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Colette, 38

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About Me

I will try and keep this short,I'm a single Mom with 2 girls. I'm doing it by myself w/ very little help from either of their dads. I have a great life, great kids, great family and a few great friends. I don't "NEED" to be in a relationship, it would be nice to start sharing this wonderful life w/someone but I don't have to. I'm very content and very independent. I'm confident and I know just what I want and I won't settle for less. I'm single because I won't just settle to have someone in my life. I want that best friend that makes me smile when I need to smile most, the one that will be by my side when I need him. A little more about me, there are 2 things I don't put up with; Lying/Liars and Laziness. I don't have the patience for either. I'm one of the most honest people you will meet. I'm the one that will say what everyone else wants to say. I take care of myself, I workout ***days a week (if you have never worked out and its obvious you have not pls do NOT send me a message) sorry but I am not attracted to couch potatoes or large men. May be blunt but I'm here to meet people not play games. With my recent move to MN i have been busy and am spending more time on my bike and with family. There's so much more I can say about me but too much to put in words and people stop reading. One last major part of my life is my family, mom, brother, sister in law, sister and I are all very close. My family has always been here for me and always will be, so the man I end up with will need to fit in comfortably. We love the outdoors and spend a lot of time outside doing anything from biking, boating, music in te park or even grilling and sitting around the fire pit.Lets move on to the guy I see myself with some day, it doesn't have to be married. I'm fine w/o all that but I'm not opposed to it either. The first thing I notice is looks, who doesn't, there HAS to be an attraction or there is nothing. Personality is extremely important, I want someone that can take a joke, that can be silly and have fun, yet serious when needed. I want to find that one that makes sparks fly, the one that eventually cares about me the same as I do them. If you are looking for a friends w/ benefits relationship or you are using this site to "get some" move along, I'm NOT interested! I will leave it *** that, I'm an open book so if you have questions just ask me. (I feel as if I need to emphasis w/ Caps since there are those out there that don't take the hints).****UPDATE****No picture odds are favorable you won't get a response! Its not so much what we do of the 1st date but w/ whom I'm with. It's nice to have someone that can speak and isn't afraid to share some personal information to show me he's interested. I can have fun doing anything so I'm up for whatever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    looking to date first and see wher it goes from there....id like to find someone to spend time with and enjoy everything life has to offer....if we dont hit it off as a couple then at least u have a new friend my first date would be dinner and a movie....a walk on the beach.....or just meet somewhere for a drink and chat and get to know eachother and take it from there!!!

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Just ask ......its difficult to find honest people so if you are not trustworthy do not contact me. I was raised in a small town in the country so am def a country girl at heart. I love being active and athletic and love the outdoors. I get bored easily so love to be spontaneous. Something fun relaxed and comfortable.

  • Gracie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    As of today, July 29, ***, I am updating my profile. I have a request of those who see my photo and/or read my profile and want to meet me: In addition to selecting the option that you want to meet me, please send me a message as well. That way, the ice is broken right away and we can start a conversation right off the bat. I don't usually respond to the requests to meet me. I am likely to reply to those who send a message. If nothing else, just say hi, or say hi and that you'd like to meet me or get to know me. Don't be shy. Subtlety is okay in some situations, but I prefer people to be direct and not hide behind a hint. Thanks for taking time to read the note I've added to my profile information.I am looking for an honest, patient, semi old fashioned guy, who likes cooking, dancing, romance (candlelight, dinner, flowers, etc. [not sex]). I am looking for a man who is not looking for sex. I have semi old fashioned, moral views of sex. I am against sex between people who are not married to each other. I won't have sex with anyone without marrying them first. Anyone who is looking for sex can come right out and say that's what they are looking for and then move on and keep looking. They aren't going to get sex from me because I don't put out. "I'm a person, not a toy. If a 'plaything' is what you are looking for, I suggest an electronic gadget or an automobile." If you are looking for a companion and equal partner to make important decisions with, complete large and small tasks with, and have open communication with, whom you wish to treat with respect, then I'm all ears, let's hear about it. I am a worthwhile human being and I deserve to be treated with respect. I am not perfect, by any means. I have problems, granted. Don't we all?I am looking for someone who good marriage material. I have been married once and left my ex-husband in ***. I am looking to get married a second time. If you are not marriage minded and just want to date or have a long-term relationship without getting married, please be up front about that and say so. I am open to meeting people even if they don't want to get married, I just prefer to date marriage-minded gentlemen.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I appreciate the fact that you took the time to do so. I don't meet guys alone. I have a chaperon with me. So far, my father has been my chaperon. If that makes you nervous, then you probably have something to hide and I probably shouldn't go out with you.

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