontaneous and love adventures. I have no idea who I want to be when I grow up. I used to be Suzy homemaker but now that it is just me, I’m kind of in a transition period and living like an overworked bachelor LOL I think I would like to fall somewhere in between…..Suzy homemaker with an edge ?I want a man who works hard. I don’t care what you do for a living or how much money you make as long as at the end of the day, you are proud of who you are. A sense of humor is an absolute must with me; keep me on my toes. I beat to my own drum and want a man who does so too. Normal is boring. So if you are interested in there never being a dull moment in life, message me and let’s go skydiving! We can decide that if we make it past hello :-)

  • Dena

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    This is getting really old, I guess I need to list the things I cannot deal with:if you are "going through a divorce", still in love with your X or been hurt to the point you can't move forward than I am not interested. Everyone has been hurt, we need to move forward. I have been cheated on and lied to. I also have dealt with all the situations listed above. I am too old for games, I am looking for someone to grow old with. I love to laugh, I have a good sense of humor, I love to play poker too.I live alone, have a dog and a job that I have been at for 14 years. I do not have kids but I do love kids. If you want to know more send me a message...

  • Nellie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a compassionate person, understanding person. Have two boys that live with me. Family and friends very important to me.

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